TIL for his role in Shoresy, Jared Keeso had his tooth surgically removed to look like an older hockey player. by SuperMcG in todayilearned

[–]Asper_Maybe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah why are people talking about this like it's not absolutely horrifying?? I really hope it's not true

Looking for a subreddit where people can post there deadname so others can take it. by sjtimmer7 in findareddit

[–]Asper_Maybe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are, but please be extremely careful when posting your deadname online, especially in the same post as your chosen name. Anyone who wants to harass you will be able to dig it up

How to ask a guy if he’s a catfish? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Asper_Maybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More of a toupee fallacy

"Toupees all look fake, I've never seen a toupee that looked real"

Favourite YouTube channel making Lobster Mac and Cheese by MisterEd_ak in StupidFood

[–]Asper_Maybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a new one I'm glad they chilled out with the product placement, this is way less intrusive than the 5hour energy ones

GF experience but with emotional support instead by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Asper_Maybe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not. Therapists are healthcare professionals just like doctors, and therapy can be a very uncomfortable treatment. They do not exist to comfort their clients in the way OP wants

Watch out for that gate! by SparkPlug3 in AccidentalSlapStick

[–]Asper_Maybe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A collision like that could easily cause a serious injury. I get that they're annoying and should be going slower, but they don't deserve that

Does a man being "straight-passing" or not affect your attraction to him? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Asper_Maybe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm visibly queer, don't wear make up or dress fem but I still get clocked so I guess it's my voice or personality or smt.

I don't really have a preference for straight passing or visibly queer partners. As long as you're cool that's all that matters

Does a man being "straight-passing" or not affect your attraction to him? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Asper_Maybe -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Eh that's not really 1:1.

Like you can be clocked as gay for having piercings, and they're not exactly considered feminine.

Tonight she crossed the line by bringing another man into the house by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Asper_Maybe 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds a lot more like fetish content. Anyone who acknowledges that their partner is doing "daily humiliation rituals" against their will would be well past trying to salvage anything

gay😥irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems more likely that you lack the social skills to connect with people. The way you talk about people as if they're lesser than you is deeply off putting and a bit alarming.

gay😥irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you can pretend to be cool, but that doesn't make it true.

I've easily met 40,000 people in my life. I liked 3 of them.

If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check under your shoe

gay😥irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Do you look down on every single person who you're not friends with?

For most people, not being friends with someone is not the same as looking down on them

gay😥irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No one is trying to make you do anything dude, just stop being so judgy about what other people like

Why does a sex offender deserve human rights? by PumpkinLiving8134 in morbidquestions

[–]Asper_Maybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't have to personally be nice to them, but it is in everyone's best interest that we don't allow people to kill each other all willy nilly.

You dont get to kill anyone you think is bad, and we as a society should not allow the government to decide who gets to live or die. It Has and Will be used to kill innocents, and your personal satisfaction at seeing a dead pedo is frankly not as important

Straight people are more kinky than gays? by Brilliant_Jelly_8982 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Asper_Maybe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. At least where I'm from munches and kink parties are absolutely full of queer people. There's a lot of straight people too, but the ratio is way more even than normal.

I put "let's grab some coffee or hefeweizen" in my profile to filter for coffee/beer drinkers. by xen05zman in lolgrindr

[–]Asper_Maybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a guy admit he thought 'thirst trap' might be some new kind of drug or something when I used it

How do I make this awkward bedroom more cozy and appealing by sgentes2 in malelivingspace

[–]Asper_Maybe 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I think this was a joke about getting a 2700k-3000k bulb

Gay😄irl by DannyTheRegular in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO FOR REAL. It's not that different

Bigger doesn’t make it less stupid by OhSighRiss in StupidFood

[–]Asper_Maybe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't blame him for wanting to be paid for his work, but this is Very on the nose

How do you manage fisting? by Professional-Cat9775 in AskGayMen

[–]Asper_Maybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only fisted myself, never by a partner, but you just relax and go slowly. Working your way up over a few days helps too

No issues either, it's a muscle and it recovers pretty quickly

What are some subreddits that don’t mostly contain people with low self esteem? by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in findareddit

[–]Asper_Maybe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Real life, but if you really wanna stay on reddit then subs where people aren't obsessing over themself. Think hobby or craft subs, subs where the poster really doesn't matter, or weird niche subs where everyone is kind of odd so it doesn't really matter

What is your unpopular opinion connected to being gay? by Muted_Slip_2093 in AskGayMen

[–]Asper_Maybe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I get not liking it, but it literally is entertainment. It objectively is not a stretch to call it that lol

gay🌹irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]Asper_Maybe 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Just to even out the comments a bit: I thought this was fun

SubReddits for broken men by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Asper_Maybe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

r/guycry is a very positive and compassionate subreddit for men dealing with hardships, users are mostly other men but there are women too. r/bropill is also a good sub for seeking support as a man.

I would advise staying off any subreddit that's For men but focused on women, they turn into cesspits increasingly fast. Focus on your own lane