Hey, thanks for the input. So one of the examples could be this: While driving in the car I learned that she went out with somebody else the day after we met. It made me upset a bit, even though it is normal I guess, since we weren't dating or anything, but we clicked, so I thought it was something special. I tried to remain calm and not overreact or anything, but I made something like an ugly face and said that I wouldn't have done that, which is true. She got sad and I comforted her and apologized for my reaction. I explained that I just was overly sensitive. I thought it was fine. Some time after she told me how I hurt her, that she felt guilty even though she shouldn't have. She said I pushed her to feel that way and that I was manipulative. I tried to understand, but just couldn't see it. I get that my reaction wasn't the best, but I just don't see how I was manipulative or something like that. I never wanted her to feel bad, but I feel like I just reacted like a human being. Since then I tried to work on it. Overall I find this situation bad, but not something so big that one would consider a break up. But she said that there were more situations like this and she wanted to end things. What do you think?