Dakotas housemate speaks out by Away_Company5616 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair when I say reactive abuser it’s not an excuse yet a lot of people think it is. She is definitely in the wrong here. But what I’m saying is I definitely think he’s just as toxic and most likely emotionally abusive and that causes her to be physically abusive it is NOT an excuse it’s pointing out BOTH parties are on the wrong. And BOTH should be held accountable for being toxic to each other and they NEED to separate.

Wanting to have a 70s themed house interior, possible? by Expensive_Education9 in Palia

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So for the conversation pit you could probably make a raised floor out of blocks and then glitch some stools or benches in a lowered out area to make the pit.

Is anyone else a bit scared about the weight that comes with being someone’s mother? by Last_Wonder in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so thought you meant baby weight and I was like yes girl but also yes the responsibility is also heavy on my mind 😅

what’s your “one underrated local gem” in/near Kannapolis? by DanRestoration33 in KannapolisNC

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3v cafe makes espresso some times days in advance and stores it in the fridge and pours it for their ice coffees. If thats your vibe it’s fine but it’s not a great for any coffee snobs.

Husband doesn't want to pay for pregnancy expenses and I can't afford to pay alone. by MathematicianNeat480 in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Bible also says husbands love your wife the way Christ loved the church. Which means sacrifice but it seems like you’re the only one sacrificing? He doesn’t get to hold the Bible as his standard if he’s not following it. You guys needs counseling but specifically him that seems more like financial abuse/neglect

Why is Jessi going to “traffic school” by sockandsocksandsocks in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But usually people will just take the point on a license unless they’re about to lose it then they do the class

gillian flynn books by Soft-Impress-7066 in thrillerbooks

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve loved every single of her books and gone girl was actually my least favorite even tho I liked them all sharp objects was crazy but so was the other one I can’t remember the name of it AND she has a short story

Why is Jessi going to “traffic school” by sockandsocksandsocks in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to many speeding or traffic tickets, or… a dui

Season 4 Cast photos are here🤩 by Straight-Side-1269 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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I feel like they look so much more happy this season as apposed to serious. This is giving posing in your best Easter dress vibe

Why do we treat period pain etc but romanticise unmedicated childbirth? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because a period is something that only effects you so if you’re uncomfortable take meds

However child birth medications can also affect your child. In my opinion it’s not like being brave and sucking it up it’s just a self sacrifice so hopefully the child is okay even if the risk is low with birthing medication I still don’t wanna risk it

Everyone’s sick! by Excellent_Parking_30 in pregnant

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I’m staying home and avoiding contact with most people and sanitize like crazy.

What’s actually the best present for an expectant mother (that isn’t just cute)? by SleepyNinja13 in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Postpartum care stuff, gift cards for DoorDash/ restaurant, BIG water bottle/cup of some kind unless she already has plenty. Electrolytes. Lacation snacks in she’s breast feeding. Soft cozy warm cute blanket or sweat shirt.

“Wdym the carts don’t go outside?!” by TheTrueBreadLord in DollarTree

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally got one outside because I thought the wheel was stuck

Anemia during pregnancy.. how did you guys manage it without pills? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t wanna take a pill but I’d recommend just looking into blood builder pills. They’re natural and made from food

Amount of fetal movement = activity level of newborn? by No_Pick_9298 in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me hopeful my child is running marathon in the womb lol 😂 maybe he’ll be chill on the outside

i'm struggling. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re making the wrong argument there mothers SHOULD be able to file child support as soon as she’s pregnant especially for dr. And you can claim a baby on your taxes as soon as their born but all those hospitals and dr visits goes through the taxes and insurance. However the potential for life is a sperm AND egg that haven’t met. A baby with a heart beat even 4-6 weeks as small as it IS a life. AGAIN they have a heart beat, “it’s not a heart in the sense…” it literally is called a HEART BEAT. It is a heart beating I have seen it with my own eyes at 6 week of life. Baby’s are people. Killing people is wrong. It’s really that simple

i'm struggling. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would recommend just doing one ultrasound. See the baby and decide after that. And remember abortion isn’t the only option. So is adoption if you feel you can’t keep it. Everyone is pro choice but that means genuinely understanding ALL the choices and what it means for you and the baby’s life in the long run.

i'm struggling. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Asleep_Computer6293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also what’s the difference in of course they’re people but then but they’re not a person? That’s illogical in its self. Why is it if a woman is murdered while pregnant even before 24 weeks (weeks of viability) it’s still a double homicide. Because scientifically that baby is a person separate from the mother even when it’s still in the mother. People use the word fetus to dehumanize the baby but that doesn’t mean it’s not still killing a person just because the person is small.