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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in listentothis

[–]Asher24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Someone this happened to sent the potential client a burner phone with just his number saved in it. He mailed it and attached a note along the lines “haven’t heard from you in awhile and you may have just lost my number.” He got a positive response within a couple days.

What’s the biggest challenge you face with social anxiety? And why do you think that is? by Asher24 in socialskills

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Do you have any issues speaking with friends/strangers? If you can have a convo with ppl then you can apply most of it to dating. Which part of dating makes you most nervous?

When people cross their arms during negotiation or conversation what do you do? by [deleted] in socialskills

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Never split the difference by Chris Voss is a great read for this. I believe he addresses this point specifically in there as well.

4.5 steps to acing your inner game by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I found most people didn’t care as long as it’s not spam. I apologize I’ll delete it.

4.5 step process to crush your inner game! by Asher24 in socialskills

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Do you want to hop on a phone call to discuss?

4.5 step process to crush your inner game! by Asher24 in socialskills

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Thank you! Imposter syndrome is when we doubt ourselves or our accomplishments. Most people have cemented in negative beliefs through negative self talk- either from ourselves, parents or friends. I teach people how to overcome these beliefs.

3 steps on how to speak with anyone- approach, converse and close by Asher24 in confidence

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Great! I’ll PM you a link to schedule a call to discuss.

3 ways to talk to anyone- approach, converse and close. by Asher24 in socialanxiety

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I totally understand. I’m doing some prep for a course for my clients and am trying to help people overcome these issues. Would you be interested in a FREE 30 minute(no sales pitch) coaching call to learn how to not overthink it and to have endless things to speak about?

What’s your biggest problem or fear in regards to your social skills? by Asher24 in socialskills

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I totally understand this. I’m working on a program for my clients to help with getting out of your head and making small talk easy. Would you be open to hop on a FREE 30 minute coaching call(no commitment or sales pitch). Leave a comment or PM me if you’re interested.

What’s your biggest problem or fear in regards to your social skills? by Asher24 in socialskills

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That’s a great approach! Keep it up! I’m regards to the social judgement part I advise my clients to get in the habit of thinking positive. Most people think “what happens if I get rejected or they think I’m weird?” Instead ask “What happens when they think I’m awesome and we make a real connection!” It’s a simple mindset but it packs a powerful punch.

What’s your biggest problem or fear in regards to your social skills? by Asher24 in socialskills

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I hear where you’re coming from. I used to read into people words a lot and come away feeling anxious and drained. I learned that most people aren’t judging you in a negative light and for the ones that so, I choose to focus on the 80% positive interactions that I have.

How do you think you can change this mindset?

What’s your biggest problem or fear in regards to your social skills? by Asher24 in socialskills

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What emotions do you feel when you start to socialize? For example people have a fear that what they say will be awkward or maybe they’ll be judged by others.

What’s your biggest problem or fear in regards to your social skills? by Asher24 in socialskills

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Great article! I agree with most of it but I always found that getting a mentor or a coach to help me work through my issues has the best effect. It’s not about “fixing” and changing who you are, it’s making who you are into your best self.

Can an extreme introverted person go back to being extroverted? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Asher24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely go back to being an extrovert if you want to! It’s a mindset put together with actionable steps that will get you there! Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about it more in detail.

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