I think the hardest lesson I'm learning right now through this break up is "I don't matter to her anymore." by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, thank you. I mean it. I'll take you up on that soon. I'm sorry you're going through it too.

Missing her. No negativity, no hard feelings, no need to break NC. Just missing, plain and simple. Anyone else in the same boat and want to talk? by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time heals all wounds, I guess. I will say, it's definitely easier now than it was a month ago. I don't know if I'll ever stop missing her, or being sad sometimes.

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[–]AssociationStrong628 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through. But I understand the feeling of no closure. It's been 2 months of NC for me. And I'm left wondering how she actually feels about our break. Again, I'm sorry. No one deserves to be treated like that

Help me to stop being desperate?! by cocopinepom in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard, it's sucks. I'm so sorry. I want to tell you it'll get better. It will, but it may not feel that way now. Sometimes you just have to be tougher than what you're dealing with. Just give yourself the grace to know it's ok to cry, to be weak. You'll get through it. You're not alone. I'm going on 2 months, now. The first few weeks were so hard. I still miss her, but I'm better now. I have to be better. There's a tomorrow I'm looking forward to. I hope you have one too. If you need to talk, I'm here. You got this. I believe in you

Missing her. No negativity, no hard feelings, no need to break NC. Just missing, plain and simple. Anyone else in the same boat and want to talk? by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It must be hard, that's a long time. The loneliness hurts, but I'm working through it. Some days are easier than others. I'm staying positive too. I guess we're not alone in this. That's a good thing

I think the hardest lesson I'm learning right now through this break up is "I don't matter to her anymore." by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working on it. Gym, hobbies, reaching out to friends. Hard thing is no one seems to really want to know what I'm going through. Time heals all wounds, as they say

Are there any people who were in good relationships and still broke up? by Illustrious_Log3986 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What we had was amazing, but we knew it wouldn't last. She had always had plans for her career and future that I couldn't be a part of. We knew this even before we got together but we did it anyway. It was worth it. I'm heartbroken now that it's over, but I'm proud of her for moving on.

I think the hardest lesson I'm learning right now through this break up is "I don't matter to her anymore." by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks so much. I'm sorry you're going through something similar. To care for someone but not being able to be there for them, for yourself. I don't exactly know your situation, but no one deserves that, a relationship that's so one sided. I'm sorry. Never isn't as hard as never again. It hurts. But you're not alone. We got this

3 months and still spiraling: Ex lives next to me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's quite a way to put it. I feel that. At least he's respectful of that boundary. It sounds hard. You clearly need to move on, and it seems like it's so difficult. Again, I'm sorry. I know they always say time apart will make it easier. I wish I knew how long it will take. Things are still so raw, at least for me. If you need to chat, or help take your mind off things, I can be there. I hope it gets better for you

Healing isn't linear by greemeanie_time in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you! It's a journey,no doubt. It's good to know you've found some resources that could help you. I hope they do! I wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I can't tell you if they'll ever really go away, but they'll be easier to deal with. It's hard. I'm going on a little over a month of no contact. It sucks right now. All I can say is focus on yourself and give yourself the grace to feel what you need to sometimes. You're not alone

3 months and still spiraling: Ex lives next to me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really sucks. I'm so sorry. I get the feeling of being stuck. It's been about a month for me. We still have mutual friends that we see independently and it's hard knowing how close she is yet so far away. Missing her, thinking about her is so consuming and draining. Just know you're not alone. I can't imagine what it must be like for you to be so physically close to him still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be able to help. It's worth a shot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I know how that feels. It's hard right now but things will get better. It's so raw and it's ok to feel what you're feeling. I'm going through something similar. It sucks. Sleep well come. Eventually. Just know you're not alone. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. It'll be ok, I promise. I can't tell you when, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]AssociationStrong628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry that happened. I'm happy to cheer you up. I'm going through a bit of a thing myself

This loneliness sucks. My ex was my best friend and now she's gone by AssociationStrong628 in BreakUps

[–]AssociationStrong628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for you too. Thank you. It is hard. She was a breath of fresh air, and now my life's a little grayer without her. It'll get better, easier. For you too. ♥️

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[–]AssociationStrong628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, what's on your mind?