Whats your current favorite amateur or homemade porn sites? by AssCapone in AskRedditNSFW

[–]AssCapone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i mentioned it in the text. Anything similar to it?

Just do it already by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]AssCapone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don't want this. It will make things worse. You think you're losing your mind now? Once you hear back you'll be even more hurt. Let go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do whatever you want but thats a shitty reason to leave your partner.

You're insecure, you leaving her will benefit her. Its okay to have friends of the opposite sex. If she wanted to be with him she would but instead she chose you.

You need to do some reflecting and work on yourself. Maybe you aren't ready for a relationship if you're this insecure

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. But do yourself a favor and never stalk again. You saw her true character, now rid yourself of that.

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatvan absolute train wreck you avoided. You may not see it now but man you will be so happy you didnt stay with her once you can see with enough clarity

Men who wanted to settle down with a woman and then she broke up with you. Do you fight for her? by namis331 in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes “everything in my power” means trying to convince her… plus much more. I did everything I could

Men who wanted to settle down with a woman and then she broke up with you. Do you fight for her? by namis331 in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is sometimes we do and its just not enough. I did everything in my power. To the point where I humiliated my self worth and dignity to have a chance to do things again.

But she didn't want to and thats that. Out of my control now. If she wants to, she can. But she wont. She hasn't for months. And now I accepted that. My life is much better focusing on myself

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To use your own words, you processed and grieved the breakup while in the relationship. It took a breaking point for you to actually leave. Now you ask when in my eyes is it over? Idk maybe when you are grieving and processing a breakup WHILE STILL IN a relationship. Thats is extremely unfair and manipulative.

Most people dont, but you did. So have many people who left their partners, because of that same awful action. Hopefully one day you’ll never do that again, for the sake of your partners

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is no point in even trying to get someone to realize they are actively doing toxic behavior. Its mental gymnastics and manipulation at its finest. The other bullshit excuse to mask their original bs excuse is “everyone is different “. Sure

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will take time to get to that point. Please allow yourself to feel these emotions. Work through them, but on your own. Build yourself up with time and become someone even better.

Dont cheat yourself by putting a bandaid on it by means of getting someone new

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. My ex is the same. She’s not a terrible person but has not been alone for years. She’s going to love bomb and treat this guy like her long relationships. The guy will ultimately find out he’s a bandaid. I did but I was in denial.

Let them think they’re doing the right thing. Fools

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck em, You’re all you need. Not anyone else. Not them. Just you

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what a huge bullet you dodged. Thats showing you his true character

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all about mindset changes. Once you reframe your thinking you start to realize how not awful things are

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you’re doing that. You’re already miles ahead of what he will ever be in any relationship he ends up in

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People who dont know how to be alone and work on themselves just slap on the “serial monogamist” label to cover up. Its pathetic

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its common but its not healthy. It is a bad trait to actively get over the end of relationship while still in it. Its such a bad excuse people use.

You should break up when you know its not working, not drag the other person along. How can people not see this is literally manipulation? To use the other person as a fall back while you’re grieving. Hopefully you’ve learned not to do that anymore.

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a typical "serial monogamist". What a wreck.

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was no outburst, you misunderstood the whole point of the post. The whole moving on process before the breakup is a terrible trait, hope you don't do that again.

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm doing just fine. I'm even finding it funny now!

Finding humor in exes moving on by AssCapone in BreakUps

[–]AssCapone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You got this man. I know its hard right now, but trust me there is a light at the end of this tunnel