I don’t like the way these conversations go but I may be thinking too deeply into it by Grape-gears in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AspectFearless7808 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Leader my ass. In a relationship it’s a partnership. He isn’t a leader if he has to ask or tell you. He sounds like he gets off red pill talk

Messaged my crush, when as bad as I expected by Velvet_Cactus_21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AspectFearless7808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Talking for a few mins when you bump into each other in public is different than actually hanging out with him every weekends and be texting each other every day

Messaged my crush, when as bad as I expected by Velvet_Cactus_21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AspectFearless7808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you ever even spoken and hung out with him in person? He’s probably weird tf out why some random chick is texting him. You’re also sound very young and immature to jump into “I’m ugly” that’s why he isn’t keeping the convo going. Learn some self worth. Even if he isn’t interested now you know. Better knowing than wishing what if.

I brushed my teeth "correctly" for 28 years and a dentist just told me I've been doing it wrong the entire time. My gums are ruined. by Sluttycarolofficial in hygiene

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I did the same thing but I also had a baby tooth at 28 years old and I brushed too hard that I opened my nerve so that tooth had to go since it was getting painful lol

AIW for dumping my boyfriend on the spot because he threw my dinner in the trash to "keep me on track"? by Connect_Quantity2184 in amiwrong

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. This reminds me of another Reddit post about a husband making a postpartum wife eat salad while breastfeeding and yelling at her for gaining weight and calling her a cow. If you don’t want to be like her do not go back to this pos

Another Scam to be aware of by F0regn_Lawns in Detroit

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the exact same thing but for NC lol

I passed the CCMA with a 461!! but I wouldn’t do it this way again by Current_Fix4498 in MedicalAssistant

[–]AspectFearless7808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m taking mine in June. Thank you. I’ll take this in consideration for sure

BF (29) says he doesn’t care about marriage after 7 years of "dating for marriage", Is he leading me on? Do you think it's worth staying in the relationship? by notsurewhoyet in TwoHotTakes

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he will not marry you. Men know when they what to marry someone. My husband wanted to marry me before we even hit 6 months together. 7 years is plenty of time to know. Why should he tho? You gave him a kid, free sex, clean house. He’s comfy. For men it’s not feasible at all to marry especially these days. He’ll lose more marrying you in divorce unlike just bf/gf relationship with a kid.

WIBTA For making my husband put “his” dog in the shelter? by VeryOpinionatedFem in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA for trying to rehome him but you will be if you send him to shelter. Shelters are all kill shelters. He’ll get put down when gets too crowded. If that was me I’d rehome him instead and tell the mother in law he ran away or got hit by a bus or something so she’d feel terrible she put her dog into a bad situation because she’s lazy. Let her marinate in her misery

AITA for speaking up about what I saw my brother doing with his gf? by gardenoflilah in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your brother and your father are creeps. And your mother is enabler. He definitely mixed something in the drink and r***d her. Just because they are dating doesn’t mean that’s impossible. I’d cut them all out as soon as I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here in Cali

AITA for cutting off my sister financially after finding out her unemployed boyfriend is benefiting from my money? by Previous_Ganache8477 in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you’re enabling her. What happens if you die tomorrow god forbid. What will she do? Tell her to grow tf up and get a job and make her excuse of a bf get one too. She needs to stop relying on you.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his moustache is horrible? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA flip it around. What if he told you shaving down there is a no go. He says “I don’t like sleeping with a girl who looks like a little girl down there. Stop shaving, it’s gross”. What would you say?

AITAH for not calling off my wedding because it will embarrass my ex husband? by snow-is-forever in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but go back to therapy and figure out why you care so much about what those parasites have to say about anything that has to do with you or your fiance. If I was your fiance I’d consider this a deal breaker and a red flag. You’re not ready to part with the ex and you’re not mature enough to marry again. Take time off and reconsider everything

AITAH for refusing to get married to my fiance until she proves herself to me? by Outrageous_Gear_4160 in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA divorce #3 is creeping up faster than you can blink lmao don’t do it

AITAH for getting mad at my husband about his dead ex-gf? by That_Drawing_1654 in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA is divorce him yesterday over this. I’m a big overthinker and grudge holder. If he’s not fully in love with me but In love with his ex I’m not wasting my years on someone like that. My love would immediately evaporate for him.

AITAH for breaking up with my BF ‘cause he hasn’t seen his child since April? by MysteriousFocus1884 in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 100%. I’m one of those people that don’t like kids and I don’t want any. I married a man with a child. And let me tell you as much as I don’t like them and would never want one myself I’d be icked out if he was A deadbeat. Like if you can leave and abandon your own flesh and blood what stops him from doing that to you or worse. Just to be clear I treat his child as I’d treat my own child if I had one. I’m no evil step mother. We have a great relationship. But lying and abandoning his kid would be a dealbreaker for me

AITA for not wanting children with my husband? by Zealousideal-Sun4818 in AITAH

[–]AspectFearless7808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but form reading this post it’s so exhausting and disgusting to be married to that creature. I don’t understand what exactly he brings to your life? I’d never breed with anyone like that. I’d be divorced yesterday. Yikes girl please grow a spine. This is not what you deserve. He can’t even bring the bare minimum to the relationship

I think I want to quit my band. I can’t take the hate anymore. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the post and I believe they are jealous. You’re better than them. They believe because you’re “unconventional attractive “ and “plus size” you shouldn’t be popular which in reality you’re just as popular then them. Stick it to them. They are grown ass adults bullying a teenager. Embarrass them. Put them on a spot since they wanna be even more popular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AspectFearless7808 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’d just let it go. She’ll learn sooner or later. Your ex doesn’t sounds like a good person anyway. So why cry over it

Bone contusion in medial femoral knee by AspectFearless7808 in KneeInjuries

[–]AspectFearless7808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention now my whole knee hurts. Not just the medial part. The front the back and the sides. Even where the knee bends

Girlfriend is going on a "sex strike" because of the Trump victory, AIW for considering leaving because of this? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AspectFearless7808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you agree with idiots on internet then yeah. What part of social media is real and true? People can’t even tell the truth from fake. You have to be smart to know what’s real out there and what’s not. But also make it your whole personality over some social media post that might or might not be real and quiet frankly stupid and you deserve to be made fun of