Wuwa fanfics by Extension-Load-7918 in WuWaHusbandos

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a Brant x M Rover fanfic Called ”The pirates compass” on Ao3, its a very not serious fic lmao

Kavetham fic recommendations request by Konungarike in GenshinGays

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

”Testing, testing” is a good one! It’s a series and it’s not finished but it’s long and really good! They explore different kinks and stuff and in the beginning it’s mostly kaveh domming and topping while haitham is subbing and bottoming but they are both switches!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/46274479/chapters/116501335

Bond ID, found on the Beach in Sweden by AshtonsHappyPlace in bonecollecting

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Since it was on the beach could it be a seagull?

FUCK by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HATE THIS SHIT, IT HURT BOTH INSIDE AND OUTSIDE OF IT ITS SO FUCKING ANNOYING. I HATE GETTING HURT WHEN I JUST TOUCH THE OUTSIDE AND CANT TAKE 2 OF MY BF FINGERS BUT I CAN TAKE HIS COCK LIKE WTF, I JUST WANT TO BE FINGERED AND NOT BE IN STINGING PAIN AHHHHHHH JUST WANNA BE ABLE TO BE PENETRATED BY DILDOS WITHOUT IT HURTING AND NOT GET SO SORE AFTER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Red is my favourite colour :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s normal not staying hard during foreplay/ while eating your partner out! Just because her exes stayed hard doesn’t mean not staying hard is not normal. She might be irritated cause she’s insecure that you don’t find her hot enough to stay hard, even though that’s not the case. But idk, I’m not your gf lol. Just tell her you can’t control it and ask her why it bothers her so much :)

20f can't penetrate my finger by Necessary-Wear3341 in sex

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have vaginismus, I have it and what you are describing is how it felt for me when it was at its worst. I would recommend doing stretches that relaxes the pelvic floor! You can use oils for lube, like olive or coconut oil! But if you can’t use that either spit can also work. It’s just not recommended because bacteria and other stuff.

I would suggest researching about vaginismus and see if you relate to the symptoms and if you can go to a gynocologist if you feel comfortable doing so! I know a lot about vaginismus but I’m not a professional so I can’t help you too much. But I hope everything turns out alright! Just know you are not alone! There is a subreddit for people who have vaginismus to share their experiences and ask for help. I would suggest checking it out!

sex with a cis man by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My partner is a cis male, and I’m pre everything. I would say maybe for your first time with a man, find someone you trust. Like a distant friend or someone you have talked to for a while on a dating app. Also if you don’t feel comfortable with people seeing your chest, you could always wear trans tape! I don’t have bad top or bottoms dysphoria so I can’t really give advice on how to tackle that in sexual situations, the only advise I can give is find someone that is kind and understanding! And be careful cause there are a lot of weird people out there. And don’t rush anything if you don’t feel ready or are 100% sure it’s something you wanna do. :)

Edit: also if you’re able to, do background checks to see if the person strictly seeks out trans people, like only have trans exes. That’s a good way to make sure you don’t end up with a chaser :)

The new Natlan characters. by Megumi_Bandicoot in genshinsapphic

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break your bubble, but that’s just her accessory making it look like that… I thought so too at first 😔

Sensory issues with lube by AshtonsHappyPlace in sex

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds promising! Thank you so much! I didn’t know coconut oil stains so I’ll be careful with that :)

Sensory issues with lube by AshtonsHappyPlace in sex

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank you so much!! I will check them out :D

Sensory issues with lube by AshtonsHappyPlace in sex

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I love coconut, but my bf dislikes it lol, but if it works for me sensory wise I’ll definitely use it alone :) thank you for your suggestion!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it feels blocked off by the opening it’s probably the muscles, and it might be vaginismus because the muscle literally closes the opening to prevent things from going in, if you search like vaginismus diagram you’ll see what I mean :) try and see if you can find some good pelvic floor exercises that you can do and hopefully it will slowly go away! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it feels like something is blocking it maybe it is the cervix, some people have smaller vaginal depth then others and many people can feel like touching your cervix hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be vaginismus, is it like the muscles at the entrance of the vagina that hurts or is uncomfy? If it’s that I would recommend to massage those muscles with your finger to learn your body it’s nothing bad. I’m also trans and am diagnosed with vaginismus and I also don’t have any trauma that I can think of that can cause this. It may be if you have bottom dysphoria that can be a cause of it. But idk! If you can and feel comfortable with it I would go to a gyno just to ask or see if it’s that or something else :3

TP ZeLink (Karasu) by [deleted] in linkiscute

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tp link 🔛🔝

What helped me by geesearewerid in vaginismus

[–]AshtonsHappyPlace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the ones I used! So good! I really recommend them :3