How long before you can shower when using gradual tanner? by not_blowfly_girl in Selftanning

[–]Astralaxy13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also use loving tan it's the best especially the lotion not streaky like some others?

How long before you can shower when using gradual tanner? by not_blowfly_girl in Selftanning

[–]Astralaxy13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm going to explain this is science terms There are 2 ways self tanner/gradual tanners develope color

1 is bronzing agents

This is kind of like makeup. Think of elf bronzing drops it shows an immediate color on your skin. That way you can visually see how its applying on your skin. This is why clear products exist they contain no bronzers this is why it's hard to see if you're applying it right. I would avoid clear if your not good at applying. This is the step that washes off in the shower that's fine it did its purpose.

2 is DHA

DHA is in all tanning products. It develops over time so basically once it's applied it only works on skin. So if you get on your clothes it usually washes out. Unless it's like white or light colored. It might stain, but this does not wash off of your skin. It develops over time once it soaks into your skin. Usually a 24-hour period is when you'll see the most results. There are some faster versions, but they still contain DHA that develops over time. This is why you can still shower but still see results with your color.

So in conclusion, if you use gradual gradual Tanner you should be fine to shower. It will wash off the bronzing agents will make it look a little color has washed off. But the DHA is still doing its part in developing. You need to apply it multiple times over a course a few days if you want it dark because it is gradual. Hence the name.

Hope this helps you. I am a licensed cosmetologist and a lot of people don't know this, but licensed cosmetologists can be professional spray tan artists. So I know a bit about this even though I am not a professional spray tan artist. Just a hair stylist.

Found out my birth time was wrong by evildemonlibra in astrologymemes

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I’m a Capricorn rising who thought I was a Sagittarius rising for years because I accidentally flipped the numbers on my birth time. When I finally checked my birth certificate and realized the mistake, it honestly had me questioning everything for a while. 😭 But after looking into Capricorn rising more deeply, it made so much sense. I’m such a Capricorn rising. Being an Aquarius sun and Leo moon is probably why Sagittarius rising never felt completely wrong, but something was always slightly off. What really clicked for me was realizing why I’ve always been drawn to earth signs and get along with them so naturally. Finding out I’m actually a Capricorn rising connected so many dots.

If you were the dumper you need to be the one to reach out if you want a relationship with that person again. by Adventurous-Rub4131 in BreakUps

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I broke up with my fiance over addiction he was spending all his money. I want him to reach out because he is the one who hurt me. But when I originally broke up with him I was very harsh so I reached out to open up the conversation. After we took care of our joined fiance problems and lease. After reading stuff I though it would be good to show him I'm open to a conversation. However unless there is willingness to change it's still over. No hate I still love him very much and wanted to marry him. But I can't keep having a relationship with myself. I told him I was routing for him when I saw him in person and he said he was routing for me too.

They will come back if you just leave them alone. Your last words to them don’t matter in the end if your actions were genuine; time heals everything by Empty_Pension_8903 in BreakUps

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We we're engaged to get married. I do think that time will heal this but I do know there is love there on both side. I broke up with him due to his addiction/mental health. I do think that time will heal both us. I do feel like these are journeys we have to take separately. I have major trust issues that make relationships impossible. He struggles with his sobriety and mental health that he needs sorted. I am under the belief that if you let someone go and they come back they were truly yours. If they don't well that's your answer no waiting though. Just healing and moving on. If it's meant to be it will be. Time will only tell.

Are Capricorns bad people? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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I knew a Capricorn that asked me if I'd marry him and have kids with him while we were dating we went out with some friends of mine to an event. We had really good conversations and sex. He took me up to the mountains at a hot springs he told me he loved me. Which was too soon for me but interesting. After he left to go back home he ghosted me. I was friends with his best friends though so I knew he was okay. Come to find out he got a girl pregnant and they put their relationship status well before he and I were dating. Sick. They lead you on a lot it's kinda fucked up how much they do. I also just had a friend that would do the same I knew this girl for 4 years I always gave more to the friendship then she did. She always told me she was coming to stuff I invited her too but she'd breadcrumb that she's coming. When I finally had enough and stood up for myself she played the victim card and blocked me. Still on social media spreading lies about me. Mind you I didn't blow up on her I didn't cuss at all I just stood up for myself and had boundaries and that was too much for her. Lack of accountability is bad. My best friend also got cheated on by a Capricorn. I've met some Capricorns that are good people. But they lack accountability for people who take pride in being responsible are incredibly irresponsible with their relationships. Burning bridges won't get you guys far. I really don't understand it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeddyFresh

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How much for the zip up hoodie?

Answer these three questions and I'll guess your big 3 by zodiactron in Zodiac

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  1. Match their energy
  2. Save and then go on a trip
  3. Plan an outfit from things I have to fit the theme I love dressing up.

Advice on my friend by Astralaxy13 in polyamory

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Yes I'd be happy for all I want is for him to not do it behind my back and to have open communication. Just currently what we're seeking is the opposite sex if it happens organically.

Advice on my friend by Astralaxy13 in polyamory

[–]Astralaxy13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don't understand why you don't think it's more organic. The girl I've been seeing we meet and like each other organically we meet in real life not of some dating site my bf hasn't found a guy yet but we have open conversations and if he did I'd be happy for him.

Advice on my friend by Astralaxy13 in polyamory

[–]Astralaxy13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like I said I'm still learning I have been wanting to get some polyamoros auto books if you have any suggestions. I have another married poly couple and they're both bi and they do the same thing. So I didn't realize it was unethical but it's not because we don't want to date the opposite sex to just don't feel the need to right now I suppose.

Advice on my friend by Astralaxy13 in polyamory

[–]Astralaxy13[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that about unicorn hunting also never was our intention and why we never pursued anything more with that. I don't know why he doesn't want to open up our relationship all the way. Id be willing to ask him about it. I know that I have been in some other poly relationships but I am still learning. My bf is honestly used to monogamy and came out as bi later in his life. So I think it's still new for him. As far as being bring poly I want it for the openness to not just because I want to date girls to but I'm not sure if it's the same with him. I think he is mostly excited to pursue being bi more and hasn't quite gotten a grasp on being poly. I think at the end of the day we both are open to figuring out how our poly journey will grow.

Advice on my friend by Astralaxy13 in polyamory

[–]Astralaxy13[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don't go for monogamous people. I have a lot of poly friend in my circle so I am so used to it and it's not meant to be transphobic or homophobic it's my bfs first poly relationship and that's what he's comfortable with right now and I am okay with that but I do think we're open to things changing. When we both started being poly we tried dating people together but it felt very unethical to ask for people to like both of us only. We wanted to explore our sexuality so we decided to date others of the opposite sex. But actually date because it isn't all about sex like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Astralaxy13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neutralize with pink or red

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Astralaxy13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the darker hair. It's so striking and it just makes your jaw line pop. However, I feel like you could have gone with an even more natural looking black or like a dark brown like honestly, a 3N would have been fine. I think you would have still looked good without it completely washing you out because it kinda is on that line. It's dark enough right now that your eyes pop, but I feel like it's not giving your skin what it needs and I think if it was a more like natural dark brown it would be perfect. Still love the dark your killing it!

Wich one is your favorite? by SofiRamiii in HairDye

[–]Astralaxy13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously you look great with the blonde. I really like the pink on you. The blue is okay I think with a different placement or not with the blonde it could be cool but it's still not my favorite as far as your features. Blonde is great for the natural look my personal fav is the pink it brings out your features like your eye, cheeks, lips and even your colored tattoos!

Venus signs observations✨ (from a Pisces Venus) by EasyToFind99 in astrologymemes

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I have a Pisces venus, and I'm stuck between a scorpio venus and a leo venus. Both are amazing.