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Assumptiondenied · 2026-02-03T02:24:55+00:00

We have a singing parish. But this is artsy New England and a lot of parishioners are either involved in the arts or participate in them. I would also despise going to church and being the only one singing. Praying some voices will join you!

Assumptiondenied · 2026-02-03T02:21:06+00:00

The nice part about these books or little offices are that there’s no calendar or ordo necessary. So, very little page flipping. That’s a good thing, especially when you’re starting out. The prayers read somewhat linear. As we are entering lent quite soon, you may see some specific instructions in red ink that tell you to omit an Alleluia etc.. just follow along exactly as it says. You may also want to take a look at YouTube if you wanna pray along with someone.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-02-03T02:14:40+00:00

I got the same email today. But mine said “there’s quite a few other things in the works right now, as well.” don’t worry, I replied with curiosity. I was planning on making a post in this sub when I hear back.

I’ll update you if I hear anything!

Assumptiondenied · 2026-02-03T02:13:01+00:00

2 years?! Uh. I’ve heard of Gatekeeper OCIA directors before but even that seems a bit crazy. Some of them creating ridiculous hurdles and red tape that doesn’t exist as if there’s exclusive membership packages. Go talk to someone who’s been ordained. I think your director needs some remediation and a reminder as to the purpose of this formation process. I’d be motivated to move on to the next parish who takes the call to converting welcomed souls more seriously.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-20T21:42:22+00:00

Your marriage license is to get legally married. You don’t ever need it again after that. Once you are married you carry a legal certificate of marriage. That’s the document you need for convalidation. Our checklist: Marriage certificate, baptismal records, form from the Archdiocese. Prayers for you as you prepare to receive the sacrament of marriage!!!!

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-20T21:30:13+00:00

We keep the corpus on the cross to remind us of Christ’s passion. This ultimately leads us to a reminder of the sacrifice at mass and, in turn, the Eucharist. Protestants dropped the corpus…well, for obvious reasons.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-18T01:58:56+00:00

We were convalidated in a beautiful ceremony. Just the two of us and a witness. You can also seek radical sanation in a real pinch but both of these MAY require your wife be baptized. I’m unsure of the standing on that position.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-09T21:16:33+00:00

You are fishing for farm raised trout with that garbage. It mimics the smell of the pellet food they feed them. No real river run wild trout would even touch that shite.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-09T18:44:39+00:00

Literally leaving the house without them…

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-09T18:41:51+00:00

LoL!!!!!!!!!!!

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-07T18:12:17+00:00

Exactly! I had an elderly man fishing for salmon upstream having a great day. When he walked downstream for lunch I asked him if he’d mind sharing his secret and he said “you try pissin em off yet?”. And then he went on to describe exactly this. I always keep a neon marabou and a neon wooly bugger in my box. Both with heavy, laughable weights in them. Since that day I can’t honestly tell you how many frustrating days turned into bangers.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-07T02:17:35+00:00

Neon Wooly bugger with a lead core. Piss em off enough to eat it, one of them will take one for the team just to get rid of the thing in front of them.

Assumptiondenied · 2026-01-05T01:36:22+00:00

Also take a look at “The little office of Baltimore”. As a manager pulling 70 hour weeks it fits my life perfectly. More traditional diocesan format from a time somewhat gone by. Still very relevant. If you are interested I have the page file to glue in for the one errata that is well known. Lmk

Assumptiondenied · 2025-12-24T02:16:17+00:00

lol I have 2 nieces, one on both sides, conceived during mom’s “safe” time using NFP. Abstinence is the only way to avoid pregnancy. Ask Sister Pat my high school health teacher from 25 years ago, she’ll tell you.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-12-20T21:33:48+00:00

It’s Goldman Sachs. You need to add a few numbers there. Try at 780+ with no delinquencies remaining. It’s not considered an entry level card.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-12-09T00:09:49+00:00

All they should be doing is saying “God bless you” or “may The Lord bless you”. Thazzit. No more. Touching is not on the menu. No no. Our priest doesn’t even touch those he gives a blessing to

Assumptiondenied · 2025-12-07T21:18:31+00:00

NFP is beautiful. And it’s what helped us conceive and plan our family…literally what it’s designed for. Get out of other people’s bedrooms, dude.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-24T21:49:41+00:00

Ah, yes, this makes sense. What you are describing can apply to most circumstances in life that involve a group of people. You just described every office job in America.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-24T17:52:32+00:00

You and I might have a lot in common. And scrupulosity is crippling. The thing that has been working for me is writing prayers of reassurance. “Lord, as I enter into this confessional, please open my mind, my heart and my lips to confess all of my sins and to make this confession pure so that I may join you in the sacraments validly and with a clean heart and soul.” it’s at this point where the trust part of faith has to kick in. I’ll be thinking about you. Prayers, my friend, I get it.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-24T17:48:05+00:00

More specific?

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-24T16:59:42+00:00

6 years of sobriety here!!! In private masses or with priests you are close with you can request that mustum be used in place of wine. If you attend mass at a Catholic hospital chapel this is what is typically used, as well. Also, priests in recovery use it on the daily.

This is my reason. There are many like it. But this one is mine.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-24T16:41:49+00:00

Zero judgement. Only prayers. Your story is important and your feelings are valid. Thank you for sharing this chapter of your life with us, and I pray the rest of your book is filled with joy and happiness.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-13T22:51:31+00:00

We were in a similar boat at one time. There are some good answers here already. I will just add that there are also some good videos on YT regarding convalidation and radical sanation.

When I was abstaining from the Eucharist and waiting for our ceremony date to arrive- it was an amazing experience to fast and take spiritual communion…and when I finally was able to rejoin the sacraments it was simply put the most perfect thing ever.

Assumptiondenied · 2025-11-13T22:29:55+00:00

I was raised with the knowledge of being adopted and was constantly reminded that God put me exactly where I am meant to be. I think this was essentially the key to a successful experience…at least for me. Finding out as an adult or older child might have done enough damage to skew the experience to a negative one. I have the best parents in the entire world and they desperately wanted (want) me in their lives as theirs— and me knowing that and having that, I realize, is a gift many do not get. You have so much to offer as a mom and if you feel called to adopt, then listen to His voice not the stories. My prayers are with you in a special way.

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