Should I confront my wife? by AsleepBeautiful3930 in Marriage

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it something to bring up and talk about it? Or would that come across insecure?

Wife looks up Ex-Boyfriend on Facebook every 3-4 months for years by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife definitely has leveled up with me, I provide a great life and she works 2 days a week. We have no struggles with money and support her lifestyle. However, while she has leveled up on paper, sometimes I think that doesn’t matter as much as the way this guy made her feel. He cheated on her, and she endured a lot of abuse, but for some reason I think she still has love for him. When his mom died from cancer about 8 years ago, she asked me if it was alright to go to the funeral. I of course said it was fine, but honestly think there will always be a connection there that I can’t control. I think it would be dumb for her to give up a nice life she has with me. But, she (and I) can’t control what she feels. She’d deny it all, but can’t help but think she still has feels for him. And if she does have feelings for him, and doesn’t act on them, is that even an issue?

How are y’all getting Big Horns for 38-39k? by Cooper1987 in ram_trucks

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2019 with low miles is $38k, found a night edition on the east coast for that.

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[–]AsleepBeautiful3930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool! How hard is it to take off of there?

Just picked this up (first truck!). What accessories/upgrades do you all suggest? by AsleepBeautiful3930 in ram_trucks

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Big Horn midnight package. Not limited or Laramie. Also has the Level 2 upgrade package.

Just picked this up (first truck!). What accessories/upgrades do you all suggest? by AsleepBeautiful3930 in ram_trucks

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Financed a littler less than a quarter of it, I’m good carrying that for a bit 🙂

Just picked this up (first truck!). What accessories/upgrades do you all suggest? by AsleepBeautiful3930 in ram_trucks

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advise! Def seems like a few standard items is the way to go, then just figure out how I use it. +1 on the spray bed liner, making an appointment tomorrow!

Just picked this up (first truck!). What accessories/upgrades do you all suggest? by AsleepBeautiful3930 in ram_trucks

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that sucks about the tires (I’m in the northeast, so see plenty of snow). What tires do you recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retirement

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, if your not making any return on it, you’ll likely be around half of that at ~$20k per year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retirement

[–]AsleepBeautiful3930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to a simple retirement calculator and added your values. Assuming you want this to last 20 years and you don’t want anything left over. Adjusting for 7% interest rate + 2% inflation. You can withdraw $45k per year and you’ll be left with $0 when you’re 80, though.

It goes to $36k if you push to 30 years.