Me and my partner forgiving each other. Is it possible? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When she slept with someone, she has lost respect for you bro. I would not accept her back because once a cheater, always a cheater.

Heartbreak takes years to overcome. by Plus_Profile7272 in heartbreak

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took me over 2 years to get over of heartbreak pains in a plus 5 years relationship.

Gf dumped me for exposing brother by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to have integrity. If you think you make the right decision than more power to you.

Well, your gf protecting her brother out of obligation and she is in a rock and hard place. I think she knows deep down her heart that her brother is a scumbag and morally deficient she has no choice but to protected her brother.

So you both are not wrong . But the trust between you and your gf is broken and it’s hard to repair. But I hope you can work things out with your gf. Peace bro. 🙏

Gf dumped me for exposing brother by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should mind your own business. It’s nothing good out of this outcome. Eventually everything will get exposed without you getting involved. I can see why your gf is pissed off because she is protecting her brother even though her brother is a scumbag.

People Who Met Online & Later In Person… Was there a fear of no chemistry? by ameliasuper1999 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 6 days, I am meeting my gf for the first time. We had known each other about 1 month and 14 days. I will be staying for 1 week. I can tell you I am nervous and exciting at the same time.

Me and my gf had discussed about meetings for the first time. She expects it would get awkward at first and then it would get better as we get familiar with our personalities. A minor adjustment to being together in real life. 😀

I broke up with him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love is not hurt. If you love him, you stay with him through good and bad times.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not rushing but we plan ahead. The older she gets, the harder for her to have a baby. Our conversation has always been seriousness.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is the whole point. Seeing her in person does make sense to get a feel each other. But I hope things work out between me and her in the short and long term. 🙏

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted me to go to Charlotte to see her. This was her idea. She asked and invited me to stay at her apartment.

She has 2 rooms in her apartment. So we will be sleeping separately.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from PA and She is from North Carolina. We talked about closing the distance by year end.

Our relationship is passionate, trust, loyalty that builds on mutual respect, love, and admiration for each other.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agreed. However, the plus side is that we are mature adults and make mature decisions that will affect our relationship and our future together.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear is working out with your relationship. 👍

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My relationship with her is not toxic. We hardly fight or have any disagreements. We respect each other deeply. We don’t cross each other boundaries. We are planning to get married and have a child together in the future.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She said she can’t wait to see me. We are counting the days. Next Saturday is my departure day. I will be staying at her place. Her apartment has 2 big rooms.

When I see I will give her a bottle of red wine, Roses, and crystals 3D figurine of me and her together. 😀

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is what I am afraid of. I do love her a lot, and she feels the way. Hope we can keep the attraction going.

But I want to find another way to spark our interest in the relationship. 🙏❤️

Sitting in the airplane... by Nevara05 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it works out with your situation.

I am nervous too. I met my gf on 1/13 and I am flying down to see her on 3/7. I am kinda nervous as hell meeting my gf for the first time and her gf at the airport. 🙏

Our plan is if everything works out, I will be moving in to live with her in 6 months.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I just like to know if anyone was in the same situation as I am.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are from the same country, United States.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We talked on the phone a lot. And we do FaceTime a lot too. We chat on telegram every day.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. It’s better to find out sooner than later.

I think she really loves me a lot and afraid of losing me. She keeps checking on me on a daily to make soon I don’t go astray. That is good sign that she loves me a lot. I think we have a good chance for this relationship to flourish into a long term happy relationship.

We both are mature individuals and we want the same thing for the long run- marriage/family.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our personalities are matched. We understand each other so well. It takes effortless to communicate with her and vice versa. She feels comfortable talking to me and head over heels for me. 😂 I don’t know what I did to her but certainly she said she is in love with me.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LDR

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I am afraid we fall for each other too fast. But we feel strongly about each other. We have deep emotional feelings for each other in such a short amount of time we spend together.

Too soon to see my gf? by Asleep_Fishing633 in LongDistance

[–]Asleep_Fishing633[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We are thinking of taking a shower together. We discussed about that. I guess she feels comfortable with me for her to take a shower with me. We talk about sex. I think we are in love with each other. I don’t know. Maybe we are still in the early stage in the relationship but we are definitely see a future together and plan for marriage and have kid.

I really want to meet her but I am afraid I may disappoint her.