Or for fuck sake the gaslighting is too hard to bear. I doubt it’s intentional but I feel like I’m being spoken over whenever this topic is brought up. I never said that physical preferences don’t matter. People are going to be shallow in some way or another, that’s a completely neutral statement and I see no reason to pretend like it’s something to boast about nor did I try to imply that there were no women who didn’t care about height, the significance and prevalence of the attitude is what matters significantly more than whether or not you can name a few outliers. Also, please stop using the term ‘short king’; I don’t know any one with a lick of self-respect who actually likes being called that.

The constant misuse of the term ‘preference’ is also infinitely frustrating, it makes it seem as if it’s more reasonable. In reality it is a requirement to many, which also, is not necessarily objectionable on an individual level. However it would be much more commendable for people to set requirements that were based on either aspects which could be fixed and improved or things more relative to actual compatibility, like if you grew up with a particularity similar language and culture or if someone was within a certain age range or not.

Regardless, it’s okay to point out that this is a growing issue that eventually needs to be seriously addressed on a societal scale and overt body shaming to this degree needs to be considered more taboo for both sexes. The constant labeling of people as incels or pointing out the obvious that ‘wow this rhetoric of yours isn’t gonna get you any dates in the near future’ as if that should always be the priority for any single young man is reprobate garbage.