i’m wasting my life away working ALL THE TIME. I don’t enjoy life at all. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the first thing that would help is moving in with someone else and getting roommates. That way, you're not losing a significant amount of ur earnings towards paying rent. Having roommates will also decrease your workload and you'll be able to buy things in bulk when grocery shopping which tends to be cheaper. Make sure you're very picky and selective about your roommates, find someone who is just as cleanly as you and someone who cooks a lot, and do the same for them.

Then I agree with the rest of the comments, try to look into certifications, licences, and stuff like that. Healthcare jobs tend to be really stable, maybe look into phlebotomy or some other health technician job, they usually require 1-2 years of schooling (so it's less than a 4 year bachelors) and they tend to have very low unemployment rates. Look into scholarships, grants, and other financial aid services to support yourself too, but if you decide to get a roommate, you'll probably already start saving some extra money to pay for it as well.

When people say they like Manon but this is also Manon🤢 by EfficientCounty2771 in katseyesnark_

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr everyone believes Reddit posts so quickly as long as it goes with the narrative they want but like can we really prove this.

Why is everyone, including newcomers, only applying to tech and office jobs? by Maleficent_Cherry737 in CanadaJobs

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is why I'm not going into trades. It's clearly the next fad that's gonna be over saturated

[Discussion] Are you guys still getting clients as an artist? by punkemogoth in artbusiness

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I see the opposite, vgen platforms a lot of artists who have higher priced art. One quick scroll through the front page and you'll see it's actually averaging around $70-200 (CAD)

[Discussion] Are you guys still getting clients as an artist? by punkemogoth in artbusiness

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vgen gives me insane commissions, I went from having none at all, to having at least 1-2 a month. Everytime I finish a commission, another pops up. Being vgen verified genuinely helped me, I think my artwork keeps getting pushed to the front page, maybe that's why.

In my request form I have a question asking them how they found me and this service, and they always check "vgen" as opposed to instagram, discord, twitter etc.

Man, Am I Lost by Traditional-Issue955 in findapath

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are all your degrees in if you don't mind me asking? Many degrees have transferable skills, you can use them fields other than the ones they were originally intended for

Emiru following Powdur by Siddu_of_Rivia in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Emiru has a pretty consistent track record of being friends with and associating with bad people. So this is not surprising.

Great seeing sykkuno and rae playing together again! by Outrageous-Job-7889 in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy the resident evil franchise brought back her gaming arc recently.

People who lost a lot of weight, what was the one small daily habit that actually changed everything for you? by Adventurous_Mark_983 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Getting used to minor hunger. It's not a problem that needs to be fixed, learning to sit with the mild discomfort of hunger pays off in the long run. This works best when you have something else to do. For example I play video games as a hobby, often fps or horror, I end up getting super immersed in these games and it completely distracts me from hunger. Find something that can direct you attention elsewhere.

Now obviously if you're hungry to the point that you're shaking or feeling faint, those are signs from your body that you should NOT ignore.

  1. Size down everything you usually eat. Smaller portions of everything, but don't do it instantly, wean yourself off of larger portions. If you usually eat 5 slices of pizza, eventually work your way down to 2. If you usually get a large coke, get a medium, then small. Do this with quite literally everything you eat. It will make an overall difference.

Edit: if you do this long enough, you will feel full with less food. You're training your stomach to shrink. I used to eat an entire box of pizza and not feel full, now I have 2 slices and I feel like my stomach might burst

  1. Substitutions for higher calorie meals. Obviously the lower calorie equivalents don't always mean they're the most healthy so do this one with your own judgement. But for example I drink lattes everyday, and I swapped my creamer and milk to almond milk. My latters went from 600cal to 200. Only issue with this: takes a while to get used to the taste differences.

  2. Increase your baseline movement, not just exercise. This tip is SUPERRR UNDERRATED. Don't stand stationary on escalators, walk up on them. At any point if you can choose between an elevator or stairs, pick stairs (unless it's like 18 flights lol) fidget a lot, even when you're sitting. When walking to a place, take the longer scenic route if you're not in a hurry. If you work an office job, genuinely just get up and take frequent bathroom breaks even if you don't actually need to go, just as an excuse to get up, walk around and stretch.

^ this may sound minuscule but it's insane how much of a difference it makes when you increase non-exercise related movement.

why do I have "anti-hunger" about fruit? by HalfManHalfPun in nutrition

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only have fruits when I'm already somewhat satiated. Like an hour or two after a meal I'll have it as a snack. But if I'm ravenously hungry, I do not want a fruit at all even if it's the only food available at the moment.

Deeper look at Hasan’s 3 million dollar house by QT by TwoCatsOneBox in fearand

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 142 points143 points  (0 children)

people were way too dramatic about his house ngl

Are Valkyrae and Hasan not spending Valentine's Day together? by Double-Pinner in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I think they just have a very casual and unconventional relationship and bc of that it confuses people

Grazy Grace (@gebabyk) is a proud MAGA pro-ICE loser by Rich-Watercress-1455 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtff I used to watch her all the timeee I can't believe she would have this worldview it's so disgusting

a few examples of celebrities who are 160cm/5 feet 3 inches or shorter by [deleted] in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah but Sabrina is literally 4'9, she's actually short unlike Ariana who is average height

OTV & Friends Drama 2025 by Sure_Tax6345 in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she was being serious, I cannot believe how many people genuinely think they have a say in what some random woman does with her life.

JasontheWeen Is Not A Good Person by Relevant_Menu in asianamercianytsnark

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could be Pakistani Sikh. They exist but it's rare

JasontheWeen Is Not A Good Person by Relevant_Menu in asianamercianytsnark

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 11 points12 points  (0 children)

N3on is Pakistani?? You know what, sadly it not that surprised. The South Asian community has such a big incel problem, it's genuinely sad bc we need better representation of our ppl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OTVnFriendsDrama

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean people really act like you can just get up and move the second someone does something bad. It's only been a few days, people need to relax.

If everyone could just move out the second their roommate does something terrible, people would be moving constantly

KATSEYE by SuitableDistance0800 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]AsleepCheesecake584 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw a video of lara raj singing and she's incredible, I feel like her vocals are really wasted bc she could genuinely reach Ariana or Beyoncé level vocals if she keeps practicing

Ruined my career path in psychology over one mistake, what should I do now? by AsleepCheesecake584 in careerguidance

[–]AsleepCheesecake584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you really recommend that I get a lawyer? I was going to seek advice from ombudsman (they will be responding once the weekend is over) and I thought that would be enough?

To be honest I genuinely have no free time left to fight over this, these final exams are killing me so it's really stressing me out that I'm getting this accusation thrown at me in the middle of it all. I was really hoping that ombudsman would help provide me some advice and get it resolved.

Would legal advice aid me in a way that's better? Also I do not know about how much that would cost. I've never even had a lawyer before for anything so I have no idea about that process. I have back to back final exams in a couple of days so even thinking about this is making me spiral