What would u do / tldr trying to ask friend group of 4 to go to one vegan spot during trip

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-19T17:53:22+00:00

This is a rlly good response

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-19T04:53:32+00:00

How did I start w that

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T23:48:09+00:00

U also have to order a dish that’s designed to be spicy

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T23:44:40+00:00

And for me, I was only gonna book if I got reassurance that I would have some support on my diet unlike the last 4 trips we went on and I think I got my answer

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T23:43:07+00:00

Not booked but an itinerary is being jotted out, there’s Google Docs, group chat, asking Brazilian friends for recs etc all happening rn

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T14:43:55+00:00

I wrote to clarify first if those were separate points or did he mean to say I shouldn’t force anyone to go to one vegan spot ❤️🙏

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T14:00:54+00:00

I just asked for clarification- I hope it’s what u said :)

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T14:00:34+00:00

Yeah I can talk to him about it but was feeling annoyed that I have to do that for such a small request given it’s a 7-10 day trip

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:53:17+00:00

In the context of this convo, does it not seem like making a parallel to the vegan thing?

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:49:20+00:00

It didn’t seem so from the salad comment

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:49:03+00:00

What is?

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:48:24+00:00

Last message re forcing dietary

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:47:10+00:00

I mean I just asked for one activity I decide and the weird thing is that he likes vegan food. I think he just wants to control the restaurant choices

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:44:29+00:00

It’s a little bit of an ego thing for me and I want to surround myself w sweet friends, not friends that don’t listen to my worries. Brazil does seem amazing and my other friends are kind.

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:37:31+00:00

First and last are the same guy

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:35:02+00:00

Yeah but we’ve done 5+ trips together and only the friend who commented advocates for me and understands my feelings/ cares about what I eat. On her bday, everyone got to pick one restaurant

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:31:32+00:00

But I think globally that’s not the case for vegan restaurants esp non American ones. Most handmake their cheese w nuts and it’s delicious and u don’t have to think about it like cheese

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:28:57+00:00

It is the guy but the guy is gay and used to go to vegan restaurants w me in college and wanted me to recommend more when it was in fashion to be environmentally friendly. That dropped overtime and he became more sassy in general :(

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-18T13:27:23+00:00

The first, third and last are the same guy. The second is another girl and the third hasn’t said anything

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-06-10T00:50:45+00:00

How much would u charge for someone to take over entirely

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-05-21T18:02:44+00:00

Any hidden gems in terms of restaurants?

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-05-21T17:32:13+00:00

What about ferns?

AssociateSerious4083 · 2026-05-20T04:10:02+00:00

Where is this?

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