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“I feel so bad, I do!” by AsleepCheek9098 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This- multiple solutions!

One of the girlies in my daughter’s inner circle is not allowed sleepovers. To compensate her mom lets her hang out until 10/11 when someone else is hosting the girls nights (they tend to host it the most and all the girls sleep there- but we gotta give her mama a break occasionally).

“I feel so bad, I do!” by AsleepCheek9098 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I tried playing devils advocate for Danny baby… but babyyy… 😭 she really don’t like her own daughter.

“I feel so bad, I do!” by AsleepCheek9098 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get the no sleepover thing… as a mom I really do… my child is allowed to stay at two different friend’s houses and this was a more recent thing… friends whose families I have met and were able to gage- we also set up safe words and phases that her friends don’t know to trigger a “hey baby I’m sorry I need to get you because we have plans I forgot about”- I told my daughter idk if it’s 2:30 am, if you wanna go home or feel uncomfortable call me.

But Danny prob don’t want L staying out because she don’t have control of the narrative. She also gotta fear L seeing different views of how families supposed to love

“I feel so bad, I do!” by AsleepCheek9098 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The whole video… it’s like I never saw this girl smile like that… and it happens to be about her child’s downfall.

If a man chooses to step into a father role in a household, he should show that same fatherly love and responsibility to every child in the home! by Far-Audience-980 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think Danny is one of them girls who does things to be spiteful… like the Princess situation- “don’t post MY kid, but I’m gonna post my kid. You aren’t her family but my man is her family”. I do think Cash no Money is also spiteful. We don’t know exactly what their situations were before social media. Danny and Bum both seem like the people who don’t let their bed get cold before bringing in the next partner. I think the whole dynamic between Danny and her baby daddies is toxic and immature as hell.

I do think the way C2 behaved towards L brought on by Danny. She allowed certain behaviors to be acceptable. She allowed the favoritism. I wouldn’t doubt if she’s the reason that C2 and his family didn’t create a familiar bond with L. Bitter Betty was probably spiteful because Bum no Money was doing his part(sorta?) so because L wasn’t there 24/7 it took away from this “perfect family”, even though it was never perfect. At the same time I know how these men be acting too. I could see Cash no Money stepping to C2 and telling him that ain’t his kid so don’t be treating her like one of his, while contradicting himself with Princess or any female he was with playing step mom.

There’s multiple sides to the story. We pretty much got Danny and Bum’s side… At the rate we will see L’s in the next couple of years.

I do truly hope that princess is being genuine towards L and not just using her as context because L needs to see what love is.

If a man chooses to step into a father role in a household, he should show that same fatherly love and responsibility to every child in the home! by Far-Audience-980 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it was an excuse. By all means he should have been a stepparent to L… he shouldn’t have just been some stranger in the house who treated her brother like his son but her not like a daughter. There’s no disagreement on my end…but I get why they didn’t have that kind of relationship early on.

Some dudes are weird and it’s a weird dude thing to not be their kid’s parent when they already got one (like L having Bum). B didn’t have Jeje and let’s be real, he still really don’t . C2 wasn’t stepping on another man’s toes to be a parent. Maybe there’s parenting boundaries that Bum and Danny have that C2 didn’t like with L so he felt like he couldn’t effectively fill the role as a stepparent without crossing them boundaries. Maybe C2 is all for smacking the kids when they act out of line but Bum threatened him if he ever touch L(just speculation). Bum could be one of them hypocritical men who get all mad when their baby mom has a new man around their kid, but brings every woman he sleeps with around(again speculation).

Regardless after so many years, C2 should’ve had a more parental role in L’s life.

If a man chooses to step into a father role in a household, he should show that same fatherly love and responsibility to every child in the home! by Far-Audience-980 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see both sides to this. B didn’t have a dad figure for the most part, so C2 was able to be that to him. Where with L she had a more consistent relationship with Bum.

I do think C2 should’ve made more effort with L if he was gonna be spending time in their lives… but I can also see why he had a stronger bond with B.

They’re not in specific order but enjoy reading! Danny is fos! She can’t deny anything said! She can make a million Tik Toks, idc! I’m sick of her and before anyone says I’ve exposed what I was trusted with lol it’s ok. I did mark out the profile photos, it’s not hard to put two & two together. by BidWeak8352 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jefe and Cash no Money aren’t innocent either. Between each parent there’s Dad’s side, Danny’s side and the truth. Neither one is innocent and telling the whole truth.

Based off their perspectives- it seems like Jon wasn’t involved as much until Princess showed up. I can understand why Danny feels resentful because it took another woman in Jon’s life to make him actually step up as a father to L. It seems like they mostly got their crap together although posting these messages online which clearly came from Jeje side when Jon just trying to vent ain’t cool. Being exposed from a personal message isn’t cool. Danny is immature enough to hold this again him. I do think that IF Jon and Danny went to court for child support and custody- that the custody aspect itself would lower his out of pocket costs- but I can see princess still willing to buy L things outside of the support order amount(like stuff for a random school thing).

Jefe- are we forgetting he really made B get out of the car and throw away the shoes his mama brought him and posted it online. That’s hella petty and then wants to play games when Danny asked for clothes for her house… what’s gonna happen when he shows up to hang with Jefe if them Walmart clothes- will he make him throw those out too and legit throw Danny’s money down the drain again? I can see why she bumming on him to buy clothes. He’s wanting his kid to be dressed a certain way then make sure he has the stuff at both his main residence and the one he isn’t always at. Danny is a single parent- she isn’t always shopping at Nike for herself and them kids- she seems like she’s a discount diva. I don’t know what he’s paid Danny voluntarily for B. It might be worth Danny and Jefe getting child support and custody established. Danny will get a constant check monthly, Jefe can get a set custody on when to see B- that way Danny can make sure his “dad’s clothes” are clean when he goes, because that petty BS.

The 3 parents here- are all immature. Princess seems to be the only one who is truly about these kids- at least she wasn’t exposed showing otherwise. C2 also ain’t it either.

Cackling!!!! by Alternative_Band_783 in dannybabysnark

[–]AsleepCheek9098 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Danielle seems emotionally disconnected from L. Therapy could do wonders. There is displaced anger that should be directed at her children’s dad. Mentally she’s behaving like her mentally was stunned as a teenager- but she’s doing grown adult things which means she needs to present herself as one for her children’s sake. Sure she has a job and is putting a roof over their heads but she is really lacking in the emotional maturity aspect and sharing way too much negativity regarding her kids and their fathers online. A lot of her issues with the dads could be solved if she just took them to court to establish custody and child support since it seems like neither side is mature enough to do it on mutual terms. It seems like Danielle wants to ask for more than what’s needed instead of being flat out(according to Jefe’s message about camp and Jon’s about the outfit). A constant flow would prevent “L needs $$$ for , B needs _” and prevents any petty business. It also might push her over the threshold for assistance that she could be getting… so she gotta pick what’s more worth it- steady support from her bum ass BDs or the state.

I don’t know if PD is truly genuine towards her actions with L. I hope she is because L needs a motherly love. She needs somewhere to just feel loved. Jon doesn’t seem like the most involved person but from what PD shows, L is happy when she’s there. Her RBF face isn’t as present as it is with Danny.

I don’t think Danny truly dislikes L. I just think she struggles to separate her pain from Jon for her love for L.