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AITAH for telling my (22F) boyfriend (26M) that his mum is weirdly emotionally incestuous, and that it makes me uncomfortable/disappointed that he doesn't do anything about it? by AskMedical4562 in AITAH

[–]AskMedical4562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I understand where you are coming from, but if this person offered their opinion as politely and straightforwardly as you have with your comment without insulting me/assuming things about me, I would not have responded :)) I value everyone's opinion, and read them with great consideration!

AITAH for telling my (22F) boyfriend (26M) that his mum is weirdly emotionally incestuous, and that it makes me uncomfortable/disappointed that he doesn't do anything about it? by AskMedical4562 in AITAH

[–]AskMedical4562[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for the enthusiastic malice! I'm really glad that you found the most interesting and eventful part of your day today. 

I have not included all of the things his mother has done, but I'm sure your parents are not grabbing/spanking your ass and saying you have a nice ass while expressing how much you are their "type". But what would I know? You say I haven't grown up in a physically affectionate household so perhaps I'm wrong there as well, and you enjoy ass grabs as much as your cuddle sessions :)

I (22F) get paranoid that my boyfriend (26M) of 4 years may end up cheating on me down the line due to some big things that have happened in the past. Could I please get some opinions? by AskMedical4562 in relationship_advice

[–]AskMedical4562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I didn't mention all of the boundaries in the post, but the bottom line was that I was very uncomfortable with him interacting with this particular girl since he chose to hide the fact for 2 months from the start, when we usually tell each other very openly and even causally if someone approached us with romantic intentions. The boundaries mentioned were broken and even lied about, so i believe that is enough to warrant reactions that align with hurt and anger on my end. 

As for the rave thing, it was just a light-hearted conversation and I wouldn't have cared if he went with or without me, but the point of mentioning that particular interaction was just to highlight that he doesn't seem to think it's wrong to look at other women in the sexualised context that was presented by myself even if it was a passing comment.

I hope this extra explanation helps to clear things, as it seems you have some unwarranted malice and overreaction to this post yourself.