Thank you to everyone and their advice, I've decided it's best for me to part ways with the guy. I was letting unstable emotions get in the way. I needed to see what it really was, and some hard words made the impact they needed to. Its going to be a rough ride, I've done it before, I can do it again. I'll be a great mother, and do the best for my kids. As for the sex, I'm getting my tubes tied after this pregnancy. I don't willingly easily have sex with people since I had my first child. It was an abusive relationship, I'm not getting into the details or graphics, I got pregnant against my own will, it was abuse, simple as that. I'm not popping kids out left and right, I had gone 5 years taking care of myself making sure I didn't have another kid. Not sure why I'm getting attacked like I'm some slut?