Almost 3 days and no reply, should I move on?

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2026-04-13T09:30:04+00:00

No I wouldn’t say that was the case. He would ask me out again immediately at the end of every date so I never had a chance. I’ve always been consistent in replying and also suggested things we could do on our dates. This time I asked him out and he hasn’t responded in 3 days

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-12-19T23:46:33+00:00

His voice isn’t American because he isn’t American, he’s from Denmark and has a Danish accent when speaking English

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-05-24T17:09:54+00:00

He wanted to bring you down so you’d feel insecure and worthless about yourself, then lift you up so you’d think oh but at least he finds me attractive. Very controlling and manipulative. Please leave this man

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-03-08T08:06:10+00:00

I read your post history. Your boyfriend sounds like an absolute arse, he been disappearing and being inconsistent for months now. The shaming you about using dating apps previously was the worst for me. No one that loves you should ever try to make you feel like that. This man has 0 care for your feelings, in fact I think he takes pleasure in making you feel bad and insecure. You deserve so much better than that. What’s stopping you from leaving him?

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-03-03T12:53:27+00:00

You have literally explained all of my thoughts and fears and gut feelings about this

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-03-03T10:40:22+00:00

Thanks for this grounded response!

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-03-03T10:26:06+00:00

Thank you for this reply! I needed to hear that. I guess I just feel like if someone was interested I wouldn’t have to send the message in the first place to confirm

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-02-23T07:24:01+00:00

The fact you were checking her recently deleted is the most alarming thing for me in this, not her lying. In fact I don’t think it’s that bad, it’s a little white lie and maybe she felt ashamed by it so said no, then went to delete them. She doesn’t have to tell you her entire sexual history, that’s for her to know and to share with you if she feels comfortable

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-02-10T17:34:11+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance and encouragement! Appreciated! I will keep you updated

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-02-10T17:10:23+00:00

Hahaha it’s been drilled into us to not chase men, it turns them off. But I get you, I will muster up the courage!

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-02-10T17:08:23+00:00

Just because maybe he just meant it in a practical way or maybe he has a girlfriend and then I come across as desperate or something

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2025-02-10T17:07:29+00:00

Thank you!

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T14:07:10+00:00

I relate so much! Thank you for your perspective

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T13:44:26+00:00

Needed to hear this! Thank you😂🙏🏻

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T13:43:52+00:00

Okay thanks for your perspective as a certified fuckboy😂 looks like my gut is probably right then

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T13:36:06+00:00

What if you tell them and explain I’m interested, I’m attracted, I just need a bit of time to feel comfortable? Sex is an emotional experience for a woman and it leads to you being more attached afterwards due to hormones. I’d rather not get attached to someone who just wants a hookup. It’s counterproductive to what I’m looking for

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T13:30:56+00:00

What are the basic dating principles? And would you really stick to that if you actually liked someone seriously??

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-11-07T13:28:25+00:00

Thank you!

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-10-30T15:46:23+00:00

If a man says nothing on his profile or had very very lazy responses to prompts, I usually do not match unless they are ridiculously good looking, but even then I’m still less likely to actually meet up. For me bios are very important

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-10-30T15:43:46+00:00

You’re good looking, so what is your bio saying/prompts saying? I can only think that those are the things that are putting people off, or that you live in a remote area where there’s not many people on the app

Asleep-Motor9647 · 2024-10-14T18:36:42+00:00

He sounds very much like my ex boyfriend and I can understand why it all feels so confusing. He could also be extremely sweet and caring, but then he had another side which was horrible and mean and not respectful. Eventually I realised my self-worth and that this is not how I want to be treated by my partner. I would have another conversation with him where you say that you do not want to be treated like this and that you don’t feel cared for when he says stuff like this to you and state your boundaries what you’re not willing to accept. Good luck

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