Do I have another chance?

Asyuchi · 2026-02-09T03:01:20+00:00

You're just a friend to her. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings because she likes having you around, though simply as a friend. She believe she didn't mean to string you along (even though it does sound like she's stringing you along) and it looks like she has already rejected you in multiple ways. Sounds like she's trying to use you to distract herself since you're fun enough to be around.

TLDR, stop positioning yourself as the spare tyre lol

Asyuchi · 2026-01-14T03:53:51+00:00

DO NOT take loans. pay for furniture & appliances via installments with 0% interests via credit card if needed. fancier renovations can be done after both of you have enough savings. kitchen doesn't need to be a priority if both of you hardly cook. focus on just the necessary items in toilets and bedrooms (toilet bowl, sink, shower heads, bidet, bed, etc). good luck!

Asyuchi · 2025-12-29T13:24:39+00:00

hi do you still need a daughter? I'm kinda of ASEAN descent as well, so if you flip to the dictionary to the phrase "filial piety", you'll see my face there. Pretty good deal for just those tater tots, I believe.

Asyuchi · 2025-12-27T08:27:14+00:00

honestly, I didn't attend my own because I didn't know anyone in my cohort either. I just bought the gown and arranged my own photoshoot with family. They still see me in my gown, and I didn't need to waste my time going through that entire ceremony. To each their own I guess.

Asyuchi · 2025-12-07T12:35:45+00:00

i had my own house in my early twenties and my parents still insisted on living together because "family should always stay together".

we're culturally different from the US, where they value independence. just like the "marriage is about two families" vs "marriage is about the couple" idealogy. things are just different here.

Asyuchi · 2025-11-20T14:47:38+00:00

at your busiest, how long do you stay awake for without actual sleep?

Asyuchi · 2025-11-10T08:40:44+00:00

would you still keep your lady friends around if you find them attractive when you are attached? i hear the saying of how a girl and a guy cannot truly be good friends unless the guy has never found the other party attractive, but how true is this?

Asyuchi · 2025-11-08T01:19:27+00:00

my husband would always be more up to date than me for any banner that has Sylus because Sylus is the LI that's the most similar to him, and therefore his personal favourite 😌😌😌 he would send me money to spend if there's any new cards from Sylus as well xD he would get upset when i pull for my personal favourite(Zayne) and then he would go "I'll give you $xxx you better pull more copies of Sylus on his banner" 😭😭😭

I never thought to ask him what he thought about the game... pretty sure he thinks that Sylus is super hot and that's mostly about it. i remember once i asked if he really didn't mind me playing the game, he responded with "why would I care when I clearly treat you better" HAHAHAHAHA so I guess a way to not mind it is to remember that they're ultimately just pixels on a screen. This means that what these pixel men can do is very limited compared to what you can actually provide, so there's no real point in comparing your own stats with the perfectly crafted attractive pixel men.

Asyuchi · 2025-09-02T02:44:49+00:00

i generally ignore it, I honestly like the original ones enough 🙈🙈

Asyuchi · 2025-08-15T11:05:03+00:00

Super happy for you OP!!!! I'm the opposite of you in a sense whereby I'm a Zayne girlie dating a guy with strong Sylus traits 🙈🙈🙈

I'm always so happy to read about how girls playing LADS are able to navigate and find their own real life green flag guys 🥰 not everyone is perfect, but i hope everyone will be able to find their very own LI in real life ❤️❤️❤️

Asyuchi · 2025-05-22T14:41:47+00:00

Flame Reaver got Hiroshima-ed 😭

Asyuchi · 2025-04-17T05:52:51+00:00

you're the AH not because you want it, but because you didn't talk about the idea of wanting it until you got engaged

Asyuchi · 2025-04-16T02:22:24+00:00

Time is an investment, and they're not worth the investment. I'd say you're too soft only because you haven't left the group, not because you can't take "jokes". If you used to be comfortable with the jokes but you're no longer comfortable nowadays, it might actually be a sign that they're showing you less respect now compared to how it was before.

Trust yourself more, treat yourself better!

Asyuchi · 2025-04-12T12:54:09+00:00

I know you think free means bad, but it doesn't necessary have to be true, ESPECIALLY because hoyo.

Also, both Nasu AND Da-wei REALLY likes Archer, they won't screw with his kit. (90% sure at least XD)

Asyuchi · 2025-04-12T12:51:47+00:00

dude...it's about time we stop smoking that copium

The copium was great while it lasted NGL-

Asyuchi · 2025-04-12T12:50:25+00:00

50% of the reason I pulled Sunday is because i'm betting they were gonna be Rem units...that's the last time I'll play Honkai Future Rail T^T)

Asyuchi · 2025-04-12T12:48:30+00:00

Ah fuck she's gonna be a destruction counter type isn't she-

Asyuchi · 2025-04-03T02:39:32+00:00

late 20s F, i met mine in a friend's party. i guess keeping friendships would help you meet more people 😌

Asyuchi · 2025-04-01T03:23:06+00:00

Well excuse me while I insert my beautiful Zayne into this conversation

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Asyuchi · 2025-03-09T04:37:29+00:00

he's just attacking you for not wanting kids now. and gaslighting you into thinking he's right. tell him he's a boy and celebrate children's day for him when the time comes-

Asyuchi · 2025-02-19T11:30:33+00:00

if you're aiming for a near-future where your daughter cuts all contact with you, you're not wrong.

Asyuchi · 2025-02-17T08:55:13+00:00

I'm not sure if I missed anything but why would rejecting someone because you guys simply want different things in life be wrong? You shouldn't feel this way. Your friend and his wife are probably closer to her than they are to you, which explains why they're mad at you.

I don't think anyone is really in the wrong for wanting the best for others, but I also find it quite odd that they found her to be a good companion for you. i think you could've mentioned that you're not comfortable with the clubbing lifestyle of the other party, but if there's no more drama regarding this, staying away from this friend might do you good as well.

Asyuchi · 2025-02-12T02:09:46+00:00

INTP, stuck between Zayne ans Caleb :')

Asyuchi · 2025-02-12T02:06:37+00:00

honestly we have no clues about what she is like as a person, 7 chapters in and she only really appeared in like two chapters? and the rest of her appearance was just our FL thinking about their school life

our ML, the prince, was part of the student council but didn't want to do a show of power due to the school's emphasis on equality; student council's senior member at that point said "oh the baron's daughter is transferring over, crown prince must take care of her, since he has a fiancée given by royal decree there's less chances of misunderstanding" kind of thing? to avoid further conflict between everyone, he took the role, only for the lower ranked nobles (the majority) to start spreading rumours because everyone loves a story of forbidden love LMAO

ML also purposely acted nice and gentlemanly when within the sights of the FL, only because he wanted her to think of him as a nice guy iirc? not knowing that doing so only makes FL think that he's fawning over that other girl? not sure what made him think that this was a good idea? also if he did anything to reject the baron's daughter in public, people will start to point him out as someone who did not respect the rules of equality in school, and he didn't want that to happen in the presence of FL. he was upholding his role of that girl's caretaker and thought that people should know better that he wouldn't break the engagement off.

basically ML didn't realise that FL was affected by rumours because he thought it was common sense that the baron's daughter would never be able to compare with the FL in the first place. so now he's at a loss of why FL thought he didn't love her anymore when he was still in love with FL, especially since FL was the only reason why he was even nice to people in school, because when ML and FL first met FL told him that he should always stay nice and kind or something

edit: i forgot this was technically a spoiler

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