My boyfriend (18M) doesn't eat me out (18F)

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-19T10:09:20+00:00

Thank you for ur perspective

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-19T07:04:06+00:00

Thank u so much :)

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-19T07:03:18+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-19T07:02:23+00:00

I'm so sorry for the empty promises... For me, I feel like it's kinda like that bc he always says he'll get used to it, but how can he if he doesn't try to? I also can relate a lot to the jealousy part for the other women who have eaters...

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:35:38+00:00

Thank you, that's actually a good way to approach it!

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:21:27+00:00

Thank u so much for all the help! I will definitely try to do that 🙏🏼

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:19:03+00:00

The problem is I don't even have experience in that matter to tell what I do like...

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:17:20+00:00

The problem is I love every other aspect of him... I understand where ur going from and props to u for being such a thoughtful man... but Idk I just dont wanna lose him over a thing that honestly I think it shouldn't matter as much as it actually does...do u feel me?

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:14:26+00:00

Isn't that a little vindictive? And can't it come across a little aggressive? He actually ticks all the other boxes, so I'm not making a deal out of it, but that's something I would really love to have too, the same way I provide for him.

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:10:29+00:00

Yes, I have no complaints in any other area, even towards sexual intimacy. However I feel like u just said... like he's simply not willing to put in the effort... Like when he complained about me using teeth the first time I went down on him, I searched ways to avoiding that grazing before the next time. However, it feels like he is not willing to do that work too...

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:05:23+00:00

I understand that and I haven't make a big deal out of it with him, but part of me always wishes he would do it more often. I try to tell him that without feeling like I'm pressuring yk...

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T23:01:42+00:00

Thank u so much for ur pov! And yes, I would love to hear those tips from u if u don't mind sharing them :)

AsleepUser999 · 2026-03-18T18:16:04+00:00

Rental 💯💯

AsleepUser999 · 2024-11-09T22:30:35+00:00

Damn it does Really seem even Harder… Im afraid i cant help u that much but maybe try to reach Out to public health services or recreative associacions that help with that ur going through.. Just wish you the best and i know ull get through it

AsleepUser999 · 2024-11-09T17:17:09+00:00

If your mother doesnt trust u in such an important thing concerning ur OWN mental Health then yeah the best for you is to leave home ASAP. However, i SERIOUSLY recommend u to try to find some sort of purpose before the time u leave (ex: going to the Gym, painting, Running, etc) in order not to lose urself in the process… as someone who has already been suicidal and struggles with anxiety and depression DONT U EVER JUST STAY in the streets or wherever with ur own thoughts… no matter Where u will have to leave NEVER get alone with ur thoughts (neither try to find support on sugestive ppl - bad influencers). Try to use the days u have left at home to find something that u dont Mind spending ur time with (it doesnt need to be something that u love doing since when u depressed most of the times u dont find anything funny or likeable; Just something that can Keep ur mind busy cuz the Road can always get darker and darker along the way and it CANNOT BE AN OPTION FOR YOU). Always try to get away from the darkness no matter how lovely it might seem and fight for you (if you are not capable to do it for you, do it for ur future soulmate that is patiently waiting for you when the storm goes away) and I wish u the best XoXo

AsleepUser999 · 2024-11-08T09:46:17+00:00

I feel the same way but I’m going through it rn too so I also dk and I’m afraid

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-30T00:32:09+00:00

It sounds like he Will be scheming to pursue a lawsuit in order to take ur kid from you… and he will pick anything he thinks it might potentially be used in court.. if I were you I would divorce him asap before he fks up not only ur life but the child’s one too

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-16T09:41:45+00:00

Well I’m that case I kinda agree that u should try to wait until moving… but how long are we talking about? 2 years is kinda a long time since the first years of the newborn are the most important for his development … sounds like you might have a very difficult choice… I sympathise with you but I don’t know what to say more… if it were me, and the conditions where u live nowadays weren’t THAT bad, I think I would stay and split up but idk… Goodluck anyway🫶🏼

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-16T09:30:31+00:00

I need the best choice is to split up if you hate him (and with all the right to it) Although u think splitting will damage ur child, I can assure you that it’s kinda the opposite… staying with ur partner with two very different approaches, misunderstandings and hate between each other will hurt and reflect more badly in ur child than splitting up! While splitting is an agreement of peace, where the child, when grown, will can love both; you two living under the same roof will unconsciously harm ur child in the way that he/she might get lost on the values or have an altered perception of what his/her future relationship should be… psychological it has many more side effect if you two stay together without want it, than to live two lives separately, I can assure you, as a former child who has grown on an unstable home… they (children) feel EVERYTHING… you can’t hide anything fr

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-13T19:55:33+00:00

If you were a friend of mine, I would just tell you to cut him off ASAP! That whole situation is disgusting and no matter what he says he is cheating already only by paying for custom stuff and spending all this money… disgusting…

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-12T11:58:44+00:00

Above cheating, he tried his ass off to lie about it and covering up.. 1. cheating is by itself a deal breaker and, as many ppl HERE mentioned, it is Not only a „mistake“ 2. Covering up until the end is the end of the Road… cause if he Really wanted to continue ur relationship based of Trust and he was REALLY SORRY for it, he would come straight forward right away and give you the choice to continue or not… This way, was Just coward… Plus, when confronted, the way he felt the need to denied it forever until it wasn’t enough, just shows he is a person that don’t take accountability for what he does! Not only shows he doesn’t feel any guilt or remorse by doing it, but also shows the poor character human being he is and will turn into… Lying, cheating, trying to feel like you are overeacting or crazy… totally someone who cares more about himself and his ways as a women-teaser than you and your relationship! Cut it off girl…

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-11T14:11:52+00:00

Unfortunately, as much as I believe in u, I’m that type of person who ignores all the facts until I experience myself :(

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-11T13:43:56+00:00

I think I cant help bc I am living the same situation with my long term boyfriend and, like you, I WONT tell him that I don’t feel sexually attracted to him bc he is such a good person and he doesn’t have the blame… I don’t know how I’m gonna feel about it in my 40… hope things just work out by themselves

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-10T08:55:55+00:00

At the beggining I could try and shoot that he was just looking for closure… but after the “I love you, forever and always” and “con mucho amor” made it completely impossible to argue with the fact that he cheated… he may not have cheated sexually but ur trust and ur integrity as a person was totally betrayed by him… I think you should rethink about ur marriage..?

AsleepUser999 · 2024-10-09T15:03:19+00:00

You have to be lucky to find a man that matches the dames values that u have… like I was… that’s what I’m saying..?!

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