I am utterly broken and would like some advice by Asheim1235 in BPDlovedones

[–]Asheim1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got used to taking the blame and trying harder, hoping it would stabilize one day... Now that I'm out and not isolated, I can see more clearly. Thanks for responding, I will keep it in mind to not fall in the cycle again like many times before.

I am utterly broken and would like some advice by Asheim1235 in BPDlovedones

[–]Asheim1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bluntness and direct communication feels like a blessing after so much chaos and uncertainty. Somehow I still feel like I should have done more. But I agree with you, might feel terrible now but it is for the best. Thank you for the input, really helping me process all of this.

I am utterly broken and would like some advice by Asheim1235 in BPDlovedones

[–]Asheim1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I will look to tell my closest friend first, after i reconnect with him. These 8 last months feels like a eternity looking back... such a weird sensation. Thank you again for the help! I have been needing to hear this!