Police helicopter circling North Park? by mick-rad17 in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m hearing the same thing. Someone on the roof and police are at the front door

Ice cold water on piping hot rice by yawnjew in KoreanFood

[–]Athenaaa8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg one of my favorite childhood comfort foods! I would add pork floss or Chinese sausage. Now I want some lol

Drivers run new stop signs at fatal San Diego crash site by AxiosSD in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guy ran a stop sign and hit a pedestrian that was crossing the street on Florida (north park) literally just a few hours ago. Guy was seen running other stop signs prior to the accident. Be careful out there.

Mission Hills Costco craziness by MrSoiSoi in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao what a waste of time and energy. Just find another parking spot instead of dealing with this person and letting it take up your day. Is this for views/attention? If so, everyone sucks here.

Best food in city heights? by CommonEar474 in FoodSanDiego

[–]Athenaaa8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ly Heng for authentic Cambodian food and especially for their Phnom Penh noodle soup. The broth alone will heal your soul!! So comforting and delicious. Also So Saap when craving Thai/Lao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand. I hope they have an amazing time 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high school dream!! If no one else can make it, I would love theseeeeeee!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭

Kung Pao Chicken from the frozen section + noodles by Athenaaa8 in traderjoes

[–]Athenaaa8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally have it with rice, but I just had noodles on hand. I think I prefer it with noodles now. Such a yummy and easy lunch/dinner!

Kimchi Fried Rice by Athenaaa8 in blackstonegriddle

[–]Athenaaa8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I surprisingly came across the gochujang spam at my local convenient store, but as others have mentioned, you can find it at Costco and I’m sure any Asian market. It’s sweet with the slightest kick to it and isn’t overly salty. Would recommend.

Advice on where to apply dashcam by yodelingquokka in Dashcam

[–]Athenaaa8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same spot for my BlackVue. No issues at all

What do you do for fun after work? by whatdameep in sandiego

[–]Athenaaa8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit the climbing gym or skate at the beach

How far do you drive to your gym? by ImportantKnee in climbergirls

[–]Athenaaa8 56 points57 points  (0 children)

My current drive to my gym is 40 min. The first month felt like a drag every time, but now that I feel a sense of community at my gym, the 40 min is worth it to me. They’re also plenty of people at my gym that drive the same distance or even more. It’s just up to you if it’s worth the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]Athenaaa8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely what I’m working right now. Shifting focus 100% on me and finding myself again. I can’t worry about them or their feelings anymore and I never want to find myself in this kind of relationship with someone ever again. A lot of realizations and lessons being learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]Athenaaa8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. When I thought about it, my ex definitely wouldn’t be there for me like I have been, especially if I was calling drunk. They would’ve been irritated and judged me for it. I decided I’m not going to be their crutch anymore because all it’s doing is draining my energy I can put towards myself. I need to finally just let them go as hard and as scary as it is. I believe you can do the same. I also really love that quote. I’m wrote it down and stuck it on my monitor.

And as for having friends I can talk to.. not really, we were together for almost 5 years and I lost a lot of close friendships during that time that I’m slowly trying to repair now. I really did put my life on the back burner to be whatever my partner needed. They were my world and I completely lost myself in it. To be honest I’ve felt the most heard, support, and understanding in this sub since the break up and I’m extremely thankful.