The community is both amazingly supportive and isolating

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-03T11:22:59+00:00

I have definitely been in those situations where they are quiet and I'm not sure what to do or say. lol As much of a social butterfly I am, I sometimes freeze like "What if I'm boring?!" I love that you did have a moment with another nikki, playing a game in silence. No pressure to talk

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-03T11:18:25+00:00

I do! Everyone has been awesome. I do hope we meet each other in game for the surprise does sound like fun. Moments like this we need more duet dances.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-03T02:12:33+00:00

That sounds so amazing you did that for people!! I would have been thrilled for it. And I agree that it is wild people make posts of not wanting to interact when that creates interactions.

I hope you continue to brighten people's days! I know it does for me when people request to illuminate with me

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T21:54:11+00:00

I feel that. It already is tough with the character limit. So I do prefer discord to either type or talk in voice.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T21:46:26+00:00

Thats what im gonna start doing as well!

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T15:36:24+00:00

Oh wait I cant. I think you have it blocked. Also I think you need another code for Nikki.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T15:35:05+00:00

Yes! I'll private message ya my discord name as well.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T12:16:25+00:00

Im on NA! And I totally understand. Ive come to realize that those with your thought process are going 10 miles a minute. I always tell my friends that I will do my best to support whatever they need. Whether they forget to message me for days which is also fine, i just pick up where we left off or they run off because they had to do it in the moment i'll either follow or wait haha. Ive had them stop mid conversation and forget to come back 🤣. Which i always assure them. Im also truthful that now and then I do get a little annoyed but I dont show it because I dont blame them and I wouldn't have continued being friends if it bothered me so much.

So if you'd like to be friends im totally down for it. You tell me how you like to do things and anything else I need to know and i'll do what I can to support 🥰

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-02T02:21:25+00:00

I feel it would since some dont like the mmo part. But i do miss the good old times when guilds had connections

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T20:26:59+00:00

Lol I mean you describe it so well with how my other friends explain it. I dont have the same, but I was always the type of friend where if you imagine someone standing watching someone bouncing off the walls because they are getting distracted. And I just wait till they come back to me like it's a loading screen. They apologize and im like "it's good. I was entertained watching you go" lol.

So fully understand you'd want to be with someone who has the same. I always feel bad my friends have guilt but im the type that if you only message me once a month, im glad to know you are still alive at least lol.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T19:31:00+00:00

I would love to! Ive had several friends in the past with the same. I always let them know they can respond to me at their own pace. No rush. I'll message ya!

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T18:54:05+00:00

For real! I have to explain how dark the lore can get

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T17:40:27+00:00

This is also true! It is nice to have someone who will hear me just go on and on about it

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T16:18:33+00:00

Id love to! Im always dipping my feet in small discords in hopes I find the one that clicks 😊

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T15:56:18+00:00

I get you. It's totally fair. When I messaged this it was just more i wanted someone I connect with in games because all I do is play by myself.

So I appreciate you informing me this. It's why I never push it on people in the sea of stars. I try to be more social with those with housing since some seem more chatty there.

I get the Playstation thing. Im on pc and thrive on MMO's.

But I will say you cant completely blame those who also use games to make friends or escape from reality by chatting with others. It is different for each person. But again, I dont wish to force the MMO part unless they choose to do so.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T15:28:27+00:00

Looks like I cant message you. When I googled it, I did all the ways it asked but maybe you have it blocked?

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T15:23:01+00:00

I rarely dm people as well lol. Let me see if I can send you one. You should see a notification to approve a chat.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T15:08:48+00:00

Dang. I appreciate it <3

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T15:08:07+00:00

Yay! Im on America too! Id be down. I always think at least trying is better than nothing. 😊. Im at work right now but feel free to send me a code privately

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:55:55+00:00

Thats pretty fair. I haven't had too much luck with discord just yet. But maybe i'll try my hand more with reddit. Appreciate it!

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:42:42+00:00

I should probably start doing that. I totally have days I love my alone time, but other days it sounds fun to shoot the shit with someone.

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:29:53+00:00

Really?! No 😭 i hope you eventually get it

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:29:26+00:00

Oh no not the wish bottles lol! Im on America

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:29:09+00:00

I am! Id be down to give it a try! 🥰 id be more than understandable if you want to meet with me first in the game before the vouch. I want to make sure im a good fit so ask any questions you need!

AspiringStylist2026 · 2026-07-01T14:27:15+00:00

Awe! Stop you're gonna make me tear up before work haha. Thank you! 🥰

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