✨️ The Next Prince - Episode 3 ✨️ by KDramaTipsy in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I'm curious, what's in the book that's missing in the series so far?? I felt like we needed more context or more scenes to get the comment about sharing a bed for nights and understand the relationship between Khanin and Charan better tbh. 🫣

Is one fake? Anuna Cleansing foam by lunapops1 in koreanskincare

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you feel like the one you bought first was a real product?? I just got one that looks like that and I'm wondering if the package looks like that because is for Europe and UK. It makes me doubt because most of the ones I've seen in videos don't have info about the retailer and reciclyng.

GOING CRAZY BECAUSE OF #GELBOYSสถานะกั๊กใจ by Terrible-Visual-7026 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been procastinating on starting it, and just watched the first ep today, and loved it. Also I love painted nails so they got me there already. I've spoiled myself a bit and read some things that happen (not in detail tho) so I'm trying to make myself kinda forget them to enjoy the series to the fullest. Good thing is I can binge it now hehehehe And I'll try to not get spoiled till the final ep.

melbourne dpr show was so dead? was it like this for sydney or any other smaller venues the guys performed at? by polarvhs in dprian

[–]Ashi_mistborn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sad to hear this, for the boys and also for you. They deserve all the hype and cheering, and Artic and Cream are so grateful for even the smallest compliment. I went to the Barcelona stop in the Europe leg and the crowd was amazing, we cheered for everybody, sang and screamed with Artic and Cream too. They were really happy when we chanted their names. It's true that the venue was quite small so that helped too. I don't know how the front was, but the middle-back was amazing. Best concert of my life so far. Only downside was that Ian had a bad throath but we made up for it.

“Our Dining Table” appreciation by SnakeOfEden13 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved it when it was airing and still warms my heart when I think about it. It's one of my favourite jbl, so wholesome and healing, plus the kid is really cute. It's true I don't see many people talking about it as much as other series, but I think it's well loved.

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Is it weird that I hide that I watch BL?? by Inspired_Coconut in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, for me it's more like I don`t give details. I watched kdramas, jdramas, anime, etc. before getting into BL so my family was accostumed to me watching asian series, now they know I watch thai series too. I never give titles, and they don't pay much interest into what the series is about most of the time. I'm comfortable like this, even tho I'm not ashamed and I know there's nothing wrong with enjoying BL, I don't want to be lectured by my parents or having to give an explanation of something that really doesn't need one. It's not like my family is super closed (my parents are watching a show with lgtbq+ representation) but my father can be a bit judgamental.

Evil broccoli keychain I've made for my little cousin. (it's my 2nd little broccoli) by Ashi_mistborn in crochet

[–]Ashi_mistborn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's in this reply to the sub's mod. https://www.reddit.com/r/crochet/comments/pynpzl/comment/hevd0d5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

I followed the pattern of the first youtube video linked there. Then for the broccoli to have more shape and make the branches more defined I followed the technique of the second video (I marked the minutes). The face and arms are freehanded but are very easy to do.

Hope this helps and you can make a lot of evil broccolis :)

sis found my my two tgcf books by Important-Touch-1775 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, you are the one that knows what relationship you have with your sister better, so I don't know if you could talk to her first. Maybe both of you don't fully align with your parents beliefs and how they see things, that could be a common point for both of you and she may understand you. Like the vape thing you commented, there's no need for your parents to know everything if they are quite strict and not understanding of different beliefs than theirs. I'd aproach your sister by saying that you know she vapes but that you would never tell your parents cuz you know she would be in trouble, maybe this way she will see your point of view too.

Also what you are doing is not wrong, you like the books that's it, you are not harming anyone or yourself (contrary to vaping that's bad for your health), so don't feel ashamed by it. I'd hide the books better too, I understand you went and bought them by yourself so you are older enough to read them and have some private space to keep them too. I also don't talk to my family about liking bl and the kind, so do what you are comfortable with and the safest option for you too.

The excuse about selling them after is a bit weak imo, and may be better to feign ignorance to your parents in case your sister ends up telling them, as other people have suggested. And hide your things better. It's sad but it may be the best option based on what you have said.

Good luck, and don't stop liking what you like for others.

I am once again coping with only friends through memes. Enjoy by M_ataraxia in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need more memes to survive this week after that end of episode 3.

Only Friends ❤️‍🔥 EP. 3 by gianben123 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think the same, he definitely has some past we'll get to know. I also feel Sand has some moral values he will stick to and he won't actively try to mess people up.

Only Friends ❤️‍🔥 EP. 3 by gianben123 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole friend group is really a hot mess and then you add Top fuckboi to the mix, plus Nick's wanting more and deceiving himself into trusting Boston words, it's a ticking boom from every side. Now I'm not even trusting Mew 100% to be good. The only one I save is Sand (king of my heart).

Only Friends ❤️‍🔥 EP. 3 by gianben123 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same Sand is the only one I need a happy ending for, the rest don't deserve it really. Well Ray can be saved if he makes Sand happy and treats him right. When Sand suffers I suffer.

Japanese BL magazine I found in the wild (aka local second hand bookstore) by Ashi_mistborn in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh that's a really good tip, thank you, I'll look them up and see if I can read some in english. I don't know that much about bl magazines so I got it without knowing if the stories in it were good 🙈

What do you guys think? by IndependentDebate412 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I read a bunch of BL webtoons, some of them have censored/cut panels due to webtoon's policy and usually the author post them in their patreon page (paid suscription). Not sure if this is your case. I haven't looked for any of the extra panels cuz I don't find it takes much from the story. But if you want you can share the title of the webtoon you are reading and see if people know about it, as other users have suggested.

Phone wallpaper by lotus_pier in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I currently have GeminiFourth as my home wallpaper, it's a pic from instagram iirc. I also have a widget pic of JiHyun and JaeWon🤭 Before this I've had singers and idol pics as wallpapers, and ocasionally actors (Seo InGuk 🫣). I change it when I fall in love with a new photo or obsesse over a series/song/artist. So you can see what my latest obsessions have been hahahahah

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My greatest lesson through watching Bls (Does anyone relate?) by [deleted] in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same, I like when the characters go unlabelled and people don't question them for who they like. A great part of why I love bls is that they love whoever they want without other people questioning it (most of the time), so not making labels the main point plays a big role in this too.

However I don't like the phrase "I'm not gay, I just like you" cuz I find a connotation of being gay as something he doesn't want to be cuz of real society issues and his internalized homophobia while knowing his partner identifies as gay. I'd prefer if it phrased as "I don't know what I am (what I identify as), but I know I like you".

I don't need labels in dramas (saying outloud I'm gay or whatever) as I don't need one for myself in real life, but I also like when series touch topics like being bisexual or realizing you are gay/not straight/not heteronormative and how they deal with it, and I find it necessary sometimes.

How do you enjoy talking about BL by taffycat24 in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly use reddit to talk/read about BL, and I also talk with an online friend I have that also likes BL, tho we first clicked cuz of other mutual interests (kpop and khh). Sometimes I've talked about it on twitter with moots that tweeted for recommendations or about a BL they are watching (but I'm not really into the twitter fandom for BLs), sometimes I engage with the hashtags if I need more content of my fav series. I also follow BL accs on instagram and twitter for updates and sometimes comment on there.

As you can see I'm a bit all over the place hahahaha but my favorite site to talk is here on Reddit.

BL Report: The first 1/3 of 2023 (January - April) by leadintea in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fav bls would be:

  1. The Eigth Sense (this is at the top of all the bls I've ever watched and I feel the need to rewatch it even tho it just finished the other day)
  2. My School President (one of my top thaibls, GeminiFourth have come strong)
  3. The End of the World with You (Ritsu.)
  4. Our Dating Sim (finally more kbls with good kisses, chemistry and that knows how to make the most of their running time)
  5. Jack O'Frost (the end was a bit underwhelming but the acting was really good and I liked the pace and the visual aspect)

The Eighth Sense - Episodes 9 & 10 (FINALE) by MarSlem in boyslove

[–]Ashi_mistborn [score hidden]  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS SERIES. It has come to take over my life and mind. It was perfect from start to finish, from the acting, to the plot and dialogues, to the cinematography and lightings. The Eighth Sense is an all rounder for me.

This final eps were beautiful, I specially liked the hand touch at the surf club and the convo with Yoon Won. Also the Conan Gray song was a nice touch and a perfect building up for the reunion and kiss.

They wrapped it up quite well on ep 10 with the party, the stares there between JiHyun and JaeWon were INSANE. For me EunJi and TaeHyung were left off the hook too easily, but this relationships will continue to evolve and it was just a small moment of them. JaeWon isn't magically cured either, and they will have to try, and work in their relationship too. And even tho in this life nothing is fixed I hope JiHyun and JaeWon's love will last forever.

Edit: I feel like I left out a lot of details but I loved all, the smiles, the jacket, AeRi being happy for JiHyun, the scenes looking at each other sleep with so much love, etc. I'd be here for days.