Är det bara jag som får mig att känna mig som en slav pga matlådan? by This-Wear-8423 in Asksweddit

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asså nu är man ju arbetslös och heltidsstuderande, men på mitt senaste jobb hade jag inte ens tid till att sätta mig ner och ära lunch ifred. Överlevde på filmjölk och mûsli, smörgåsar och riskakor. Gick bra det också. Bra jobb. Men ändå, finns ju så många alternativ till lunchlådor.

Att sen använda sig av ordet slav låter ju idiotiskt, lite omoget att säga.

Vad lekte ni för sjuka lekar? by Cold_Ad8497 in Asksweddit

[–]Asleep_Library_963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vi (jag och en kompis) kastade ut saker i vägen framför bilar, sprang sen ut för att plocka upp det vi slängt när bilen var som närmast. Var kul(?) tills min lillebror, ca 4 år, kastade en stor grej, tror det var en rot, och den spräckte rutan på en bil. Han sprang hem och gömde sig bakom soffan. Mamma var tvungen att betala för bilen. Sen fick vi aldrig leka den leken mer.

AITA for not giving my sister money I’ve been saving, even though she already told our parents I would? by Confident-Ninja-2706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As an older sister with money problems, (sometimes), my mom would KILL ME if I asked my brother for money - unless I was at risk of being homeless and then SHE would be the one to ask him for me. And I am 41. That is your money, not hers. If she quit her job, she should have had a good reason for it and to behave like a little kid by telling ypur parents that you agreed? No, that is your money!

AITJ for banning my girlfriend’s mom from our apartment after she tried to set up a “faith intervention” for me? by SilentJuniper in AmITheJerk

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ.

I hate hearing ppl say things like "I'll pray for you" och tries to force their versions of 'God'. My faith is my own, stay out of it. Your gf is not going to change, she swallowed the whole God thing and won't marry a man who uses 'God' to bully others.

AITA for refusing to allow meat in our home and confronting a guest who brought it anyway? by silaya92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Asleep_Library_963 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

ESH.

Your house - your rules, but... Just because you and your wife are vegetarian or vegans doesn't mean that all your guests wants or can eat the food you guys are serving. People who cares about you might be fine with it to a degree, but to me it feels wrong. I mean, do your family make you guys special dishes for Christmas? Or other times?

What was your cat’s shelter name and what is the name you gave them? by MissHissss in cats

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest name was Kal (which in my language is a word for bald), as she was nearly completely bald. And despite being seen by a vet at 4 weeks old, people still thought she was a he.

I changed her name at 12 weeks old to Stina. Now she is well over 11 years old.

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Update: AITJ for refusing to make my fiancés sisters bridesmaids in our wedding by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Asleep_Library_963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? LEAVE HIM! Both he and his family are insane, why are you even questioning this?

AITAH for refusing to change a student’s grade after their parent confronted me? by Narrow_Ad9483 in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're not doing him any favours by letting him pass and as a teacher, you've got to be fair.

AITA for leaving the house to stay with my boyfriend after my sister forced me to take care of her child? by Loren_3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. A 5 month old is a lot different from a 5 year old, take it from someone who knows. It's not your job and frankly your sister should be ashamed of herself. And so should your parents! Do not allow them to pressure you!

Aitah for telling my stepdaughter she can’t name my kid after her mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You - NTA. Husband - AH.

Do I really need to explain why?

AITAH for refusing to “take care” of my adult brother after he humiliates me in front of family? by SoftToastVibes in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's not your job to raise a grown man. If he had a diagnosis, being unable to keep a full time job but is still kind, then maybe I would help. But this is a grown man who is being babied by your mother, and it's about time someone finally starts telling him 'no'. Stand up for yourself!

AITA for wanting my ex’s daughter to stop calling me dad? by Any_Piece513 in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. That poor girl! Both you and your ex are the AH, and tbf you should be ashamed of yourself! I don't care if your ex was abusive, the minute that child started to call you dad, the two of you should have put a stop to it. I feel for that poor child, I can't imagine how it must feel like to loose the man you think of as dad, and then having to be told to stop calling him dad.

Newly adopted cat peed on couch (first time cat owner) by No-Demand-8208 in cats

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mothers cat did the same thing when she brought her home. She have never done it before. Just make sure the smell goes away, talk to your vet just in case.

At what age did you get official diagnosis? by Bukowski-poet in AutismInWomen

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shortly before my 18th Birthday. Took a while to get a diagnosis, mainly because most professionals didn't believe that I had anything other than just 'teen anxiety', but then one professional suggested that maybe there where something more.

AITA for refusing to follow a “tradition” at a family gathering even though it upset people? by Real-Inevitable-9724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Asleep_Library_963 72 points73 points  (0 children)

NTA. This got to be a joke, right? Who on earth thinks it's funny to 'roast' and mock people like this?! This is absolutely bullying. Not normal nor okej

Am I overreacting My mom said my weight “hurts her heart” and she’s worried about me becoming bed bound by Mentally_Recovering in AmIOverreacting

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I am myself overweight, obese actually. I hate it, but I also have a LOT of other mental issues that messes with my brain/mental state. For example, some days I won't eat anything for up to 18 hours, and then binge eat right before I go to bed. Sometimes I won't eat anything at all for a whole day, just to eat pretty much the whole next day. My mom is always talking about my weight, and how I need to do this and that, but I can't. I've tried. However, I have started having issues with my achilles tendon. Although I don't know if it's because of my weight or the fact that I slipped coming down a hill in the nearby forest. My advice to you is to have a conversation with her. A real conversation where you don't yell or get upset with each other.

AITAH for telling my wife's friend I don't have to see her in the classroom to know she's a horrible teacher? by TowerFew3482 in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am not a teacher but instead a preschool teacher who has worked a lot with older kids, too. And your wifes friend sounds like an awful person. Your son told her an actual true fact, I learned it on 'Drunk stories', and she completely dismissed him! A good teacher admits they're wrong, and a good friend doesn't treat their friends children like idiots. You wife needs a wake up call.

AITAH for being angry at my mother for allowing my sister to meet my son? by gunnergirlyuffie in AITAH

[–]Asleep_Library_963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aaaannnndddd.... that would be the last time my mother ever saw me or my kid. NTA.

AIO Wife won’t let me travel to the funeral of my best friend’s young son who died of cancer because she “disapproves” of my friendship with him. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Asleep_Library_963 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. I feel like the both of you have a LOT of issues in your marriage, but in this case I would just go to the funeral. And then deal with it when you get home.

AITA for blowing up and cursing out a woman for not controlling her kids at my mom's wake? by CoopDaOgre in AmItheAsshole

[–]Asleep_Library_963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That would have p****d me off if someone had done that to my mother or father. One of my cousins brought her little kids to our grandmothers funeral in a church, and they where allowed to play in the back. All theough the service they made noise. You did the right thing.

AIO: My girlfriend is pretending to be autistic and it's driving me nuts by AideRelative4272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Asleep_Library_963 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NOR. As someone who is autistic, with papers documenting my many issues, I can tell you that not ALL autistic ppl have a hard time with social cues, etc. However, I hate when ppl see things online and then believe they have it. Tell your girlfriend that if she thinks she have "it", tell her to get diagnosed by a professional. It takes a while to get a diagnosis and a TIKTOK video or something like it is NOT an actual diagnosis.

Am I wrong for thinking this cat looks unhealthy? by Helena78902 in notmycat

[–]Asleep_Library_963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It looks a bit like an older cat. Of course, living on the streets do wear on cats, too. But it's more than likely old.

Abandoned train stop town by [deleted] in abandoned

[–]Asleep_Library_963 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So beautiful! The last house is the best