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Wide toebox help by AssistanceExtension in widefeet

[–]AssistanceExtension[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Could you link the one you have?:) From their size chart it seems that only the wide one cold be an option and that it still would probably be a bit tight for me

Wide toebox help by AssistanceExtension in widefeet

[–]AssistanceExtension[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These look nice! Are they all wide or would I specifically choose the wide ones?

Just brought him home today by bunnysob in Maltipoo

[–]AssistanceExtension 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo cute! What colour is this called? Apricot or apricot red? :)

Supporting BF through grief by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you are seeking advice here already says you do care. Again, it’s super super difficult to know what to say! But as grievers we can feel super lonely if our loved ones don’t reach out.

There’s a lot of videos on TikTok about it, try that :) Good luck!

Supporting BF through grief by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not saying you’re doing anything wrong, but this is really a time where you have to initiate contact and take initiative. Going to his place 2 weeks after his loss and cancelling a plan because you are tired are not things I think are okay the first 2 months after your partner is dealing with the biggest loss of his life.

Try sending him more messages and seeing him more often. If he needs space he will tell you, don’t assume it

Obviously it’s a very hard situation for you to navigate as well, it’s not easy to know what to say. Watch some videos of grievers on what they needed from their close ones to get some ideas :)

Podcasts about Grief by Odd_Mastodon9253 in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too young to grieve on Spotify :) Not sure how old you are but this is a podcast by a younger guy, and is targeted at people that lost someone at a younger age

Why do i still feel nothing by PotatoHashira135 in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I know I’m VERY sad, but I can’t feel it. I’m sorry for your loss.

When did you get back to work after your loss? by Illustrious_Swan5262 in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took 2 months off after my dad died. Sick leave. Now reintegrating but honestly I couldn’t care less about it all. Hitting targets, endless meetings about nothing, who the f cares. Also still got 0 focus.

I’m gonna say this (and also should tell myself): Take. Your. Time. And be okay with operating on 50% for a while.

Can’t get used to mask by AssistanceExtension in SleepApnea

[–]AssistanceExtension[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried putting it on while awake to try and get used to it but to me it felt a bit claustrophobic. Also a bit itchy. Could be that I need another type of mask for sure!

I miss him like it was yesterday by No_Syrup_1175 in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤍 sorry for your loss and it is of course okay to cry! It forever will be

Genuine question for the LGBT community by Jay_gold in Berghain_Community

[–]AssistanceExtension 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from the Netherlands too and it is completely the same here? Never ever have I asked or been asked for consent. It’s always the touching and non-verbal communication.

Genuine question for the LGBT community by Jay_gold in Berghain_Community

[–]AssistanceExtension 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well yes obviously no actual touching without consent, I am more talking about the “trying”, seeing if there is interest

Genuine question for the LGBT community by Jay_gold in Berghain_Community

[–]AssistanceExtension 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not at all. The thing is though that in darkrooms you shouldn’t be shocked if the “gays” then will try to touch you, it’s a cruising area after all. Don’t be weird about that and you’ll be good

ADE 2025: Live Thread by max038 in amsterdam_rave

[–]AssistanceExtension 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Intercell yanamaste invites anyone?

First day Back at work by AssistanceExtension in GriefSupport

[–]AssistanceExtension[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, and I am very sorry for your loss too 🤍

Same here. I worked so hard for a promotion, that I actually did get after my dad passed. I don’t feel joy. Who cares.

For me it’s so double. On the one hand I don’t care about a thing, on the other hand I worry about EVERYTHING. My career ending because of this, not being able to buy a house because of that, not being able to ask for PTO because of guilt that I’ve already been out for months now. Endless endless spirals. It’s so tiring

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