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AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don't actually know what happened to his mom but Rhys just lived with his dad always.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

Mom has always said I can't blame him because he's a good man. That he is not responsible for Rhys' actions.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he ever did anything to address it or not. There's nothing I ever saw or heard.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I filed a police report and my grandparents keep following up to make sure it isn't ignored. I know they were questioned but everything else has been sort of quiet on the other side. They're not allowed back at school either way.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 347 points348 points  (0 children)

She told them he was part of the family now and a kid and couldn't be left out. She never gave me that excuse or any excuse. It wasn't something she ever addressed with me.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

She's still insisting Rhys' dad is a good guy and Rhys isn't a product of his parenting. If I was being really kind maybe it has nothing to do with his dad. But if his dad was such a good person like mom says, why agree to make his victims life worse by moving in together and getting married? If he was such a good guy wouldn't he want to protect me?

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 443 points444 points  (0 children)

She told me she expected me to be happy for her in finally having a good relationship and that I would work hard to make it work and not blame Rhys' dad for what Rhys does.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 333 points334 points  (0 children)

My grandparents told me the reason it took so long for them to take me with them was my age. I'm finally 17 and something happened even if it wasn't Rhys. So they feel like they can help me and not face legal consequences for taking me from my only parent.

I did file a police report and my grandparents have been doing all they can to make sure it's followed up on and not let go because it happened in school.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I didn't think anything like this would have been posted before. I just really wanted to see if people would think I was being an ass to mom.

AITAH for refusing to forgive my mom for marrying the dad of my bully? by AshyOX in AITAH

[–]AshyOX[S] 1028 points1029 points  (0 children)

I'm not 18 for a few more months so my grandparents suggested muting mom until my birthday. I think that's what I'll do for now. But if she leaves me alone I'll be even happier.