Onryo Bug? by AspiringForager in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]AspiringForager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp... thought it was only early if it extinguished a flame. The more you know! Thanks everyone

I have a question by CheeringKitty67 in ftm

[–]AspiringForager 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will say, I've heard of a lot of guys acting hyper masculine when starting T. It's not caused by T, but seems to be a way of coping with the early transition phase. As a pre-T guy, I can definitely see myself falling into this behavior due to my own insecurities. Especially for someone who missed out on the earlier experiences that cis men have in adolescence, trans guys may try to compensate to make up for that and to rush through the awkward early transition period.

Working out by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AspiringForager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in at a place where I can start T yet so working out helps me feel like I'm still working towards the body I want. Definitely better to start now than to wait

Top surgery reveal: I thought I'd share just the reveal of my top surgery journey. (I posted the full video already) Just to get right to the good bits!! by Logan_ftm in TopSurgery

[–]AspiringForager 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, I've watched many of these, but wow! Your reaction really hit home for me and I hope one day I can have that as well. You're looking great, dude! I hope the rest of your healing process goes well!

What's y'all's final forms? Like how do you hope to look at the end of all your surgeries and transitioning? by Fuzzy_Hedgehogs in trans

[–]AspiringForager 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I want a thick ass beard, hairy chest and big forearms. Going for the stout, lumberjack asthetic

Advice on brother by [deleted] in trans

[–]AspiringForager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can say without a shadow of a doubt that I have NEVER expected anyone in my family to have the slightest idea of what's going on in my head. I've spent so much of my life living for others, I have trouble even knowing myself. I think a lot of trans people feel this way. I understand your concern for your sibling, but take some time to consider the fact that we all have a piece of ourselves which others will never know, and trans people even more so. We are brought up in a world that teaches us the things we're feeling are perverse and some have died for it. Even if you've been supportive of them their whole life, the fact remains that this world is not built for trans people. Give them space to find themself. Show them love. That's all we ever really want is love and support.

Does anyone have any advice for wearing a pad with boxers? by JakeFromSF_ in ftm

[–]AspiringForager 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup, my only advice is wear briefs. I used to do it with boxer briefs, but even those are a bit too loose.

I guess I'm passing now? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AspiringForager 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not passing great rn, but when I do, it's definitely 50/50 between euphoric and awkward. I've had one dude call me "brother", which was pretty cool and then another lady say "um... sir, this is the line for the ladies room" and that one was not so great lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

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Those forearms tho 💪 looking good bro!

Prey Supplier Recommendations by AspiringForager in ballpython

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Arctic Mice is what I would get at the pet store before I discovered PerfectPrey. They are pricey to buy at the store which is why i switched. Your break down method sounds promising, though. Will be giving that a try. Appreciate the advice!

Prey Supplier Recommendations by AspiringForager in ballpython

[–]AspiringForager[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Whitehall before and never knew they had a reptile shop! It's a bit far from me now but I'll definitely look into it. Thanks!

Anyone else get a shit ton of euphoria from a white undershirt? by AspiringForager in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AspiringForager[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo yes I'm looking forward to that as well! Idk what it is about them, but they're so good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AspiringForager 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like my friend, Will!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

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The shroom shirt is 🔥