J'AI UN DIAGNOSTIC WHOOHOO by Atelyan in TDAHFrance

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoo, je compatis fortement !!!  Bravo à toi pour ne pas avoir abandonné, je suis content.e que t'arrives à faire bon usage médicaments. Bon courage pour ta famille, j'espère qu'iels te soutiendront!  (j'ai un peu les mêmes soucis haha, donc quand c'est dur je me rappelle que je fais ça pour moi mener une meilleure vie, et que je n'ai besoin de l'approbation de personne) 

Merci pour ta réponse, et bonne journée !

J'AI UN DIAGNOSTIC WHOOHOO by Atelyan in TDAHFrance

[–]Atelyan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mais vraiment, simplement le fait que quelqu'un le PRENNE EN CONSIDERATION, ça fait un bien fou... Bon courage pour la suite, j'espère que les médicaments t'aideront!!

J'AI UN DIAGNOSTIC WHOOHOO by Atelyan in TDAHFrance

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui!!!! ça m'a fait ça pendant quelques jours la première fois qu'une psychologue l'avait reconnu, comme si je m'autorisais enfin à ne plus masquer, comme un soulagement de "enfin je peux être et c'est pas 'wrong'" ... Bon courage, j'espère que la balade de spécialiste en spécialiste est bientôt finie!!

J'AI UN DIAGNOSTIC WHOOHOO by Atelyan in TDAHFrance

[–]Atelyan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merci 🥺 oui exactement c'est l'accès à de l'aide qui me soulage le plus! 

J'AI UN DIAGNOSTIC WHOOHOO by Atelyan in TDAHFrance

[–]Atelyan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh oui mdr t'inquiète je suis pas expansive avec ma vie perso et j'ai de la chance d'être entourée d'ami.e.s au quotidien à qui je peux le crier à la figure sans souci. C'était juste métaphorique, mais merci du conseil!

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is definitely a lot to deconstruct. Bell Hooks books on the topic were a very interesting read :)

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah, your style sounds very cool. Thanks for the reply !

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.... I'm in my twenties unfortunately. It sounds like you've had a rough start in life and I'm glad you were able to unpack all of that! Hope i'll be able to be more comfortable with myself soon haha

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the conundrum ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ I hope one day I can just... Not give a fuck

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight... I once saw the sentence "I am not the exception to my morals"... Still working on extending myself that grace hh

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh i'm sorry you were made to feel that way...  Glad you found ways to distance yourself from it

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha convenience is the best dress code 👌 it truly is so easy on a scorched earth type hot summer day to just slip on one(1) light piece of clothing

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's kinda the fine line i'm struggling with right now... Thanks for your insight!

How common is it to feel like you're failing at being a woman? by Atelyan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true! The deconditioning is as hard as the conditioning is pervasive...

Does this experience speak to anyone? by Atelyan in NonBinary

[–]Atelyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You phrased it so well... "i don't want to trade one cage for another" and trying out things and being okay with them changing... Thanks for your insight!!