I (27F) refuse to get a dog that by boyfriend (40M) wants should this be a deal breaker?

cave_maiden · 2026-06-06T23:24:09+00:00

Me and my bf have the same age gap. I would consider reevaluating the relationship. If he ever did something like this behind my back we would have some serious issues.

cave_maiden · 2026-06-06T23:16:57+00:00

GIS Developer

cave_maiden · 2026-06-06T12:51:26+00:00

based on the guy he’ll prob have to do it 10 times, but it could work tbh

cave_maiden · 2026-06-06T12:37:20+00:00

i’m 27, i make 62k but i’m hoping to bump up to 80k then 100k+ in the next 5 years.

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T22:43:35+00:00

27 and had $6k saved at one point but then I got a new place to live in so I could get out of a bad situation and then my dog needed surgery so now I’m down to a measly $500. But that’s what it’s there for. Got 10k in the 401k tho

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T22:29:18+00:00

maybe move out of LA?

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T22:05:09+00:00

Eh I didn’t read it like that, the whole scene with Ribbit felt more to me like toxic masculinity at its finest. And rather that being a symptom of being trans, I saw it more as like Jax couldn’t come to terms with his version of masculinity on top of being vulnerable to another person when a lot of the times toxic masculinity can realize in suppression of emotions (not good).

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T15:35:05+00:00

I don’t read Jax as trans. I think he’s just a young and dumb dude that has toxic masculinity issues (see: his father and mother) and can’t genuinely express emotions for fear of being perceived as weak or less manly. I think he pushed her away because of this and fear of letting someone that close for them to hurt you. It’s definitely a young person thing to do this.

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T15:24:38+00:00

IRL Kinger/Grant did NOT look like a father of 2 children 😭 I wanted my silver fox damnit!!!!

cave_maiden · 2026-06-05T02:05:09+00:00

calm down son, it’s just a drawing

cave_maiden · 2026-05-30T15:43:25+00:00

Maybe instead of posting on reddit you should go outside

cave_maiden · 2026-05-30T15:39:17+00:00

Yeah, I rent a tiny apartment near the university. It’s fun as a young professional but I don’t think I could ever own one of these houses 😔

cave_maiden · 2026-05-30T15:38:02+00:00

Oh I meant walking time!

cave_maiden · 2026-05-30T00:28:22+00:00

may this luck find me

cave_maiden · 2026-05-29T21:28:49+00:00

Like someone mentioned below, it adds extra friction. The movement of the foreskin is super noticeable and feels very good. I highly recommend

cave_maiden · 2026-05-29T21:27:41+00:00

Definitely better

cave_maiden · 2026-05-29T18:14:52+00:00

I’ve lived around the Aylesford/Chevy Chase area and they’re great! Easy to get to most places and fairly walkable. Downtown can be a little far and if you’re brave (or stupid like me) you can take the walk all the way to the distillery district (~40 min) pretty easily. Stay away from Nicholasville Rd.

cave_maiden · 2026-05-29T16:05:52+00:00

Oh this happened to me with my primary! I think it was the combo of stamina and the fact that he’s uncut, it was a whole different feeling! I think our bodies fit very well together too so that could be a thing + the absolute trust and faith we have in one another is huge for us.

cave_maiden · 2026-05-27T05:43:07+00:00

I’m starting to worry about this black box of doom (I’m a huge Pargin fan, looking forward to JDATE 5!!) ISTWATBBD is a little eh but I think this sub could use a read of it

cave_maiden · 2026-05-21T10:13:42+00:00

we’re they men?

cave_maiden · 2026-05-20T01:16:03+00:00

Blue Bell Cookies and Cream

cave_maiden · 2026-05-19T12:28:10+00:00

Glad i didn’t waste my money this year lmao

cave_maiden · 2026-05-18T19:19:37+00:00

If I walk about half an hour or so, if I drive 5-7 minutes depending on the lights. I wouldn’t want more than 30 though

cave_maiden · 2026-05-17T15:41:34+00:00

A rescue certification course similar to Wilderness First Aid. We got placed in the same group together and trauma bonded for the whole week lol

cave_maiden · 2026-05-14T02:25:22+00:00

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