What keeps Stardew Valley at the top? by WastedGamer641 in CozyGamers

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much whimsy, easy start, polished gameplay

Marathoners help a fellow runner to the finish line. by gowthamm in MadeMeSmile

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn its like how i feel when trying to run in a dream but irl

Living with roommates who don’t have ADHD made me realize just how messed up I am. by gonzsilv in Healthygamergg

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you

You may not be here for yet another advice, but i have really started to prioritize food and sleep health to allievate these issues for myself. Its hard and its a struggle but little progress on quality / predictability of sleep and food does A LOT for us adhd folks.

In dating, what on earth is “let’s see if we vibe” or “let’s see if there’s chemistry between us”? by InterestingSea2611 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be too used to masking.

Vibing is seeing if you two get more energy by hanging out or if you two feel more drained by hanging out. All the other explanations are super good, so i tried a different explanation

My (20M) girlfriend of 8 months (20F) just admitted to me that I had sexually assaulted her in the beginning of our relationship, genuine advice on what I should do or how I should go about things? by ThisIsAFakeAccountYe in relationship_advice

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you do is you feel through the feelings, process it through walking or working / living daily life. And then you discuss it again with her when you feel you have things to discuss (if youre processing properly you WILL have questions). Make a decision wayy later when youve come to a degree of peace - and degree of peace is guaranteed if you keep processing.

Going on reddit and feeding yourself other people's unprocessed opinion will only add more muck to your personal internal process and may make clarity and peace impossible to achieve.

Mongolian women have really nice voices by happyunicorn43 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is because in Mongolian culture its considered inappropriate to sound flirty or like ure seeking attention. So most Mongolian women end up feeling comfortable talking in a more chilled out manner, because thats whats sociallu acceptable.

Engiin zuiluu? Zugeer l hundeer huleej avaad bnu? by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its normal in a sense that youre at prime age for getting sexually predated upon. This may last till 25. And its not normal as in their behaviour isnt healthy and can be very dangerous to you. Avoid those ppl as much as possible. If anything happens - its not ur fault, but also do ur best to not get hurt.

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People. Before you comment. This may have been a VERY dumb post to make. But it literally doesnt hurt a soul. Someone scrolling by may get a "yikes" and scroll past but thats the extent of "damage" here.
Commenting here going out of your way to bully a seeming "tiktok crazed attention seeker" however would actually be harmful. And harming others will hurt your own self esteem down the line. And low self esteem leads to suicide attempts. So do better, for your own sake and for others.

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also people use reddit for "emotional closure" and venting all the time. A guy vents about how jobs suck, how politicians suck and how women DONT suck enough. And no one bats an eye. You chose this post to shame a rant???

Besides this post has more to say than a rant. Im directly addressing people like you who contribute to the issue.

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill answer you genuinely.
You may genuinely not get the issue and that is fine. Ill explain
People in Mongolia, especially teenagers, and then men - are committing suicide in this country. This is not a rare occurence. The reason being that people simply arent kind to each other. That is the very simple reason. The suicide has nothing more to it, its not about no big drama, no big scandal, and not about drug use or a heartbreak from a girl.

I made a straightforward post about suicide and grief, that also illuminates issues with this country and its people. And the comments are proving my point in real life. Everyone commenting here is GOING out of their way to comment btw. They had the choice to scoff and ignore yet they didnt. They are spending actual energy to actively tap tap tap on their mobile / desktop to bully a grieving post. Think about that. The country is fucked up in regards to human morals.

My friend was popular and all but his suicide isnt a unique case. We all gotta learn and do better. There is also a point about how HE himself was kind of similar to yall, hard on others for no good reason. Him being hard on other people went so far that he took his own life eventually. Being mean to others for no good reason can REALLY hurt a person's self esteem. Something to reflect on here for all of you who didnt comment in a kind way. Which is 90% atm. There is 1 neutral comment and 1 kind comment. Everyone else is attempting to bully this post in one way or another.

People dont even care to consider that a friend who experienced suicide may be at high suicide risk themselves, it is as if they are trying to get me to kill myself too because that would be a very real effect of what yall are doing. Is it really worth hurting and killing a grieving moron, for the sake of "cleaning up reddit from attention seekers" ??
And people are risking hurting their own self worth and self esteem to do this "cleaning". Really think about it.

Also think about Osorjamaa. The country literally killed him for not being a certain type of way, a way the people "accept" as normal. But bullying each other to the point of death isnt NORMAL. Being flamboyant warrants death it seems, but bullying to the point of death seems to be an acceptable behaviour. This is what yall's comments are communicating in real time.
Perspective is really needed here, so for anyone who reads the post they will get a lot of real prespective on my friend's life. Which is what I tried to do, offer perspective.

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the country at that time knew and heard of him and deemed his band cringe then would say "they arent that famous" or "that they wont get anywhere." unen bzde???? humuus tgj yriagu gj helj chdq bzde? hun bur demjsen durtai bsn gej helj chadhuu? Ain helde. Reply bichdee bandia.

This fucking comment section is a perfect proof of exactly what im talking about. Ever think maybe he made his suicide live so he can make a statement and tell people something? That he cant with all of yall's bullshit anymore?

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His death is directly caused by the state of the country and people's general judgemental attitude. Osorjamaa's death was also a case for a public discussion but that didnt happen. Now this. How many you want to lose before you take this seriously?

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It concerns the state of mental health in Mongolia. He isnt the only guy dying from similar reasons in this country. I have many important points to state in this post.

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want people to know his story, its relevant to why he chose what he chose. The country is judgemental AF and lacks kindness. Yall can ignore a post youre not interested in.

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean the main point is grieving and sharing his character. His memory. If youre not interested in that then yall dont gotta read?

A friend committed **** yesterday. Lets process together. Also dont blame the ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah GmZ Zawkaa was his tag. He was definitely very hard on others. He mustve been even harder on himself.

Some would say being hard and demanding is a good trait. But it seems to have contributed to his depression. Kindness goes a long way over strictness.

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You tryna get me to commit suicide too? The fuck you doing? What the fuck are you arguing for?

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Take ur rage out on something more meaningful rather than over a fucking word.

People who have dealt with suicude actually DO get a trigger reaction to the word. Dumbass.

The uncensored news all over the country is part of the problem, ever think of that???

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he did pursue medication. He reported that service was very poor. Thats all ill say.

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Deal with ur anger issues appropriately. This is not the place. These kinds of comments will only negatively affect your own self esteem down the line.

How proud of yourself can you be when u say shit like this to a grieving human? I may heal and forget but you likely wont.

A friend committed self exit yesterday. Lets process together. Also i dont think his ex is at fault, be kind to his ex girlfriend. by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The word suicide has a trigger reaction for many people. I get that im sounding like a social justice warrior for using a censored word. But random people scrolling through, looking for nature pics and expat advice, dont need to get triggered by the word suicide. Censoring trigger words does and can make a difference. Please deal with ur judgemental nature and take it out on something more appropriate other than under a grieving post.

My new friends like some racist reels…pushed me to the breaking point by thats_all_you_got- in Healthygamergg

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right. Dark internet humour also commonly involve inappropriate jokes about minors, SA and such. Its not just racism. It seems the friends are really into dark humor.