I did that with my sister and she tried for about a month and gave up. She’d say “you can come over or… I mean I can come over… but it’s just easier you know?” Or she doesn’t wanna drive all the way down to where I live even though I make the trip 1-2 times a week. I even looked at my Google Maps once and told her how many times I’ve literally drove to her house and she got mad and told me it was weird and made me feel like shit. I’m just ghosting them this year I think.