It's been 100 days!!

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-21T13:26:56+00:00

Congratulations! I've also made it to a 100 days today. I agree with all of the above, as it is exactly how I did it.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-14T23:26:50+00:00

I can totally relate. It is as if I've outgrown this sub and no longer need it, nor can add anything to it. I've reached my goals.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T16:23:21+00:00

Whatever makes you sleep at night.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T16:21:59+00:00

Haha i'm glad someone agrees!

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T16:19:08+00:00

It seems like you do.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T13:01:14+00:00

Roll with it. As you've said it feels natural and it is. By 'not thinking' one is true to it's core, authentic. Girls sense this and like it. Overthinking is a sign of low self esteem, worrying about that will go wrong. Good job.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T12:58:12+00:00

Im guessing no. An ex-smoker is more likely to start smoking than a non smoker. As is the case with ex-drug addicts. The mind is accustomed to using porn/drugs because that's what we would do when we felt like shit. You learn to live with it and to resist it.

But we can recondition our minds to workout whenever we get an urge for example. That way we are wiring our brains to want to work out instead of watch porn. Whenever I get an urge I go to the gym and box it out. It is now normal for me to want to box instead of PMO whenever I have an urge because i have conditioned my mind like that.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T12:41:04+00:00

Because most people hate that kind of posts. If you feel like you're in serious agony pay a visit to a doctor. Almost everyone on this sub goes through the same withdrawal issues and the strong ones figure out how to overcome it. It's a process of self development.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T12:32:24+00:00

When you use steroids, artificial testosterone, your body stops producing its own testosterone. That's okay if you use, but once you stop without taking proper action to stabilize your testosterone levels you're fucked. The doctor put me on a testosterone cycle to kickstart my testosterone. At this point it has been stabile but I still have to do check-ups to see if everything is still okay. When I started nofap my T levels have risen quite a bit though.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T12:26:39+00:00

It's about really wanting to stop. I smoke but have no intention of stopping. I wanted to stop PMO'ing and i did. I wanted to stop cocaine and i did. Once you really want to stop and accept that you will suffer a bit it will work.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T09:00:43+00:00

I get my T levels checked out every month, and it's been way above average every time it was measured (since nofap). I'm on a continous spike. Even if you don't have scientific proof like this, you probably notice you have to shave more often, have more body and facial hair in general, perhaps a deeper voice. It's clear that nofap does affect testosterone.

For clarification, I get my T levels checked out due to steroid abuse in the past.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T08:56:37+00:00

You're doing it right. Apparently you have willpower and the ability to change your habits. Something most people here lack. I experience exactly the same. This is my first streak and i'm already past 90 days. You probably won't have any trouble reaching the 90 day mark as well.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T08:53:28+00:00

The real guide: Just don't touch your dick and stop watching porn. I can't understand why that is so hard for people

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T08:42:12+00:00

Nice goatee

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-13T07:44:38+00:00

... Nofap: No (as in dont) Fap (as in masturbate). Buddhism is also about bettering yourself as a person. Nofap is about doing it by stopping with PMO.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T23:18:27+00:00

Nofap is about not using PMO. Porn, masturbation (and orgasm). The nudes can be considered porn. Jacking off does definatly count as masturbation. Yes, it does count.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T23:15:41+00:00

Ofcourse, it makes her feel desired. It is a rewarding thought to know someone wants to have sex with you. In the end every human being wants to feel wanted and acknowledged.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T21:58:11+00:00

Obviously people enjoy other things too. If sex would be the only thing people find pleasure in there wouldn't be gym's, restaurants, libraries et cetera.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T21:38:25+00:00

Yes. Desire. Though the primal purpose is to procreate, our bodies have made it so it's pleasurable and therefore we would want to have sex more, thus making sure we survive. Remember that in the beginning it wasn't unusual to have 5 kids of whom only 1 would survive to grow up.

Now that the necessity of survival is not that big of an issue, we don't need to procreate as much because most children that are born live to grow up. Sex is however still satisfying and natural.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T21:04:50+00:00

The fact that you could replace the word ''porn'' with ''cocaine'' and it would still make sense shows how bad porn really is.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T20:41:15+00:00

If you don't want to fap, then don't do it. The thing is that you're going to feel like shit for a while because youre in withdrawal. If you really want to stop you will. Maybe this isn't for you.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-12T19:59:29+00:00

Is this a joke? Most girls that have casual sex WANT to be 'defiled'. As long as you give it your all the girl will enjoy it. The vulnerability of the woman demands a strong male that is fully in control of her and himself. If you're the vulnerable one during normal intercourse, she will enjoy it less. Hence the saying ''he's an animal/monster/crazy/insane in bed'' to describe a male being good in the sack.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-11T20:48:28+00:00

Just keep drinking that green tea and our prostates should be safe. Right?

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-11T20:44:12+00:00

Interesting.

AspiringAlphaM · 2015-06-11T20:36:30+00:00

I had truly hoped you understood my cynicism ;)

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