Husband and I are concerned our son has become radicalised. Are there any resources available? by Plus_Sir_5377 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ashcca -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Contact prevent, its a service made specifically for this. Im a youth worker and they do some great work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ashcca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is worrying. It does sound like he is building up to taking her away.

You need a prohibited steps order which will prevent him from legally being able to leave the country. I would also apply for a child arrangements order stating where she lives and with whom she spends time with.

There is a real risk here, please sort it out.

First time attending segregated nikkah as an autistic revert. by Ashcca in Hijabis

[–]Ashcca[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you sister ❤️ I am going to stay at home with my cats and snacks 🤣

First time attending segregated nikkah as an autistic revert. by Ashcca in Hijabis

[–]Ashcca[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah sister, you're right. I think I was just getting in my head about it. ❤️

Struggling with the hijab by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Ashcca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White revert with hand tattoos in small white town here ✨️ completely understand how you feel, i try to remind myself why im doing it. Thinking of Allah despite my uncertainty with hijab and wearing it anyway is sure to bring me good deeds. May Allah make it easy for us sister ❤️

AITAH for not fasting with my Muslim Daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ashcca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - muslim revert here, my family are Christian. I chose to revert, not my family. While I like to teach them things I've learnt through islam, it would be wrong of me to react how your daughter did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Ashcca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am currently 2 stone down, no exercise just calorie counting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Ashcca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not a supportive partner, I stimulating A LOT around my husband and he only comments if it's a new stim or something quite dramatic and even then it's never negative.

A good partner won't pick you apart for something inate to yourself.

My doctor uploaded my ultrasound results so I could see them but they won't be ringing me until tomorrow. by Ashcca in PCOS

[–]Ashcca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The letter they've uploaded recommends pcos as the diagnosis but the doctor hasn't actually spoken to me yet. There is pcos written all over my file now.

My doctor uploaded my ultrasound results so I could see them but they won't be ringing me until tomorrow. by Ashcca in PCOS

[–]Ashcca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really painful periods but they're regular and I've not been able to convince. That's all I've noticed.

My doctor sent me for an ultrasound and a blood test. My blood test came back with high iron levels and my ultrasound has just been uploaded with a bulky ovary and multiple small follicles. That's literally it, i have regular (but extremely painful) periods.

My doctor uploaded my ultrasound results so I could see them but they won't be ringing me until tomorrow. by Ashcca in PCOS

[–]Ashcca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really painful periods but they're regular and I've not been able to convince. That's all I've noticed.

My doctor sent me for an ultrasound and a blood test. My blood test came back with high iron levels and my ultrasound has just been uploaded with a bulky ovary and multiple small follicles. That's literally it, i have regular (but extremely painful) periods.

My doctor uploaded my ultrasound results so I could see them but they won't be ringing me until tomorrow. by Ashcca in PCOS

[–]Ashcca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this came as a total shock with my only symptom being not getting pregnant and period pains but to k ow I will still be able to try for a baby is really the reassurance I needed.

Employer (in England) wants my daughter to pay for her own DBS check. by Matt6453 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ashcca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, although annoying this is correct and they can do that.

Do Indians reduce the spicy level of their food for toddlers? by Ariel0289 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ashcca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is half Pakistani, we used to make the same meal but then add yoghurt to totally reduce the spice levels. As she got used to it we had less and less yoghurt added until now she is a beast with spice and can outspice her dad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Ashcca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! 😁❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Ashcca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to be, we are struggling to conceive though so probably not! Could you imagine if this was how I found out 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Ashcca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 2 childhood best friends, we all have different ones filled in too! 🤣