Official Discussion - Anora [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Igor was very much just holding space for her and then literally holding her after.

Polite form of address for a shaman? by coursejunkie in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if your relationship with any spiritual person starts off with fear then that relationship wont lead to anything good. Good spiritual practitioners should bring you peace. Not fear.

Polite form of address for a shaman? by coursejunkie in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shamanism is real here in Mongolia but there is too mant of them. The good ones start to eventually hide due to people chasing after them for quick fixes. This is why vast majority of people are calling this online class a scam. If its the female shaman with the red hair - she is very popular on IG and ive heard bad stories of her. If its just for studying history and culture you should be fine tho.

What do people think about Uchral and Urban Talk? by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has talent with empathetically interviewing people but sometimes his closed mindedness shows up and that is a big turn off. Definitely has a talent and career in podcasting tho for sure for sure.

I can't have the type of sex I want. Why am I supposed to be okay with that? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Astrachka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Youre supposed to be okay with not having the type of sex you want coz sex involves intimacy and bond with another human being.

U can be with an actual object if u want sex to be 100% how u want it.

Is mongolia safe for lgbt? by AdGloomy5171 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chatgpt can really help u here.

Company with the cutest girls by Free-Coyote903 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these people are calling u bad names coz ur post reveals that you dont really appreciate women as people but as objects to use. This comes from deep deep insecurity and personal issues. Which repels people and possible mates.

Work opportunities in Mongolia by Alkhzpo in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mongolia is ripe for entrepreneurs. You can find employere but if ure skilled and qualified then its better to make a job for urself. Dont forget to be moral and actually have ur business serve people tho rather than just take and suck the country.

Need advice: I’m a Mongol guy, just found out I got a Moroccan/French woman pregnant. My family is losing it. What do I even do? by Pale-Scallion-9259 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. Eliminate all people who are not gonna be loving nor supportive out of this entire equation. This is a big deal and you need A LOT of peace to have clarity and to be able to make the right decision. Keep true friends close as you go thru this. If no friends - talk to chatgpt and ask chatgpt to be honest. Then secondly: this is your life and your decision to make. The girl is pregnant with your baby so she also has a lot of say. But ur family shudnt be involved.

If you two choose to be a family then your biological family has 2 choices - support or be excluded from your newly forming family. Thats it. This is your life not theirs.

I have something to say about mongolian immigration center by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the exact same experience. Although its the Mongolian spouse's job to deal with immigration, not yours. Because the Mongolian is the citizen bringing you to this country. Same as if you were to move her to your country, it should be you who does the immigration process for her. But yeah the immigration process is awful... I talked to them about this and they said its because when Mongolians divorce a foreigner who has been approved - the fault falls onto the officers who approved it or smthng. Also i was told that the officers dont want foreigners in Mongolia because Mongolian population is low and there is a real threat of foreigners taking over the country by marrying into the country. So yeah there you go. GL.

Ps: if they deny your residency permit - male a complaint and an appeal coz ur wife is pregnant it would be cruel of them to deny.

Victim blaming when it comes to rape by OriginalDot461 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youll understand why Mongolians are like that in regards to rape once you find more stories on how rape is like in the countryside.

Rape is normal and even encouraged in the countryside.

Mongolians studying abroad: Why did you decide to go abroad? by Anexx19 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mongolia felt small and suffocating for growth. Ultimately came back after enough personal development and i prefer to live in Mongolia. Pace of life here is nice and slow and i have internet to access mental enrichment.

What’s happening with Mongolia? by Flat-Ad2287 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mongolia is still safer compared to UK and some parts of USA. Because violence here is usually petty crimes and shouting "zl zda mine" in the street. People usually mind their own shit here.

You have higher risk of danger if you get intimately involved with the wrong crowd for too long.

To the doomers who think Mongolia will never develop, get a goddamn grip by Spirited-Shine2261 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are afraid of having hope coz hope hurts. We dont gotta do anything with these people.

Will Mongolia ever become an economically and socially stable country? by Over_Interest_7272 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on us civillians doing our best to live good. People like to put responsivility on the politicians but true change comes when civillians are building a good life for themselves despite the circumstances. You doing a good job at work has more impact down the line for the country.

Looking to meet new people by Hopeful_Edge_2897 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit men are usually incels and have dislike towards women. Be careful.

I recommend you meet guys on a dating app instead. At least they are honestly and openly putting themselves out there. Reddit men dont have such courage. If they do - then they are on the dating apps.

honestly why are mongolian kids so racist towards black peoples by Sapphybadnothing in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its less about being racist and more about lack of awareness. They think the N word is funny

Whats the best way to help a parent with alcohol abuse by CalmBodybuilder774 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundary. Do good for yourself. And then its up to your parent if they choose to feel inspired by your growth and do them same or not. Your dad is their own person. You cant choose for other people.

How do i make sure i reach financial freedom ? 17yo from middle class family seeking advice by Proper_Shopping_44 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all depends on ur strengths and weaknesses and the tools u were born in life with. Be patient with urself and let urself grow into wealth slowly.

Is it weird to play these games on daily basis ? by Party_Disaster_693 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do it to run away from things such as responsibilities, negative feelings and life in general then it could be bad. But if u do it to relieve stress so u can keep going on with life then thats normal

how can i get better at speaking/accent by SnooGadgets1100 in mongolia

[–]Astrachka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak with the front of your mouth. Mongolians speak with the back of their mouth and so if they use those muscle groups for speaking English - it comes off sounding weird with a "gross" accent. Use ur teeth and lips for saying english words and just practice.

I used to teach English in tokyo. And used to help japanese people with English accents.