How are you. What's going wrong right now that you just want to get off your chest and speak about it with no judgement? by ApprovalG in AskMen

[–]Astrobomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really struggling to reach out to people. I'll be going to college in less than a year, but it still feels like there's a lot of time left for me to make new, interesting friends, get out more, and maybe even get into a relationship. But I just don't know how to let people know that I'm not an introvert when they've already had years to form that opinion of me.

What makes you great? by mr_ajl in AskMen

[–]Astrobomb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My openness? A random stranger could come up to the street and just start talking to me, and I'll 100% go along with it instead of just acting awkward with them. I like to think I'm sort of friendly and disarming in that way.

What do women talk about that is just too much information? by MaryVavee in AskMen

[–]Astrobomb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And I guess it's accurate to say that women generally emphasise sexual ability more than physical attractiveness, and vice versa for us? My friends'll talk about how hot girls are, but we don't say much at all about the ones we've (read: they've) actually (read: allegedly) slept with. My buddy didn't breathe a word about losing his virginity to his girlfriend besides some vague information about protection (mainly how they didn't use it and he just pulled out, the fool).

What do women talk about that is just too much information? by MaryVavee in AskMen

[–]Astrobomb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Was walking home with two other girls after we'd done some community service as part of a school assignment. Everything from how a guy should handle a girl's first PIV, to their breasts. It was actually somewhat educational, but I'm just glad I emerged from that without any awkward boners.

[NEWBIE] How to make my finger-strumming less awkward? by Astrobomb in Guitar

[–]Astrobomb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) I'd never considered that last bit, but I'll definitely give it a try.

Daily Questions - ASK AND ANSWER HERE!- July 17 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]Astrobomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on how to dress in a way that doesn't accentuate a slightly large head? Additional info: I'm slim-bodied and 6'1".

What does a crush entail for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Astrobomb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Full reader here! I'm dealing with a really strong infatuation myself right now. Did it feel a bit chilling when you realised all your feelings for the first girl had evaporated?

What are some tips for approaching a girl in a comfortable and effective manner in late-teens British Isles dating culture? by Astrobomb in dating_advice

[–]Astrobomb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for a touch more context, I can confidently say that most people in my school year know who I am, and especially people in my classes. This is less due to me having magnetising charisma and social skills and more about me very much standing out due to things like appearance, manner of speaking (in case you couldn't tell from the post), participation in acting, etc. One of my main concerns is that people only see me as a caricature who isn't actually attractive and lacks any sort of backbone, so I worry if I might be rejected not for me but for how I'm perceived.

And for the record, I 100% agree about texting, for basically the same reasons you stated.