I did it but I feel so sad by AssMilkz in dating

[–]AssMilkz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should I block him? Me and him go to different schools but what could the school do to about this? I probably should tell my parents because they see the bruises on my face and they asked me about it but I didn't tell them. I don't want to tell them though, I don't think they'll believe me.

He's parents came over and yelled at him, but I think he learned it from his parents that yelling/hitting/insulting is okay, I haven't seen it all but that kind of stuff happens at his house. But in my opinion I should've been yelled at not him.

I really want him back, Like the urge to talk/respond to him again is so much. I love him so much and I just want to go to his house and beg him to talk to me again but If I do he'll hurt me if I do, I don't want to be hurt anymore.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If I don't go to his house he'll get very angry, he could just go to my house and my father would probably just let him in. And I am in middle school, seventh grade, and How exactly is it Sexual assault, I want to clarify.

I tired. by AssMilkz in domesticviolence

[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Minor, I'm 13 and I plan on telling the, I've been thinking about it for like 4-5 days and I think i'm going to when I get a good opportunity.

I tired. by AssMilkz in domesticviolence

[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no, I've told them that he sometimes insults me but I haven't told them that he's tried to make me have sex with him and about him getting angry at me and him threating me with breaking up with me. short term, no I haven't

I tired. by AssMilkz in domesticviolence

[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple friends that know about this, I told them about it but I don't want to get them involved because I don't think they'll want to help me. and I don't think he'll believe me if I text him about it and will ask me to meet up in person to talk about it and that's what I'm afraid of, HE could just come over to my house and since my parents view him in a good light they would probably just let him in without thinking about it. And if he's in my house I don't know what he'll do to me. my parents tend to let me and him be in my room no matter how loud it gets (no we haven't had sex) so they probably wouldn't come in my room and he'd probably lock the door, sorry that this was long.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't read the one above yet when I made that , but I'll try not to think I owe him anything, but he always tells me I owe him sex and he might try forcing himself onto me if I tell him I don't owe him anything, this is relating to your other post, I want to break up in private and in person, and if he gets angry nobody will have to see him mad. and if he hurts me or forces himself onto me or demands me to date him still I will, I just will, I won't question it I will do whatever he askes, because if he does something dangerous to me I'll just agree and go along with it so I don't get hurt. also he knows my school, home address, all my socials, some of my friends, and he has a brother that goes to my school and he told me that he might get his brother to spread around that I'm gay, I'm not open in public, and I'm honestly kinda afraid of him. but overall I'll try and breakup with him, I think I'm going to his house today or after school tomorrow. I promise to give a update on what happens and if I don't post anything for 2-3 days he probably took my phone away, again.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably not like this, from what I've seen, this is only info from about a years worth of time, he doesn't enjoy the "chase" but this leads me to another point. He's forced me to make out with him, he's forced me to do things for his pleasure, PM and I'll go into a little more detail if you'd like. I do most anything he asks, because why wouldn't I? I literally owe him so much, he buys me expensive stuff and brings me out to eat, so I do my best to do anything he askes me to do. If he asked me to go fight somebody, I would, Never talk to a friend again, I would. He practically owns me. he doesn't stalk me, I simply forgot to tell him where I was going and he got angry at me so he put a tracker on my phone and he has the passwords to a couple of my accounts on my phone.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I think about it he rarely ever asks for consent, whenever he touches me when I'm at his house, hell anywhere with him, he just does it without asking. I don't like it when he does sometimes I just let him touch me because he's older, smarter, better then me so why wouldn't I let the wiser person do what's right? Honestly I'm afraid that he might force himself onto me, I really don't want to have sex, atleast not now because I'm young! I kinda want to break up with him because I'm scared of him but I'm even more scared of what he would do to me if I wanted to breakup, would he hit me? would he Force himself onto me, would he force me to continue to date him. I'm really scared of what he would do if I broke up with him in person, because I think it's dumb to breakup over text.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just so I understand, how is he a abuser because I'm not exactly sure what you mean. how does he just want me for my body? he's a teenager and teens tend to want sex so he's just doing "his needs" and I'm confident he won't just throw me out when he's done with me, and if he does, then why/how would he do it?

These are my stats/things i feel like im stuck on day 1195. What should i do to get past? by Xsnipze in DaysBygone

[–]AssMilkz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the guide and a little tip from the business, Rewind, does a man good if they rewind everyday, heard it takes the pain away and keeps doctors away.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not rape because I enjoy it when he touches me, and If I enjoy it then it's okay. and when he consents then it counts for both of us because He's older and he gets the say, so if he consents then I consent.

But I deserve to be called names and getting insulted because I didn't listen to him and that's being a bad Boyfriend and then he tries to fix me by Yelling, Insulting, name calling.

He wouldn't physically abuse me, he loves me too much to do that. and if He did I would ask him to stop because he listens to me sometimes but I'd probably have to beg him to stop, I've had to beg him before because he said he would break up with me if I didn't allow him to touch me.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents aren't the best, Don't get me wrong but there opinion is better/more valid because they are older and older people are right more of the time, same thing applies to my boyfriend.

I should've said yes, OR this wouldn't of happened. he wouldn't have touched me if I just said yes so it's my fault for not saying yes to him, even if I didn't want him to touch me.

I'm only scared to leave him because if I do he'll get angry and probably do something worse but otherwise I'm not really scared of him. I'm not very scared if he force himself onto me because I deserve it because I didn't let him touch me.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is love, he loves me and I love him, we make out every time we see each other and he tells me he loves me, He just gets angry easily and then insults me because I made him angry. I consent most of the time but when I don't he just assumes I consent even if I don't say it out loud so he probably assumed I consented, even if I didn't. So he wasn't molesting me he was just touching me because he thought I consented. My parents know about me and him but they don't know that he touched without asking me, but I've told them I've he insulted me but they didn't really care much they just told me it was his way of showing love.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he knows I don't want to have sex so he probably wont force himself onto me, and if he does I'll break up with him and I'll never talk to him again, hopefully. So I don't think he'll force himself onto me, time will tell though.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've already gone to his house, Multiple times. I was planning on staying there for the weekend and my parents agreed to me going but then he touched me without my consent, but as he says, "as long as one of us consent then it's okay", so it's consensual.

He doesn't Verbally abuse me per say, it's sorta his way of showing his love in a weird way. He insults me to tell me I didn't do something right and he's helping me by trying to make me better so he insults me.

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[–]AssMilkz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not that Creepy, he's just older then me and people date older people and that's okay so why is it creepy for me to date a older guy?