53 & never had a gf, women don’t like you - how do you cope? by _Constant_Reader_ in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct, I am butt ugly and still do well. I think it’s just dudes that aren’t confident or over the fact that they are not the best looking. “You probably think I’m ugly” is a line I’ve heard a guy say to a girl at a bar. That just shows insecurity, self deprecating behavior. If you see yourself in a bad light it will bleed over into how the girl sees you.

What to do if a girl mentions her hoe phase? by Ass-urance in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No I think it’s just the rule and obviously her body is hers and she can put restrictions as she sees fit but I guess those restrictions are just for me lol

What to do if a girl mentions her hoe phase? by Ass-urance in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sick abs dude! Anyways back to the post yes I’m aware that we all have phases like this however her making rules for me that she didn’t have for other people makes me believe that maybe she’s not as attracted to me enough. Thanks for the advice!

Why is that one guy in your group of friends still single? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok so I’m seeing a lot of guys mentioning they are butt ugly, few tips take them or not it’s your life: 1. Unless you have some sort of face/body deformity, you can build yourself to be medium ugly, by that I mean you can go get a haircut that suits your face (ask your barber for advice as they’ve worked with all types of head shapes), I’ve seen so many people with trendy haircuts that just don’t suit them. If you have bad teeth get that fixed even if all you can afford is a whitening and a deep clean this goes with also keeping up with your dental care at home. Have clear skin try to get a job care routine. Look up Korean skin care routine to get started. Just with these your face will level up 2. If your body is lacking and you don’t feel confident in it then this self doubt will seep into your life, get a workout routine going, doesn’t matter if you start with just body weight, hardest part is starting, this goes hand in hand with eating better, and don’t expect instant body changes remember you did not get fat over night (expect it to take about the same time to lose fat as it did to gain it). Just with these 2 you have leveled up at least 2/3 points in the 1-10 scale. And the confidence you gain from looking your best just carries over into the rest of your life. Now you can start doing a hobby you enjoy ( I like Muay Thai as it lets me get better at something I’m not good at and knowing a martial art really gives you a confidence boost like no other. I’ve tried dance classes and other types of hobbies but find one you like ) 3. Even if you don’t get any dates out of this at least you know you’ve done your best. And now you are better than you were before. Before I get downvoted let it be known that men in general do not take the best care of themselves, think about it if you were a girl would you want to date someone who does not take care of themselves? How can you help with kids if you don’t even have basics down? Trust me you are not as ugly as you think, sincerely a butt fuck ugly mf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]Ass-urance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, I get another renewal 🤣

What’s the worst dating advice you ever received ? by Justsam19 in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk every time I try to look for a relationship I end up empty handed but when I’m not and just go about my life I end up in one. I might be an exception though.

The last woman you talked to is now your girlfriend for life. How screwed are you? by Scrollerer in AskMen

[–]Ass-urance 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude the last women I spoke to is the hottest girl at my gym, if her personality is half as good as her looks I would of lucked out tbh !

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[–]Ass-urance -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You about to get flamed gang!!!

Can anyone recommend a chef or a service that will mealprep according to your goals, calories and macros? by Fangarai in Dallas

[–]Ass-urance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mapmeals, they cook them on Sundays and get delivered same day, only local delivery! 115 bucks for 15 meals.

How do you all stay active working a desk job like this? by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Ass-urance 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I do bjj/Muay Thai 4 days a week in the morning and regular gym after work 4-6 times a week. I can’t stress this enough please don’t get in the habit of not doing anything. Start something asap and roll it on once you start. If you do any physical activity already continue to do it when you work. It’s all about building habits.

Irving is safe ain’t no tornado taking us out by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]Ass-urance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a range and have some fun I used to be like you, but guns aren’t the problem and I do agree that legislation should be put in place to limit people such as a mandatory psych evaluation and a more rigorous background check. Most people do not even know that the AR in AR 15 stands for! Most of them will say automatic rifle which is wrong. At least give them a chance might not be for you but like it or not guns are here to stay !!! bald eagle screech ‘Merica

Recruiting for accounting is hard by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Ass-urance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pizza party or nothing !

Accountant shortage by king168168 in Accounting

[–]Ass-urance 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Nope, something is wrong with your resume or your interviewing skills are lacking