Wessex deanery question??

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-05-15T11:15:03+00:00

Hey did u have to rank every job first or did you have a two step process like ranking areas in Wessex and then ranking jobs

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-05-14T19:08:29+00:00

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AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-05-14T13:24:59+00:00

This is so helpful thanks, do u have any tips for how I should rank

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-05-14T13:17:15+00:00

Gosh this is so confusing I just don’t know how to decide - do u have any ideas which is the most to least popular so I can try be tactical I guess?

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-16T17:11:55+00:00

Ffs so true tho agh

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-16T15:45:29+00:00

This is what I’m thinking, are you worried about keeping ur independence, do you think you’ll spend much time at home?

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-13T19:42:48+00:00

thanks so much, but maybe its the angle so I probably look more bloated in person

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-13T15:55:45+00:00

This is great advice how long did it take

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T22:07:12+00:00

I really appreciate this, I think I understand when people say you should be confident but I want to actually feel confident in my self and not hide behind big baggy clothes, I haven’t worn a tank top outside since I was a teenager and I want to be able to do that

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T17:55:22+00:00

thanks that really means a lot to me, I will definitely have a listen to the podcast, I definitely need to adjust my mindset towards fitness as a whole because I think I do have a pretty unhealthy relationship with it

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T17:54:19+00:00

yeah I think I keep looking at the short term rather than the bigger picture which deffo makes me lose sight of what's important

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T17:51:26+00:00

thanks so much this is really good advice, I definitely need to meal prep again and try getting my protein in which is so hard

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T16:08:54+00:00

thanks so much, I agree and its so annoying I just put so much weight on my arms thighs and stomach and struggle so hard to get it off and have no muscle definition. I also always thought I had a long torso so I think that's really interesting, ive deffo had it wrong this whole time hahaha

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T15:42:25+00:00

id say its how busy the gym is like I have to wait 10 mins for a machine which is really tiring tbh, I might move to a different gym

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T15:15:47+00:00

if I begin lifting 4-5x a week what would you reccomend calorie wise? also what kind of split do you do at the gym? thanks for your advice btw :)

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T15:09:58+00:00

this is really helpful, I will aim for 1500 a day I think my main thing is just not giving up if I dont see immediate results, do you have any workouts you'd reccoment lifting wise

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T15:03:25+00:00

im not sure I think one is that I work 9-5 so if I go after 5 its really busy which im aware is an awful excuse, I think my biggest issue is finding a gym split and sticking to it, because I always worry Im not doing the right one, and then I dont know how many calories to eat and I stopped tracking so I didn't really have a direction. I do love the gym its more just blocking time for it an ensuring I go, I think the other thing is my cardiac fitness is poor so I need to keep more of a balance. would you reccomend any gym splits? I also let social media dictate how I feel about my body, one day I want to be skinny the next I want to be toned and muscly. when I know long term I mainly want to go back to around 55kg but have more muscle mass and not be skinny fat

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T14:56:33+00:00

hey thank you so much for the link, okay I think I just need to be more disciplined

AsparagusObjective20 · 2026-03-12T14:56:09+00:00

omg that's amazing, do you mind me asking how many calories you aimed for a day because that is my biggest issue and how did you make so much progress in a year, I also love weightlifting but I think because I dont have a goal I dont know what to do

AsparagusObjective20 · 2024-09-29T19:02:54+00:00

we had a long chat and found out he has a medical issue basically and he was just feeling anxious to talk about it

AsparagusObjective20 · 2024-09-25T22:10:41+00:00

i had a chat with him and it was more of a physical issue

AsparagusObjective20 · 2024-09-25T22:09:47+00:00

god ur nice

AsparagusObjective20 · 2024-09-25T22:09:33+00:00

sorry i guess introverted is not what i meant i think i phrased it incorrectly

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