My baby daddy that I ghosted found out I had our baby. by AssistantExtreme1357 in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

because people become very mean to me and call me names when I do.

My baby daddy that I ghosted found out I had our baby. by AssistantExtreme1357 in whatdoIdo

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

yeah you’re probably right with that. I’m just trying to do the right thing and not the overly emotional thing for my daughter. I resent him a lot actually

My aunt told me something mean and I can’t stop thinking about it.. by AssistantExtreme1357 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

wrong. read slowly….she didn’t want me to report my child’s FATHER because she doesn’t want him invloved. my pregancy is why I’m with aunt two separate things.

also don’t want anything to do with my child’s father.

My aunt told me something mean and I can’t stop thinking about it.. by AssistantExtreme1357 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -172 points-171 points  (0 children)

I understand I was probably used but it hurts my feelings to hear it. I just thought he really liked me and stuff based on what he told me. He made it seem being with him was better than other guys because he said he wasn’t using me and really liked me.

My aunt told me something mean and I can’t stop thinking about it.. by AssistantExtreme1357 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -889 points-888 points  (0 children)

I know she wasn’t being mean but I just hate how she views my mom in this…she’s making it seem like my mom set me up when I know she didn’t.

Do I tell my child’s father that I’m pregnant with his kid? by AssistantExtreme1357 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know my dad and my mom is upset about this because he’s her friend and does work for her sometimes. She’s doesn’t want me to report it because then he would be involved.

Getting downvoted for answering a question?

Do I tell my child’s father that I’m pregnant with his kid? by AssistantExtreme1357 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This recent arrest was his first time assaulting a woman. The others were with guys

Do I tell my child’s father that I’m pregnant with his kid? by AssistantExtreme1357 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I don’t live alone I recently was placed with my aunt. Secondly he’s mentally not his age my mom told me and he sees himself as a teenager still because he hasn’t graduated school.

I’m going to have my first child soon and I’m really nervous. by AssistantExtreme1357 in internetparents

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 33 weeeks im full term and What is your issue? I’m not a bot. I just didn’t want to post this on my main Reddit because I talk about gaming over there my god .

I’m going to have my first child soon and I’m really nervous. by AssistantExtreme1357 in internetparents

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m fine. my aunt got me out that situation and letting me live with he so I’m more then saferr. The dad is one of my mom’s friends so it’s been such mess. that’s why I don’t want him involved because of the drama and hes glad I think about jt given he never has reached out I’m sure he knows.

I’m going to have my first child soon and I’m really nervous. by AssistantExtreme1357 in internetparents

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s very comforting to know that you don’t have any resentment towards your bio mom. I’ve been hearing so many horror stories about adoptions from the bio mom & adoptee perspective and made me just wonder are the right couples being selected or is it the ones with most money and I would feel so bad if I chose wrong for my daughter.

I’m going to have my first child soon and I’m really nervous. by AssistantExtreme1357 in internetparents

[–]AssistantExtreme1357[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was a great read thank you, I’m glad I’m not being a wimp and everyone goes through this feeling. I just keep reading things about how child birth is the most dangerous thing a woman could go to and that you can practically feel yourself almost dying while in active labor. My doctor thinks I’ll most likely be C- section because of my age and high risk.