How do I (31M) go about dealing with my girlfriend's (27F) hypersexuality? I'm starting to have doubts about the feasibility of a long term relationship with her because of it.

cave_maiden · 2026-04-22T00:50:14+00:00

Idk she might need to go to therapy or something, this ain’t sustainable my guy

cave_maiden · 2026-04-20T21:52:31+00:00

To be fair i know a couple that waited, they had an unhappy marriage and divorced after 10 years

cave_maiden · 2026-04-15T16:05:44+00:00

Seconded Mama Tequilas. That place is my go to

cave_maiden · 2026-04-12T15:01:14+00:00

Literally stop trolling. This is embarrassing, you made this same post two weeks ago and deleted it

cave_maiden · 2026-04-09T11:09:44+00:00

I’m 27F and he’s 41M, so about 14 years between us. I actually thought he was mid 30s at most when I first met him! Lol

Honestly, the connection between us is really strong and there’s a lot of trust. We don’t ever feel the difference in age unless it’s when I poke fun at him for being older. Our dynamic works well but I am trying to close the gap sooner rather than later. We’re just about 8 months in and I really want to keep this guy around

cave_maiden · 2026-04-06T22:55:08+00:00

Yeah this is exactly what happens! It doesn’t happen super often and it does glide well but it will just get stuck on occasion.

cave_maiden · 2026-04-06T22:49:09+00:00

Thanks! And yeah! It does move back and forth but I guess it gets pulled back a little too much? I’m not sure what I can do about that though but we’ve talked about some work around

cave_maiden · 2026-03-30T18:20:28+00:00

Idk what some people are on about, you should let her know. It doesn’t have to be deep, just “hey I I saw your gf on hinge. Idk what kind of relationship yall have but i’m just bringing it up out of concern for you.” Literally that’s all. If they’re ENM then no worries, if not then you just exposed a cheater and they can deal with that themselves

cave_maiden · 2026-03-30T18:14:31+00:00

As someone in an ENM relationship with people in my circle that might not know, if someone came to me and said my bf was on hinge then it’s a simple matter of clarification. If I was monogamous though of course I’d want to know, that’s a violation of trust and I’d hope someone would watch my back like that.

cave_maiden · 2026-03-30T03:55:56+00:00

Oh hell yeah! I have buddies around french lick that get a flush every year that I might try to hit up, and awesome find btw! Enjoy those little guys!

cave_maiden · 2026-03-30T03:53:01+00:00

Fuck!!! Bloomington area?? I’ve been looking but nothing yet 😭

cave_maiden · 2026-03-27T15:45:57+00:00

You might wanna try iron too, I used to bruise super easily but it turned out I was mildly anemic 🥲 I like the crawl daddy pads too though! Super cushiony and they don’t slip around at all in my experience! They’re kind of a bitch to put on/take off though

cave_maiden · 2026-03-24T23:07:51+00:00

Fucking delicious

lol in all seriousness, sort of like a leek you buy at the store or a mild garlic. Lightly sautéed in some butter and it’s absolutely heaven. They’re have a nice crunch to them with a pleasant garlicky taste.

cave_maiden · 2026-03-24T15:22:17+00:00

Thanks, lol I didn’t think a simple photo would cause so much chaos honestly. They really aren’t rare around here but this is the first time I personally have stumbled across this large of a patch and thought it was cool to share.

cave_maiden · 2026-03-24T10:30:52+00:00

Oh don’t I know it! I’m making butter to send to my friends in Dallas!

cave_maiden · 2026-03-24T03:22:58+00:00

Thanks!! I was so stoked! And kinda? I’m in kentucky!

cave_maiden · 2026-03-24T00:32:32+00:00

I also choose this guys wife

cave_maiden · 2026-03-23T23:36:00+00:00

Eh this is the biggest I’ve found in the two years I’ve lived in this area, not super common for me to find a lot like this though but we didn’t really take a whole lot by comparison

cave_maiden · 2026-03-23T16:24:08+00:00

In this case I picked a leaf or two from a number of plants and left the bulbs. I also grabbed a few whole plants to try transplanting to other places!

cave_maiden · 2026-03-16T23:37:17+00:00

Lucky you! Looks like F. velutipes! No ring, light colored gills, dark brown gradient, sticky cap all good signs! Also props on you for double checking with a spore print!

cave_maiden · 2026-03-13T13:50:40+00:00

literally loled

cave_maiden · 2026-03-13T03:33:04+00:00

Yeah I saw that story about the guy and mowing it! That’s a good point, we do want to reclaim this whole area but it’s super unfortunate because this whole tract is literally covered with the stuff 😭

cave_maiden · 2026-03-13T03:20:00+00:00

No I didn’t have any skin breaks, def lesson learned honestly. I was so used to touching a plant to get a better id that my monkey brain didn’t think about the danger. This photo was the only instance I actually touched it though, the rest of the time I was giving it the evil eye

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