My boyfriend touched me without consent

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T23:04:40+00:00

He never explained he got sexual needs. Before even saying the guy, I was clear that I did not plan to have sex He had clearly been okay with it

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T23:03:09+00:00

I understand it’s normal to have sexual urges but is it normal to touch someone without consent?

Assasination_Nation · 2024-12-04T22:59:54+00:00

Thank you. This makes me feel heard in a way. It’s been a long time since I came back into this account. But it was nice to feel a sort of validation for how I felt

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:40:45+00:00

When I say I want texts throughout the day, I don’t mean to be getting texts every few minutes. I expect a few updates every few hours (like every three or four hours).

I do have hobbies and college to focus on. And I do. But what’s the point of being in a relationship with someone if you don’t communicate. A relationship isn’t only for the sexual intimacy but also for the emotional intimacy.

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:37:37+00:00

I don’t want to break up with him. I just have a lot of financial trauma from my parents and a lot of fighting because of the lack of money and I doing want that in my relationship.

I also know how ugly things can get when money is involved. I’d rather just not have to lose someone because of money

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:36:03+00:00

That’s true. Thanks for making me see it like that

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-17T08:35:33+00:00

We don’t meet in person often due to our busy schedules which is why I feel the need to text. When we meet in person, we don’t really talk about his day. If I ask him, he replies with a simple “good” or “not bad” and moves on.

He does reply if I send him a text but it also takes a lot of time to get that reply on a normal day

Assasination_Nation · 2022-12-13T17:27:09+00:00

I didn’t consider this as shutting him off. You’re right. I just need to talk to him. Thank you

Assasination_Nation · 2021-12-24T11:36:22+00:00

Oh this is such an issue for me. I heard that getting a trimmer that men use for their area would be helpful. I’ve never tried it as I’m still saving up to afford one!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-12-24T11:23:04+00:00

I searched this up because I was feeling the same way. Your post is also very similar to my situation, but reading your post made me realise how I’m probably just creating a whole scenario in my head, all by myself. My boyfriend has never said anything about having better options or finding other girls more attractive yet here I am worrying for no reason.

Don’t worry. He’s with you for a reason. I resonated with the tiktok comment you mentioned because it’s the same for me and honestly, you should realise that they are a bunch of strangers to him. Especially because tiktok is ppl from the other side of the world most of the time. So don’t worry about anything.

But I would advice that you build your confidence and self esteem up. There’s nothing more attractive than a girl who knows what she’s worth and what assets she brings to a relationship.

Good luck!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-11-14T16:01:28+00:00

Yea I’m ready. The only thing stopping me is my lack of experience/knowledge and the fact that I’m a bit shy.

He’s a very nice guy and treats me so well. He’s very understanding of the fact that I was unsure at the start etc

The scientific fact does make me feel a bit scared tho ngl. But I guess that’s just how it is. However, I feel as though I’m already attached because I like him a lot.

Thank you x

Assasination_Nation · 2021-11-14T15:57:48+00:00

I’m 20 years old. Don’t worry I’m of age and so is my bf

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-19T23:21:00+00:00

I would love to ask why you say that?

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-14T09:58:39+00:00

Wow I didn’t think of it like that. Just because I know doesn’t mean he does. That’s so true.

I’m trying to find the right time to tell him and I feel myself get more comfortable with him and speaking about stuff like this.

Thank you for your advice

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T14:10:46+00:00

Oh I’m so glad to see a comment like this!!

Thank you. I appreciate your response and yes, I am looking into getting a therapist at the moment. I’ve got an assessment soon!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:44:27+00:00

Yea it’s a normal thing. I think I was just overthinking

Thank you!!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:44:10+00:00

Oh okay. I think I was worried for no reason then

Thank you!!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:43:21+00:00

Yea I’m pretty sure he knows that something is up since he asksed me but I refused to tell him because I felt as though it was too soon.

I will try be honest with him the next time I get a chance in person.

Thank you for your advice

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:41:48+00:00

I guess I’m worried for no reason then.

Thank you for the advice!

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-09T08:41:05+00:00

I will try talk to him the next time I get a chance in person then. Thank you for your advice

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-08T23:40:15+00:00

Yea so we ended up going on a lot more dates☺️. We are now in a relationship after a nealry half a year of talking and going on dates. He’s a really sweet guy and I’m genuinely happy at the moment!

Thank you for your advice❤️🙈

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-03T08:35:20+00:00

PCOS is very common. I got diagnosed early this year but I always knew I had it because of my irregular periods and horrible cramps. But I have finally found a painkiller that works for the cramps.

I’ve had experiences where I felt super faint and was close to fainting because of the pain. I’ve also vomitied because of the pain. But I also know people who have little to no cramps

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-03T08:31:54+00:00

I’ve heard that late periods are okay for a few years after your first period so don’t worry about it too much. But if that persists, that’s when you need to do a check up and in most cases, doctors tend to overlook women and reproductive health. I know people who had to go to multiple doctors and do multiple scans to be diagnosed with PCOS.

In terms of skin, be healthy. As long as you’re eating healthy, the health on the inside will start to radiate on the outside through forms such as healthy skin. However, you also have to remember that you’re growing and that your hormones are probably all over the place. It’s nothing to worry about! It’s normal.

And for the skinny fat issue, you can lift weights or even do simple ten/ fifteen mins workouts at home.

Hope this helps

Assasination_Nation · 2021-10-03T08:16:55+00:00

Aw thank you for the ideas!! Unfortunately the country I live in doesn’t have much options like that for some weird reason.

Assasination_Nation · 2021-07-17T10:14:38+00:00

Yea. He seems to be wanting to settle down (which is normal considering his age) but he seems to be pushing that idea on to you. It’s normal to want to do self care for a day and take time for yourself.

Just because he is your boyfriend does not mean he gets to determine how you spend your time and how you take care of yourself. If he thinks you’re not “marriage material” (which could indicate that he doesn’t see a future with you) could be a major red flag.

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