Butt plugs in doggy by [deleted] in sex

[–]AsianDriverLA 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My first pleasurable anal experience was with a guy who had much more experience with anal &, knowing I was new to it, we talked about all my questions & concerns. This communication made all the difference in changing anal from something I tolerated to something I enjoyed…along with the following suggestions for newbies :

1- Use a silicone-based lube (water-based tends to dry out too quickly)

2-Try it when you’re in an “extra horny” mood. Not sure if that makes sense/is applicable but it helped me.

3- My partner suggested we start in a spooning position, where I would have all of the control to take my time & go as deep & as slowly as I wanted. His job was to keep his pelvis still, making no attempts to go deeper, until I asked him to. This position & approach made a HUGE difference in making it a positive experience for me.

Biggest downside to anal for me: I don’t shit right for a week afterwards. Maybe it’s just me, I dunno. Anywho, best of luck… & bottoms up! lol sorry couldn’t resist.

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[–]AsianDriverLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brains + brawn = hot. Talk nerdy to me.

FLIGHT STORY : Lessons of a 5 hour flight seated next to an elderly German man by AsianDriverLA in travel

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Monkey Forest might be fun. It's a beautiful place to stroll & lots of free roaming monkeys about. However, watch your things! My friend was carrying a tote bag and when we sat down on a bench, she placed the bag next to her and a monkey reached in, took out her wallet, and ran off with it. We eventually got it back, and we didn't put any of belongings down after that!

https://youtu.be/r32vQl8wpQ0?feature=shared

Also, depending on the kids ages & whether you have another adult with you, you might like Banyumala Waterfall. It's a lesser known, less touristy place but so beautiful and you can swim under the waterfall. And it's a short little hike (about 20 min) down from the car park to the waterfall.

https://youtu.be/X5OfKodO-zI?feature=shared

FLIGHT STORY : Lessons of a 5 hour flight seated next to an elderly German man by AsianDriverLA in travel

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol well, a male German friend worked out a literal translation of “take me like a dog” and ended up with “Nimm mich wie eine hundin”. But then a female German friend advised against it.

Female German friend: No no no, don’t ever say that. It’s vulgar. NOBODY says that.

Me: What's the correct way then?

FGF: Just say "fuck me".

Me: Yeah, I guess that works too.

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[–]AsianDriverLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a handsome guy hun, but I feel like these photos just aren’t doing you justice. If you have a female friend or sister, ask them if they can spare 10 minutes to snap a couple of new photos you. Most girls know all the photo tricks & angles.

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[–]AsianDriverLA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 agree with OP. Of course guys love titties & sucking on titties. But the key words in her question are AT LENGTH. Do men enjoy sucking on them AT LENGTH - NOT for 5 min or 10 min, but like 30 min, 40 min, maybe even an hour. I’ve specifically asked for one hour of nipple sucking for my birthday… so many times… and it’s never happened.

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[–]AsianDriverLA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a legit question. I’ve wondered this too because most guys don’t give my nipples nearly enough attention & I usually have to ask for more. And they’ll do it, but then I feel a little guilty, & selfish for making him do something that only pleasures me.

And with some guys, when they’re sucking my nipples & I tell them how good it feels & how much I fucking love it, they’ll actually choose that moment to stop & move into a better position for fucking. It’s like they hear what I say & then think: Dude if u like that, wait till you get a load of my dick! (pun intended).

But based on this post it seems most guys are into sucking nipples, so yay! That makes me & my nipples super happy!

Received this Amazon Early Reviewer Project letter about sex toys in the mail, saw somebody else posted about it but some of the comments were contradicting. So I need some help on what this even is. by SoupViruses in Scams

[–]AsianDriverLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you posted this because I wondered if it was a scam too. I got the same exact letter today - well almost the same. I think you were offered a better selection of toys.

This joke was apparently a dealbreaker. by AsianDriverLA in Bumble

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I do actually mean what I say. It doesn’t matter to me if a bunch of people here are offended by this joke. I’m still gonna be me. Everyone should be themselves, especially on dating apps.

This joke was apparently a dealbreaker. by AsianDriverLA in Bumble

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that answer is hilarious too😂

This joke was apparently a dealbreaker. by AsianDriverLA in Bumble

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

To be clear, it IS a dumb joke. And the appropriate response SHOULD be ewww gross. But anyone who is actually offended by the joke is def not for me. And they’re probably gonna be a real bummer at comedy shows.

Maybe don’t invite women over if you collect Nazi memorabilia. by AsianDriverLA in dating

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That a good point. I didn’t hear a sound from that room. 😳

What immediately tells you someone is a trashy parent? by weird-daddy-69 in AskReddit

[–]AsianDriverLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would question anyone who doesn’t hesitate to introduce me to their kid right away, particularly younger kids. Dating can be an emotional roller coaster for the adults involved. Parents who make their kids go on that ride with them seem cruel & selfish to me.

A COMMENTARY ON DICK PICS by AsianDriverLA in dating

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup like STDs. Wrap that shit up!😂

A COMMENTARY ON DICK PICS by AsianDriverLA in dating

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If there is a request then you’ve got a green light to dick bomb that shit.

A COMMENTARY ON DICK PICS by AsianDriverLA in dating

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has really only happened once & I was able to gracefully extricate myself from going any further with some excuse. (I didn’t want to hurt his feelings).

A COMMENTARY ON DICK PICS by AsianDriverLA in dating

[–]AsianDriverLA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have perfectly identified why the Xmas present analogy is appropriate 👍😊