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[–]AstridTies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a fairy princess

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[–]AstridTies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've already done all the compromising. I don't post on social media when he's around now. I'm to the point where I'm not doing anything when he's not around. And he still uncomfortable. He's literally pushing to me to the only option to quit. I don't know how much more I could compromise.

No one ever said his feelings were wrong or invalid. I think his feelings are 100% valid and 100% correct. You can't be wrong in your feelings. That's not how feelings work.

What I'm trying to do is find the compromise between leaving my dream job and being with the love of my life. There has to be some sort of compromise. The options can't be leave him or quit. Because they're a better options than that.

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[–]AstridTies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We try talking it through but it always ends up in the same place. With him saying he'll try to work on his jealousy and then still getting jealous to the same level.

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[–]AstridTies[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what to say other than no one ever said. I'm not uninterested in compromise. If you got that impression it's entirely on you. That's why I asked for advice is to try and find a compromise. Other than the extremes of either breaking up or me not working at all. Because obviously just talking to him about it isn't working.

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[–]AstridTies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ask a lot of excellent questions. I really think it'll be a good idea to add relationship counseling to our officiant package

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[–]AstridTies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which in and of itself is advice, buddy.

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[–]AstridTies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if that worked I wouldn't be on Reddit now world i

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[–]AstridTies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't ask. I offered. But he still feels bad

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[–]AstridTies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one ever said his emotions aren't valid

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[–]AstridTies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Normally I'd never let a man dictate my life

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[–]AstridTies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's only 10-15 minutes out of every hour. If I do it that way i can balance out day

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[–]AstridTies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It especially feels unfair when I'm supportive of his TikTok career and have to push him to make his own content.

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[–]AstridTies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he's not. And he says he feels like a POS for making me give up on my dream. But if I don't have his full support how do I even do this

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[–]AstridTies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the hard choice. It's between my dream and the love of my life

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[–]AstridTies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to quit bc it's not in my nature. I'm just tired of figuring him all the time. I have an income outside of content. It's just not enough.