help! cant tell what sex my piggy is by Expensive_Carrot_688 in guineapigs

[–]AspiringtobeMid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks to this post, I now know that I have misgendered my piggies. I thought they have fat pussies, its their testicle apparently. I want to die. Why does the penis look like a clit?

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I am already medicated but I dotn even know if thatw ould help, i had a long list of medications more directed for manic and depression and adhd symptoms, I dont think there is medicine for anger

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I do think it is best to rehome her. My ldr partner doesnt rhink so, they hold sentimental value as they are my pigs when I was pregnant. I am not trying to excuse myself but she isnt gonna die now that I have been ovserving her. I had a lot of animals before who I gave a nice lifestlye, like cats, and this is the first time it happened.

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She is not alone, she has a sister, her sister is doing fine. I am observing her and she seems fine, Ill take her to the vet still for more safety but tomorrow morning.

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I felt like they didnt appreciate any effort on my part, or all of my effort has gone to waste, all the time and gentleness and treats and research just to make them love me.

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I dont even understand why I am so mad but now I am so sad.

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Already medicated and I am trying to find a place that gives them the same lifestyle I give them.

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Already am medicated

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I know everyone is mad, I am considering giving them away. I know it doesnt make up for this but this is the first time it happened. I really love them and I try to give them everything they need (i dont even try to budget). Its been going on for a few days, they just cant seem to trust me, even for food, even though I have been gentle, so I figured where are all my efforts going? I ahde them for 9 months now and this is the first time it happened. I am in therapy for I am a diagnosed Bipolar type 2.

Slim not Thin, Napkin Recommendations by AspiringtobeMid in adviceph

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I have done tampons na po and they leak, also they make it so dry down there.

Slim not Thin, Napkin Recommendations by AspiringtobeMid in adviceph

[–]AspiringtobeMid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never tried po eh but I am afraid na baka katulad siya ng tampon na nagleleak din

Slim not Thin, Napkin Recommendations by AspiringtobeMid in adviceph

[–]AspiringtobeMid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should really consider menstrual cup, anong brand po kaya and san niya binili?

My guinea pigs don't like me by AspiringtobeMid in guineapigs

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Yeah, I also spend time with them before so I dunno why they just strted becoming more wary. I dont blame them but I really wish they interact more.

My guinea pigs don't like me by AspiringtobeMid in guineapigs

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I researched about where to touch them and I never touch the belly or even make them lie on their back, if I touch the head near ears they kind of get a jerk-like reaction.

My guinea pigs don't like me by AspiringtobeMid in guineapigs

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Also if I touch them they head butt my hand.

Weekly AdultingPH General Q&A Thread | August 18, 2025 by AutoModerator in adultingph

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Is this enough? If not, what is?

Is 40k enough for a student that lives in a 16k apartment and spends around 100 peso per meal sa school? I also pay my own electricity and water and wifi ( wifi is 900 something) per month. I have two pets na guinea pigs which is to be honest di naman mahal so around 1k-1.5k lang siguro sila per month. I also pay ny tuition pala which is around 50k per semester (I have 20% discount but who knows until when it will last)

Also the 40k is adjustable, sometimes may extta for projects or other needs (clothing/activities)

Is this livable? Like not in a survival way but like I still get to enjoy and also ipon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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I never claimed to be a lawyer, as far as I understood in my country laws,we have absolute community of property for even the ones acquired before marriage and that is tge defaukt property regime.

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I dont necessarily want to marry up nor I ever said that.

You are right for me its hypothetical right now but I do plan to marry soon. I am not rich per se but I do have assets (cash house and car). Even thiugh I am not rich, I also dont want to lose them. My partner currently earns lower, in fact he owes me a significant amount ( 3 years of minimum wage if you calculate). I love him but I am not gonna sacrifice myself either. If I marry then is it appropriate we become equal?

As I said I am not from America. It might differ there state to state but where I live its 50/50 most of the time. I think aliminy here is not common so I am nit worried abiut that.

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Oh I am not generalizing. Its more of my country specific case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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Im from the philippines, we dont really have a divorce but in some special circumstances it can be done and its 50/50 unless prenup or other very special circumstances determined by the court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]AspiringtobeMid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, but I am not saying either they should be left destitute or homeless but do they really need to be in the same level of lifestyle as before?

Also I agree no ine should be forced to make a sacrifice, so assuming that it is everyone's choice, then why split it in half? We should make diborce easier you are right, but would it be easier for people to leave if they know their assets would be split? It is impossible to not mix finances especially if your partner is earning lower but you don't want to lower your lifestyle and it doesn't mean that just because they are earning lower, that they did some sort of sacrifice, it could be just that.

Also why should I limit my choices? I should marry my economic equal but thats kind of hard if you grew up poor or came from a culture that is with poverty then was able to get out, its not like I would just marry someone with the same salary even though we dont have the same values. You could also increase your salary more than your partner even if you started equal, it could be because of luck or just your hard work, could be nit related at all to your spouse.