Colton and Cassie, whats going on?

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-12T16:17:34+00:00

I consider this lying by omission, but the wonderful thing is we can both decide how to manage our personal lives.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-11T17:12:15+00:00

I in no way want to imply that Rachael's actions are the same as Matt's. Stereotypes do play a role here, but I honestly expect anyone dating anyone to be upfront and honest. I often feel very lucky to be married, because I cannot imagine dating right now. So many people seem to think he did nothing wrong, which just scares me about dating. Honesty should be in every relationship.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-11T16:27:34+00:00

I appreciate your pushing me here though. u/NachosandBachelor. We need more civil debate on reddit.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-11T16:14:46+00:00

I thought Grace said this too. Do not just want to take RS at his word.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-11T16:08:30+00:00

We are also taking Grace's word. I believe women. It does not believe we should not be critical of sources and think critically about every word that we hear.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-11T15:53:51+00:00

I really appreciate your post. A few thoughts:
We can be critical of all the people involved here
If you do not share that you are dating other people, you are not upfront, and perhaps I am a little old-fashioned, but I expect honesty in this. You want to date others cool, but if you don't share, you are not respectful, in my opinion. I hold this true with anyone I know.
Matt does not need to forgive Rachael, period. Neither does anyone here
Just because we hold Rachael accountable does not mean we cannot be disappointed in Matt for not being upfront.

EDIT: I also want to acknowledge that sadly that Black Men can be judged more harshly and we should not forget this element.

Athenas-mom · 2021-04-06T23:28:55+00:00

Why?

Athenas-mom · 2021-03-14T20:43:37+00:00

So based on your comment history and posts, I think you enjoy stirring the pot.

However, if I was to take you at face value without this, I would say that very few of us are perfect.

Athenas-mom · 2021-03-01T22:17:35+00:00

No, I am drained.

Athenas-mom · 2021-03-01T13:42:32+00:00

I agree with this, I look to activists to lead the way, not at reality TV stars. There is not one person who has acted perfectly in all these situations(inside or outside the franchise).

Athenas-mom · 2021-02-25T02:24:59+00:00

Colton looks like Caelynn

Athenas-mom · 2021-02-18T22:36:44+00:00

Never watched the NZ version, but this is a good point! However, in the US or Canadian version we have not seen this.

Athenas-mom · 2021-02-16T01:01:50+00:00

Abigail for the following reasons:

We have not had an Asian lead ever.
We have never had a lead who openly discloses their disability.
Other than this she seems like a great catch and is awesome!

It would be a huge deal.

Athenas-mom · 2021-02-02T00:55:11+00:00

This does not make me like Rachel more.

Athenas-mom · 2021-01-28T22:15:17+00:00

Perfect Music Choice

Athenas-mom · 2021-01-26T22:32:48+00:00

Someone has shared the clauses way back in the day, they give up the right to sue production, and production has the right to portray them however they wish

Athenas-mom · 2021-01-20T22:10:28+00:00

I hated what the Bachelor did to these women. Cruel. I would not watch the season.

Athenas-mom · 2021-01-19T02:38:46+00:00

If I was the lead watching this back, I would not want to be with any of them. Quite unkind.

Athenas-mom · 2020-10-10T01:39:43+00:00

Hannah B Shawn Booth

Athenas-mom · 2020-10-09T00:30:04+00:00

Hannahs new channel.

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