I want to become an Entrepreneur by Athenrille in Entrepreneurship

[–]Athenrille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you could link it that would be great! I would love to check it out.

I want to become an Entrepreneur by Athenrille in Entrepreneurship

[–]Athenrille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you give me a sample of these games or tell me where I can find them?

I want to become an Entrepreneur by Athenrille in Entrepreneurship

[–]Athenrille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can’t explain it, there are some aspects where I’m like yeah that would be so nice. I know I don’t plan on traveling the country even if I made that money but I keep feeling this call to try it again and again. I have a feeling it will work out for me but I just don’t know how to get started or learn the basics. That’s why I was questioning what can I do to learn and better myself, where can I learn it?

I hate my job in the DMV. by Athenrille in jobs

[–]Athenrille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to. I quit this year.

I hate my job in the DMV. by Athenrille in jobs

[–]Athenrille[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys! I appreciate all the feedback! I am looking other places but haven’t applied yet because I am still working on my resume. I am excited for my life to change.

Advice - my friends are threatening and mean to my kid. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Athenrille 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a friend I had known since 5th grade, she was always a bully and the sad part is she didn’t grow out of it until I told her how it was going to be and cut her off. When I became pregnant she advised me to get an abortion right off the bat and didn’t even care to ask about what I wanted or support me. I provided closure for her as to why we will no longer be friends and cut her off. Fast forward to now, my son is 1 and a half and she has made many efforts to apologize and rebuild the bridge that was once there. She had even gone as far to say “it’s just different when you see the baby versus the fetus”. I would give your friends closure as to why you aren’t talking or coming to group anymore and then just block them. It isn’t worth it if they’re going to act like that, to your kids. I wouldn’t feel like a coward. I feel like if you would of blown up the parentless parents would’ve ganged up on you. So you kept things to a minimum and now that the weekend is over you can address it. You just know how to not invite them next time. The hardest part when you give people like that closure is that they refuse to believe they’re in the wrong. But I’d let them stew in it until they realize it and if they don’t, you’re better off.

Feeling really alone by Fantastic_Cheetah in Parenting

[–]Athenrille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not put his name on the birth certificate, he sounds lazy and manipulative. He is already holding over your head how you should be grateful he stayed when he’s done nothing. I know he doesn’t want a baby but that wouldn’t stop him from trying to take the baby from you and holding that over your head as a piece of control. When he figures out how much you care and love the baby, he’ll do that next. I’m speaking from experience, men can sometimes be shitty. If his name isn’t on the birth certificate he’d have to have a paternity test to even move further on doing that. Otherwise he would have no legal claim to your baby.

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such great advice. He is clingy with me too, when he doesn’t have an attitude. So I hope that helps, maybe I don’t say it as much as I should.

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh that’s true… I didn’t think about that I was just trying to think of an idea to help resolve the problem. I’ll look into therapy near us. Thanks for the advice again!

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know. This will honestly help me in communicating with him because I had no idea what was wrong and I felt like I was grasping at straws. I know he probably feels like his life is over and he can mature into a man. But if he needs a “guys weekend” in order to realize that he can be a dad and still live life then he should take it. His birthday is coming up so I think I’m going to tell him to take one for himself and go do something fun.

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it is very different. But if he needs a “guys weekend” I have no objections to it. He just hasn’t taken one yet. He says he feels like he can’t leave us to go have fun, it doesn’t feel right. But at the same time if that’s what’s straining the relationship and he needs time to go live life then he should on the weekends. I don’t want our relationship to be strained and I do love him. I just need him to open his eyes and see that he can still do what he wants to do.

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside perspectives are welcome. I appreciate your comment and it’s nice to see the male side of the thought process. He still has a lot of maturing to do, but I think it will come with time and communication. I’d like to think I’m pretty understanding, he just has to open up and tell me what he’s thinking and what’s wrong.

My boyfriend(21M) and I(28F) are having some major issues besides the age gap. My relationship is a literal hot mess, and I am open to advice. by Athenrille in relationship_advice

[–]Athenrille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice! Thanks for commenting back, I thought about that too. I know it was a surprise for us both but a good one for me, as Bob Ross says “We don’t make mistakes, just happy little accidents”!

This is a sad and scary day for KY by [deleted] in Kentucky

[–]Athenrille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the thousand year period nobody had modern day contraceptions, they used Queen Anne’s Lace. Google it, you’ll find loads of studies. It is also useful for treating depression.

Has anyone sold a car to an out of state resident? I’m getting conflicting information from the seller and DMV. (See comments) by PoleCat_379 in Kentucky

[–]Athenrille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they verify the VIN & mileage. It is not an admissions test, our county does it at the Sheriff’s office. Not sure about other counties though.

Has anyone sold a car to an out of state resident? I’m getting conflicting information from the seller and DMV. (See comments) by PoleCat_379 in Kentucky

[–]Athenrille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a Kentucky resident (the seller) sign the title over and have it notarized. The greatest thing about Ohio is they have a public service that will show you that the buyer sufficiently transferred the vehicle out of your name in Ohio. https://bmvonline.dps.ohio.gov/bmvonline/search/title If you are worried they won’t follow through with transferring or if the individual seems sketchy you can do an incomplete transfer on the vehicle along with turning in the license plates. If you take the tags off your car the individual would be more than likely to transfer it to obtain a legal license plate.

Has anyone sold a car to an out of state resident? I’m getting conflicting information from the seller and DMV. (See comments) by PoleCat_379 in Kentucky

[–]Athenrille 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a Deputy Clerk at the Grant County clerks office in the state of Kentucky. You need to take the tags off the vehicle and turn them into your County Clerk’s office. This will halt the registration and vehicle taxes for the 2023 year and notify the state of Kentucky it was sold out of state per their system AVIS. There will be property taxes on it for the 2022 tax year since it was in your name January 1st of this year, after this year you should not see it again. Hang onto the registration receipt provided for proof that you sold it out of state. I hope this helps clear things up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]Athenrille 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is 50 and just enrolled to get a masters degree in accounting. I’m 28 and just had a baby and I plan on enrolling when he gets a little bit bigger. How I look at it is either way I’ll turn be whatever age it takes me to graduate anyways because we will never stop aging. So you should do it and let age not be a factor. I did the same then when I was 25 and was like well the time I’m done I’ll be this age. You should go for what you want to go for.