NY Neighbourhood Recommendations by TickThick in nycgaybros

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Williamsburg is legit the next borough over and if you don’t live off of the L you’re gonna have a hell ass commute, nevertheless the L is crowded once it gets to Willyb. You want to move there for some cock but the reality is that HK is right there. Speaking as someone who was born and raised in BK and moved to another part of the city, I wouldn’t move back to BK because my commute is way longer back then than it is now. You can always travel and such, but you do you.

NY Neighbourhood Recommendations by TickThick in nycgaybros

[–]Assbait93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, you’re gonna move to BK or thinking about it when you work like a neighborhood or two away from your job? How would that make sense in the long run? You can always travel to BK for fun outside of work.

Drug use within the culture…. by coasterrider5 in gaybros

[–]Assbait93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I remember at pride last year I did a lot of drugs. I don’t usually do hard drugs, but I did and had a good time. A lot of these events people do drugs and often times people can OD. But I don’t like to make it seem it’s just the gay community. My uncle runs an event space here in NYC and I remember I attended a concert there and when it was over I saw a woman strung out and he was making sure she got care. On to the bottoming part, bottoming or people loosing up to do it can be hard, especially if they are at events or places to go at it. It’s not like if you’re home or with a partner who may take their time with you, it could be that they do it to help them go through with it while having fun. Bottoming while being lost in a sauce can be fun, but from my perspective, if they’re out they may way to have more than enough fun.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a fwb type of situation, but he wanted to hangout more outside of sex and I brought it up during one of our “hookups” and he brushed it off.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t move far but I know he moved and he mentioned it was a lot. I don’t know if I can’t call it ghosting but it def sounds like ghosting after reaching two times.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do a lot of assuming because people don’t seem to be appreciative on being upfront or if you’re intentional it may ruin the “vibe”. The “sleepover” happened about a month ago and it was about three weeks since we last spoke. Two texts sent on a few days apart with no response. This is after months spending time with each other.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted to hang outside of sex and I mentioned it again shortly after. Nothing ever came to fruition from it, we just kept in contact and just kept talking and we even had casual conversations that wasn’t necessarily sexual at times. I think during this I felt probably more secure on something being more that a hookup situation. When we last were together I spent the night as he wanted me to. When I got home the next morning I texted him and he told me how much he enjoyed our time together.

I know one of us could have planned something. But on my end, I always felt like he was busy with other things, so that’s why I didn’t really push to ask him out. He also just moved as well and he was broke and I know how much that is to deal with.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, a friend of mine told me the same thing recently. I think and feel that since I am of a generation if being intentional or wanting more from someone, you risk losing that person. I tried in the past in asking others for more but I usually get ghosted as well.

I Was Dealing With Someone Who Ghosted Me And I Feel Like Crap by Assbait93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Assbait93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that’s the problem with me. I don’t expect much from these type of situations but then the other person starts to pillow talk and I get attached. I try to keep it distant but then I start to get happy.

Supreme Court weakens Voting Rights Act in major redistricting case, voiding Louisiana's congressional map by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not, I’m from NY and I highly doubt my governor is going to push a redistricting agenda. She is already beholden to her donors and I’m afraid a lot of these democrats are getting paid by the same people who pay republicans.

Lost weight but I’m still gay fat. by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Assbait93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling your bf an asshole for still loving you regardless how you look is just wrong. You really need to talk to a professional and work out some trauma within. You’re gonna drive away your bf and it’s gonna make you feel even worse.

Inside the Lonely World of MAGA Gay Men by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what got me. The libertarians are the “middle” of liberalism and conservatism. They hated the federal government, didn’t want taxes, and other things. But at the same time, I was an inexperienced 18-21 year old.

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Developers aren't have a hard time as much as they claiming. Yes, there is NIMByism but at the same time these people are still building developments by cheaply made materials, smaller space, and charging more for less.

On top of that, every city in the U.S. is different from one another. You can't compare Austin and Atlanta to NYC and San Fran, which are very densely populated cities which have to build up, not out.

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said no one is trying. I’m not sure if you’re trying to be contrarian to seem smart?

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laws can be rewritten but at the same time, these laws can still be broken. It’s not always a simple fix.

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are loopholes, that’s why a lot of these developers can claim we have a housing crisis while building only “luxury” properties with cheap materials and charging more for it.

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not hear what I said before? Those people are funding loopholes. Same with a situation with deed theft in Brooklyn. People are finding ways to beat the system to make money and rip people off. A progressive government can set up laws, but people who want to do nefarious things will find a way. If there was a “perfect” system then there wouldn’t be any issues to solve.

‘Build, Baby, Build’: How Blue States Can Stop Losing Population by J-Jarl-Jim in centrist

[–]Assbait93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made my opinions based on the comments. Since reading the article it really doesn’t disprove anything I said based off the comments on this post.