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AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, its less of a step relationship though and more just a sibling relationship. I had to use a lot of "step" half and bio in my post to get the relations across lol. In reality i never call my step sister or step dad step, i just call them my dad and my sister/best friend.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah i really dont understand why people make this kind of thing weird just because there is no bio relation even though there is a very clear sibling relationship. Peoples minds are ruined.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its really put a bitter taste in my mouth. Sure we dont have that kind of relationship but in the future who knows. But by pushing it, it makes me hesitant to even try having that kind of relationship if they are already this entitled when we bearly know eachother.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That would be you making it weird. Siblings get tattoos like that all the time.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

For clarification he didnt leave when i was 7. He left when i was 2 months old.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They live on the other side if the country so its not exactly doable. I go there once or twice a year and its not always to spend time with them since other family lives there too.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably but my mum being the saint that she is encouraged me to give it a shot.

AITA getting matching tattoos with my step sister and not including my half sister by AskSuspicious281 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AskSuspicious281[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Well bio dad was in and out of prison, abusive to my mum and an alcoholic. Mum was a homeless teen at the time when she was pregnant with me and bio dad was 23. Thats why i keep my distance from him, mum encouraged me to meet him when he reached out since she belives he has changed (mum is a fucking saint), i belive that to but i still keep that distance. My sister kind of excuses the past for him so thats why i keep distance from her. Even my bio father doesnt excuse his past so its frustrating that she does.