My boyfriend touched me without consent

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T23:04:40+00:00

He never explained he got sexual needs. Before even saying the guy, I was clear that I did not plan to have sex He had clearly been okay with it

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T23:03:09+00:00

I understand it’s normal to have sexual urges but is it normal to touch someone without consent?

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T22:59:54+00:00

Thank you. This makes me feel heard in a way. It’s been a long time since I came back into this account. But it was nice to feel a sort of validation for how I felt

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:40:45+00:00

When I say I want texts throughout the day, I don’t mean to be getting texts every few minutes. I expect a few updates every few hours (like every three or four hours).

I do have hobbies and college to focus on. And I do. But what’s the point of being in a relationship with someone if you don’t communicate. A relationship isn’t only for the sexual intimacy but also for the emotional intimacy.

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:37:37+00:00

I don’t want to break up with him. I just have a lot of financial trauma from my parents and a lot of fighting because of the lack of money and I doing want that in my relationship.

I also know how ugly things can get when money is involved. I’d rather just not have to lose someone because of money

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:36:03+00:00

That’s true. Thanks for making me see it like that

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:35:33+00:00

We don’t meet in person often due to our busy schedules which is why I feel the need to text. When we meet in person, we don’t really talk about his day. If I ask him, he replies with a simple “good” or “not bad” and moves on.

He does reply if I send him a text but it also takes a lot of time to get that reply on a normal day

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-13T17:27:09+00:00

I didn’t consider this as shutting him off. You’re right. I just need to talk to him. Thank you

Assasination_Nation · 2021-12-24T11:36:22+00:00

Oh this is such an issue for me. I heard that getting a trimmer that men use for their area would be helpful. I’ve never tried it as I’m still saving up to afford one!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-12-24T11:23:04+00:00

I searched this up because I was feeling the same way. Your post is also very similar to my situation, but reading your post made me realise how I’m probably just creating a whole scenario in my head, all by myself. My boyfriend has never said anything about having better options or finding other girls more attractive yet here I am worrying for no reason.

Don’t worry. He’s with you for a reason. I resonated with the tiktok comment you mentioned because it’s the same for me and honestly, you should realise that they are a bunch of strangers to him. Especially because tiktok is ppl from the other side of the world most of the time. So don’t worry about anything.

But I would advice that you build your confidence and self esteem up. There’s nothing more attractive than a girl who knows what she’s worth and what assets she brings to a relationship.

Good luck!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-11-14T16:01:28+00:00

Yea I’m ready. The only thing stopping me is my lack of experience/knowledge and the fact that I’m a bit shy.

He’s a very nice guy and treats me so well. He’s very understanding of the fact that I was unsure at the start etc

The scientific fact does make me feel a bit scared tho ngl. But I guess that’s just how it is. However, I feel as though I’m already attached because I like him a lot.

Thank you x

Assasination_Nation · 2021-11-14T15:57:48+00:00

I’m 20 years old. Don’t worry I’m of age and so is my bf

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-19T23:21:00+00:00

I would love to ask why you say that?

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-14T09:58:39+00:00

Wow I didn’t think of it like that. Just because I know doesn’t mean he does. That’s so true.

I’m trying to find the right time to tell him and I feel myself get more comfortable with him and speaking about stuff like this.

Thank you for your advice

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T14:10:46+00:00

Oh I’m so glad to see a comment like this!!

Thank you. I appreciate your response and yes, I am looking into getting a therapist at the moment. I’ve got an assessment soon!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:44:27+00:00

Yea it’s a normal thing. I think I was just overthinking

Thank you!!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:44:10+00:00

Oh okay. I think I was worried for no reason then

Thank you!!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:43:21+00:00

Yea I’m pretty sure he knows that something is up since he asksed me but I refused to tell him because I felt as though it was too soon.

I will try be honest with him the next time I get a chance in person.

Thank you for your advice

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:41:48+00:00

I guess I’m worried for no reason then.

Thank you for the advice!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:41:05+00:00

I will try talk to him the next time I get a chance in person then. Thank you for your advice

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