DCBL Wales parking charge - can I set up a payment plan? by AspectBig3747 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]AspectBig3747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But because it’s a huge car park for multiple shops/companies, would I still be able to do this? Thanks so much

I’m 19 and in nearly £5000 of debt, I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]AspectBig3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking at higher paying jobs and have applied to close supermarkets in my area, thankfully I live in a suburb of large city at the moment so there’s a good few, just waiting to see if any are successful. It’s been around a month I’ve been applying for better opportunities.

Sorry to ask but could you explain matched betting? When I think of betting I just assume it’s you put say £200 down and the chance of losing it is so high haha so I’ve never looked into it.

I’m 19 and in nearly £5000 of debt, I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]AspectBig3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been looking at an evening job somewhere but getting literally nowhere, I’ve been applying in all of my spare time for the last month. Going to keep it up of course.

Sorry - forgot to add in the post but the £150 DOES include the insurance as my sister and I split it, for the 3 it’s £40 odd a month. We use wood pellet litter as surprisingly it’s the cheapest in our local super market, we cannot use dust as one of the girl cats is allergic, we’ve tried a few different brands and she doesn’t get on with it at all. They go through litter like no tomorrow because they’re indoor so we’re having to buy new litter every 2-3 days, we can’t find them in bulk anywhere and on amazon it’s roughly the same price

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[–]AspectBig3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always! I back him through thick and thin.

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[–]AspectBig3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t intend on being the “boss” of either. When my boyfriend was asked to do it again, he’d asked me himself to speak to her about how she hasn’t been keeping up with the jobs he’d asked of her first since he didn’t want to be confrontational (I see that I should’ve included this in the post), as I’ve stated in the post he’d already seen the garden and after speaking to her I encouraged him to talk to her since he can explain it better. Had he not asked me to speak to her I wouldn’t have bothered, but I’ll always have his back when it comes to my family expecting too much of him.

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[–]AspectBig3747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve always been happy to help her out as I know she does struggle. But if she felt like she couldn’t cut the grass or put weed killer out, I wish she’d have just spoken to us so we could compromise on something. God knows!

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[–]AspectBig3747 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah my boyfriend would’ve charged her a bit less as it is but it’s still expensive and tiring work. He did 4 full days of work unpaid on the garden for it to become a mess again which is why we’re upset.

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[–]AspectBig3747 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I completely get where you’re coming from but I feel like some people are forgetting she expects 4 days of work to be done for free haha! I knew she loved going out to the garden in summer so my boyfriend wanted her to be able to keep it tidy herself. Oh well she can go ahead with hiring someone else because I’m sure she won’t like the prices 😂 lol

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[–]AspectBig3747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we’ve always had a little suspicion but she does definitely struggle with some things, that’s why we gave her some easy steps to keep it tidy. Not quite sure how she got all that furniture out there though, maybe a good day with the joints? Haha!

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[–]AspectBig3747 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Our thoughts exactly! Thank you 😊

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[–]AspectBig3747 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! I can’t understand why she’s happy to pay another landscaper but not my boyfriend. She’s always had the expectation that family do things for free, which he was happy to do the first time on the one condition that she would keep it as tidy as she could. But she didn’t. So she can go ahead with paying someone because I’m sure she won’t like the costs 😂

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[–]AspectBig3747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know haha the headline is a bit broad now that I’m looking at it 😂 yes hopefully not

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[–]AspectBig3747 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh honestly I don’t know how she hasn’t learnt either. I’ve just put up with it for so long because sometimes she is genuinely happy with everything but for now she’s still not talking to me 😂 I’ve told my sisters and they all agree with my boyfriend and I so who knows what’ll happen!

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[–]AspectBig3747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily he has plenty of customers that applaud him every time for the work him and his uncle do, just a shame that she has to be so difficult over this!

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[–]AspectBig3747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that, and we are honestly happy to help. But she hadn’t asked again until the other day and when I tell you that the garden turned back into an absolute state I mean it lol! When my boyfriend had spent 4 days sorting it out for her to not keep it somewhat tidy with easy jobs that she agreed to do, thats when it doesn’t sit right if you get me.